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rocco_s

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I have used SA and have had good and bad experiences.

There are pros and scammers on there so beware.

Best to create banter and let them proposition you.

Some bad signs are demanding to be paid for a platonic date. My advice is NEVER EVER pay for dates. There are so many girls on the site who are up for dinner.

Another scam some run is they set-up a date and say they are short rent a few days before the date. Do not fall for it.

Some will try and get you to etransfer money for gas one hour before the date.

It is best to arrange pay per meets if intimacy is involved.

I had experienced some doozies but have had some amazing experiences.

The pay per meet range I stick to is $300-400. I was seeing a university student who I paid $300 to do overnights with.

I also helped her with some of her daily expenses.

The going rate is $400 for dinner and a few hours of intimacy.

Do not ever buy any items for girls you do not have a long-term relationship with.

Do not prepay them. Only pay them when you meet.

It takes a while to weed them out with dates etc - but there are some gems out there on this site and the roi is pretty good.
 

rocco_s

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Those scammers and free loaders are just a major turn-off. Is it really worth all that effort?
There are a lot of scammers. Some girls want $1000 pay pet meet. Some demand $6000/month in terms of an allowance. There is a lot of sifting. But there are some gems here and there. Best to block girls with entitled rude behavior right away. There is a steady supply of girls signing up for the site.
 

Jugo

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I assume you live in Toronto? Those prices are very high compared Ottawa. I have never paid more than $200 and usually less. Of course the really hot girls are hard to reach and do ask more ...
 

jalimon

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The OP has some very interesting advice!

If you are really looking for escort type relation look for girl who have the setting: Friends with benefit

Do not be too direct via SA's messaging system. I got banned because I was discussing my intention way too early. Get or give email address early on.

Avoid monthly allowance!! It's a trap. It will work the first month but the second suddenly unexpected events will happen and the girl will cancel...

I dont know about Toronto but in Montreal girl of SA in the city are very expensive! In the 30 minutes away suburbs it's a different story. I hooked up with 2 great girl who ended up asking me 150 to 300 for session of 1 to 4 hours... All included! One is a young 22 year old teacher who likes the thrill of meeting me because I do stuff her bf do not care to do. Experience helps even if we do not have a 6 pack belly haha So SA is great for suburb dudes really try it!

Cheers,
 

NiceToMeetYou

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One is a young 22 year old teacher who likes the thrill of meeting me because I do stuff her bf do not care to do. Experience helps even if we do not have a 6 pack belly haha So SA is great for suburb dudes really try it!

Cheers,
You mean DATY with 2 digits or 69 LOL...
 

yababy1

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I too have had good and bad on there. As mentioned, some want $200 just to meet first time, wtf? If you go super hot, you are going to super pay, they aren't stupid however, if you want a pretty and reasonable experience, take your time, try a coffee meet and most important, DO NOT DISCUSS MONEY AND SEX ON THE SITE

Posted already and happened to me, your convo may be monitored or bait girls may be used but I to was banned (no refund fyi) for the content of my discussion. My rule, meet in person, discuss in person, make no promises on the site, text or email (your own email) if you want to get comfortable before a meet.


Always ppm to start, if allowance after, go weekly, if she flakes then youre not out a lot


$250 - $400 seems a reasonable ppm, don't forget you'llprobably buy dinner and maybe get a room so add it up and think about the fabulous super hot escorts for way less or even super hot independents you could get for the money


I think the mental thrill is banging a non pro , especially some pretty university chick


I have lots of SA experience, feel free to PM with questions
 

rocco_s

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I agree with a lot of the comments on here. Never EVER do a monthly allowance at the start. Best to go pay per meet. Best to discuss finances via text.

I like seeing girls of SA as a lot of the ones I end up seeing are university students and very bright. Main thing is to screen the scammers. Never ever pay for a platonic date or gift them unless you have an extended relationship. I dropped a number of them at the first sign of them asking me for more than the initial agreement or them asking me for gifts.
 

havingfun

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Where do the sexual encounters take place? Her place? Hotel? Your place? If they occur at your place, then she knows where you live. Are you not worried that she may turn up at your place and go all psycho on you, once you end the "relationship"?
 

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All included! One is a young 22 year old teacher who likes the thrill of meeting me because I do stuff her bf do not care to do. Experience helps even if we do not have a 6 pack belly haha So SA is great for suburb dudes really try it!

Cheers,
This is exactly what I'm looking for. The teacher's that I've dated in the past all got off work at 3 or 4 pm and had tons of free time after yoga to mess around but were on a budget and wanted a big trip each summer when they were off for 2 months. It almost was too good bc they were around kids or other women all day, and I was there to just have fun at 4pm.
 

Zoot Allures

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I have used SA and have had good and bad experiences.

There are pros and scammers on there so beware.

Best to create banter and let them proposition you.

Some bad signs are demanding to be paid for a platonic date. My advice is NEVER EVER pay for dates. There are so many girls on the site who are up for dinner.

Another scam some run is they set-up a date and say they are short rent a few days before the date. Do not fall for it.

Some will try and get you to etransfer money for gas one hour before the date.

It is best to arrange pay per meets if intimacy is involved.

I had experienced some doozies but have had some amazing experiences.

The pay per meet range I stick to is $300-400. I was seeing a university student who I paid $300 to do overnights with.

I also helped her with some of her daily expenses.

The going rate is $400 for dinner and a few hours of intimacy.

Do not ever buy any items for girls you do not have a long-term relationship with.

Do not prepay them. Only pay them when you meet.

It takes a while to weed them out with dates etc - but there are some gems out there on this site and the roi is pretty good.
How long does it take to meet someone you like? Do they have a premium plan you need to buy to score?
 

shack

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I dropped a number of them at the first sign of them asking me for more than the initial agreement or them asking me for gifts.
That irks me to no end. The first time, I tell them that I always honour my commitment to them and if I do gift them after a while it is because I want to, not because they ask me and that when they do ask it puts a strain on the relationship because they are putting me on the spot. A second request is worthy of a dumping.
 

shack

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Are you not worried that she may turn up at your place and go all psycho on you, once you end the "relationship"?
And how is that different from dating any girl, SA or not?
 

havingfun

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And how is that different from dating any girl, SA or not?
It is not different. But I don't date. And it is different from doing an outcall from an agency. The outcall SP does not have expectations of an ongoing relationship. I am just wondering if an SA girl might have that expectation and if a "client" dumps her in the early innings, might there be a concern that she will go out of her way to embarrass or harass a "client"? Therefore do guys who use SA girls avoid bringing them to their homes? Or is that of little concern? Do the girls put up dramatic scenes when they are dumped (even if the dumping is done ever so gently).
 

rocco_s

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Most of these girls do not have cars so them stalking you is not an issue.

I only had one girl stalk and harass me but it stopped after awhile.

I usually take them to my place and have never had issues.

These girls have been dumped multiple times.

You guys do not need to worry about hurting their feelings.

Best advice is to meet them for dinner - do NOT ever compensate them for the dinner if it is platonic.

Always remember they may bail on you last minute or demand cash to show up - do not become frustrated or disappointed.

Try and target the girls who are in university - they are less mercenary like.

The following were a few good to average relationships I had:

1. College girl with a boyfriend. Amazing body and did everything I wanted. Mixed background. very smart and young - 19 years old. I would see her at her place while her bf was at work or she came to my place. The sex was wild and she was very submissive. It ended because she did not want to continue cheating on her bf. $400 for outings sex and overnights.

2. University student. Very submissive and sweet. Did it all except rim me. 24 yo Blonde spinner. $300-400 for meet-ups and overnights. I stopped seeing her because she lived far away and could not commute as much.

3. Retail worker. Hot as fuck but dumb as hell. 25 yo brunette. Not as sexually adventurous. $400 per meet. I stopped communicating with her.

4. College girl. $400/meet. Amazing body. Very submissive and compliant. I dumped her after she asked for more money than we agreed to.

There are A LOT of girls on the site up for fun. Just need to spend some time.
 

shack

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Most of these girls do not have cars so them stalking you is not an issue.

I only had one girl stalk and harass me but it stopped after awhile.

I usually take them to my place and have never had issues.

These girls have been dumped multiple times.

You guys do not need to worry about hurting their feelings.

Best advice is to meet them for dinner - do NOT ever compensate them for the dinner if it is platonic.

Always remember they may bail on you last minute or demand cash to show up - do not become frustrated or disappointed.

Try and target the girls who are in university - they are less mercenary like.

The following were a few good to average relationships I had:

1. College girl with a boyfriend. Amazing body and did everything I wanted. Mixed background. very smart and young - 19 years old. I would see her at her place while her bf was at work or she came to my place. The sex was wild and she was very submissive. It ended because she did not want to continue cheating on her bf. $400 for outings sex and overnights.

2. University student. Very submissive and sweet. Did it all except rim me. 24 yo Blonde spinner. $300-400 for meet-ups and overnights. I stopped seeing her because she lived far away and could not commute as much.

3. Retail worker. Hot as fuck but dumb as hell. 25 yo brunette. Not as sexually adventurous. $400 per meet. I stopped communicating with her.

4. College girl. $400/meet. Amazing body. Very submissive and compliant. I dumped her after she asked for more money than we agreed to.

There are A LOT of girls on the site up for fun. Just need to spend some time.
Mirrors my experiences. The last year or two I have been getting away with $250-300.
 

Johnny Utah

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I did give it a go many months ago.

Spammers. Ghosters.

Even the messages started to disappear, on their end, after awhile.

Guess one has to move quick?

Do you do the faded picture as the profile and then the clear picture privately?
 
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