Wife Ex-Prostitute

[Mr Deeds]

Do woman find out that their husbands used to be clients or still are ? hopefully not for your sake either ………….. it goes both ways

Well said

 

[Mr Deeds]

Id be so out of there. thats nasty.

I see so its ok to fuck them and use them to play out your dirty little fantasies. But god forgive you should think of them a real human beings. This is this old double standard that a man is a stud because he's had so many women but a woman is treated like,well, lets just say something different, if she has so many men. nothing hypocritical about you .

 

[blackrock13]

I see so its ok to fuck them and use them to play out your dirty little fantasies. But god forgive you should think of them a real human beings. This is this old double standard that a man is a stud because he's had so many women but a woman is treated like,well, lets just say something different, if she has so many men. nothing hypocritical about you .

CE has for quite a while, shown himself to be be a misogynist 1st class. Most of his diatribe gets ignored by most on here.

 

[Curious36]

I see so its ok to fuck them and use them to play out your dirty little fantasies. But god forgive you should think of them a real human beings. This is this old double standard that a man is a stud because he's had so many women but a woman is treated like,well, lets just say something different, if she has so many men. nothing hypocritical about you .

Im also a self admitted hypocrite here.....just cant wrap my brain around the fact. Give me shit if you want....but my choice to be a hypocrite....

 

[scdave2003]

Do some people have stories of marriages where the husband found out later that the wife used to be a prostitute?

My next wife will be an ex-prostitute, already got her picked out and have told her that I'll be coming for her. She didn't go running from the room.

 

[TeasePlease]

Im also a self admitted hypocrite here.....just cant wrap my brain around the fact. Give me shit if you want....but my choice to be a hypocrite....

It is not hypocritical, IMO. Choosing to see an escort is not the same paradigm as choosing a life partner.

Its also a matter of what baggage is brought.

 

[red]

My next wife will be an ex-prostitute, already got her picked out and have told her that I'll be coming for her. She didn't go running from the room.

Was the door locked?

 

[versitile1]

Who told you about my wife?!??

 

[yung_dood]

He's a self proclaimed hypocrite. On a number of issues.

Totally agree, he's a fake lib.

 

[gibsomstreet]

Do some people have stories of marriages where the husband found out later that the wife used to be a prostitute?

Seriously, I could imagine that in certain Asian or EE "mail-order" cases.

 

[versitile1]

I was initially hesitant to share this but what the hell... Part of the reason I began to hobby is I caught my gf cheating on me red handed while I was away on business. She was in denial for so long but I eventually outsmarted her and caught her in a string of lies. I wholeheartedly no strings attached forgave her but then it made sense why we stopped having regular sex. So I thought, oh well, fuck it, I need sex too. Interestingly Her defence was that I had cheated on my previous gf when I met her but this was an entirely different situation as I was just dating her and the other girl... There was no discussion of exclusivity. Of course the cheating happened a full year after we moved in together and I was already kind of stuck after this point.

Another part is, in spite of my forgiveness we were kind of never the same and now we just try to avoid one another. Any interaction with her is her bitching or complaining about something. I actually would rather be doing work or alone in the office.

Lastly, it turned out my previous fiancé was a high end escort completely unbeknownst to me. She got caught in some crazy american sting operation and I had to find this out by googling her name. I always wondered why she went to New York so often to see her former friends. She was a former model so I just bought the excuse that it was to meet her x modelling friends. She did try to sit down and tell me something in the weeks after I proposed saying there was something she needed to tell me... But if seemed like I was more interested in studying for exams than giving her the time or opportunity to speak.

After that I joined terb and other review places trying to see if I could find out who she was...hence I was a long time lurker. I never did find any pics that resembled her though. She was an incredibly bright person and we still keep in touch now and she came completely clean and told me everything in an epic phone conversation. I tried to actively tell sps I've seen in canada not to do anything in the USA because of this but I never really wanted to disclose why I was advising them not to go as I didn't want to have to share this story. I don't think I would have crossed the line into hobbying had it not been for the combination of all three.

Link and review?

 

[The Oracle]

I was initially hesitant to share this but what the hell... Part of the reason I began to hobby is I caught my gf cheating on me red handed while I was away on business. She was in denial for so long but I eventually outsmarted her and caught her in a string of lies. I wholeheartedly no strings attached forgave her but then it made sense why we stopped having regular sex. So I thought, oh well, fuck it, I need sex too. Interestingly Her defence was that I had cheated on my previous gf when I met her but this was an entirely different situation as I was just dating her and the other girl... There was no discussion of exclusivity. Of course the cheating happened a full year after we moved in together and I was already kind of stuck after this point.

Another part is, in spite of my forgiveness we were kind of never the same and now we just try to avoid one another. Any interaction with her is her bitching or complaining about something. I actually would rather be doing work or alone in the office.

Lastly, it turned out my previous fiancé was a high end escort completely unbeknownst to me. She got caught in some crazy american sting operation and I had to find this out by googling her name. I always wondered why she went to New York so often to see her former friends. She was a former model so I just bought the excuse that it was to meet her x modelling friends. She did try to sit down and tell me something in the weeks after I proposed saying there was something she needed to tell me... But it seemed like I was more interested in studying for exams than giving her the time or opportunity to speak.

After that I joined terb and other review places trying to see if I could find out who she was...hence I was a long time lurker. I never did find any pics that resembled her though. She was an incredibly bright person and we still keep in touch now and she came completely clean and told me everything in an epic phone conversation. Initially she was keen on meeting up but when she realized I have a gf now she got upset and didn't want to meet saying it wouldn't be fair for my current gf. She is probably right and wise though I probably wouldn't be able to stop myself from embracing her. It pains me to this day as I find myself playing the what if game or dreaming about how things may have been different if I just took the time to let her tell me. I distinctly still remember telling her that if it's going to take more than an hour I have to do it after my final exam.

I since tried to actively tell sps I've seen in canada not to do anything in the USA because of this but I never really wanted to disclose why I was advising them not to go as I didn't want to have to share this story. If it could happen to her (someone I considered to be very intelligent ) it could potentially happen to anyone. I don't think I would have crossed the line into hobbying had it not been for the combination of all three. I've always been asked by every escort why I hobby, well now they know. I only told one escort some of the above stuff but I am not sure if it added any value to our interaction or chemistry...in the end she just used all the stuff I was honest about against me in a fit of rage.

In any event I've shared everything I possibly can now with terb. I have enjoyed my time here. Hopefully I can stay away now that the bore of the holidays is behind and focus entirely on work.

So in answer to danjay... Who seems somewhat clueless about stuff, having actually dated an sp, unknowingly, I am pretty sure these ladies are just human and are not all evil gold digging women motivated only by greed. I've made the mistake of trying to impress women with $ too when I was a lot younger and actually had no $... But very few normal well adjusted women (some of whom could be sps) do not look for this in their partners. I was a dirt poor student when I met her... She probably just saw my potential at the time and recognized I had something unique to bring to the table.

Good read and thanks for sharing

 

[Ms.FemmeFatale]

That would come as a blessing for their marriage.

Ex-SP + Hobbyist = Match made in heaven

Ex-SP + ex-hobbyist would better I think

I see so its ok to fuck them and use them to play out your dirty little fantasies. But god forgive you should think of them a real human beings. This is this old double standard that a man is a stud because he's had so many women but a woman is treated like,well, lets just say something different, if she has so many men. nothing hypocritical about you .

This is TERB, it is all about double standards. LOL

Im also a self admitted hypocrite here.....just cant wrap my brain around the fact. Give me shit if you want....but my choice to be a hypocrite....

You don't think all the women you are tricking into sex right now have not had another cock or 10 in them? Give your head a shake.

It is not hypocritical, IMO. Choosing to see an escort is not the same paradigm as choosing a life partner.

Its also a matter of what baggage is brought.

It is hypocritical. If you meet her, fall in love with her and want her only, what difference does it make if she was an ex hooker or an ex cashier, or ex "whatever"

 

[WoodPeckr]

We all have baggage, but if she's been a good wife, partner, mother, and not passed on any medical gifts, who the hell should care.

Glad you two were able to work things out!.....:thumb:

 

[blackrock13]

Glad you two were able to work things out!.....:thumb:

Huh?

 

[MissCroft]

Some guys are fine with it.


I briefly dated someone around this time last year and one night we got on the topic of prostitution and he had confessed to me that he had seen several escorts all over the world. (He travelled a lot for his work). I said it wasn't a big deal because I used to be an escort. He was relieved because he "thought I would judge him".

Okay, so I lied.... I told him that it was in the past even though I was still doing it here and there. But then I confessed because I felt guilty. He basically called me a whore, was nasty to me (told me I sucked dick like a hooker - whatever that means?) and didn't want anything to do with me after that. He said dating a whore would be against his Irish Catholic upbringing. Hyprocrite.

 

[Aardvark154]

Okay, so I lied.... I told him that it was in the past even though I was still doing it here and there. But then I confessed because I felt guilty. He basically called me a whore, was nasty to me. . .Hyprocrite.

Sorry you were hurt.

I do believe that many men are OK with things they know are in the past, it is the currently that gets under our skins. Can their be some or a lot of hypocrisy here - yes.

 

[fuji]

Then again we have FUJI who clearly shows that he's not a one women kinda guy, but would turf his wife out to the curb if she was found to be cheating on him.

Absolutely. It is the right decision. Sticking around after that is just sentimentality for a past that is either now gone or maybe never existed. There are other fish in the sea, and I can easily find a new one if she cheats.

 

[MissCroft]

the more i rewind my experience, I see that she at multiple times tried to probe my views on sex work and tried to come out to me. I said some stupid simpleton remarks which probably prevented her from feeling comfortable telling me. i simply didn't clue into what she was trying to do at the time.

I am sad to see your "friend" punished you for being honest and upfront. Do not expect most guys to be cool with it though... it's human nature to be hypocritical. i suspect if he really loved you he would have overlooked this. I honestly don't know what I would have done as every case has it's particulars.

To be fair, he did try to accept it at first but I guess he couldn't. He told me that it upset him a lot and the subsequent times I saw him after 'coming out', he was never as nice to me as before. He did get downright nasty at times. Went back a couple times and tried to work it out but I guess it was just a lost cause.

Lesson learned that people should be upfront and honest right away but what woman is going to tell a guy on the first date that she's a prostitute? Or a man tell his date that he 'hobbies'. Not an easy thing to do..... I think I'll just be off the dating scene for a while.

 

[great bear]

To be fair, he did try to accept it at first but I guess he couldn't. He told me that it upset him a lot and the subsequent times I saw him after 'coming out', he was never as nice to me as before. He did get downright nasty at times. Went back a couple times and tried to work it out but I guess it was just a lost cause.

Lesson learned that people should be upfront and honest right away but what woman is going to tell a guy on the first date that she's a prostitute? Not an easy thing to do.....

CC, it amazes me that some men have difficulty accepting peoples past or current life. The vast majority of "working girls" I have met have been generally well educated, goal oriented, well spoken, open minded. Somehow we men have no problems accepting our own life style but have great difficulty getting over or accepting womens lifestyles. Really sad commentary about some men. GB