You, Sir, are much too kind. Your selfless generosity warms the cockles of my heart.futurelegend said:
Why Do You Hobby?
- Thread starter Emma@SecretaryService
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well when we get the opportunity to meet for our interview, you can take that time to warm my cockles....Emma@SecretaryService said:
There's nothing worse than a cold cockle.futurelegend said:well when we get the opportunity to meet for our interview, you can take that time to warm my cockles....
I'm not sure it can be a lifelong substitute, but I do it for the convenience and variety mostly. That, and the fact that my occupation takes up almost all of my time - I work constantly. Mind you, I enjoy it, but last year I was so obsessed with making money that I actually turned down two potential relationships since I just didn't have time for them. I admit, I'm regretting that decision now, but SPs fill the void for me until I find someone new (hopefully). Btw... good civilian women ARE hard to meet. Maybe I'm just too selective; I don't know...MLAM said:
Let me try to answer, even if it has been.Emma@SecretaryService said:Hi everybody, just getting my feet wet on this board so I hope this is okay for my first post here (gulp) ...
There are probably as many different reasons as there are individuals as to why men hobby. I wonder if any of the gentlemen would be interested in sharing, honestly, why you do it? What made you decide to try it that very first time? What was your first experience like and, for the veterans, has that changed over time?
Ladies, you may also participate if you wish and perhaps talk about what made you decide to a) get into the profession, and b) stay in it.
I think this could turn out to be a very interesting and informative discussion. What do you think?
Happy Hobbying,
Emma
To me, feminine beauty is a mystique and mystery that can never be resolved, unless one has met every single adult woman in the universe, not just this Earth. That off course does not include those with home sex is incest, and off course the non adults.
I have been in search of that mystery all my life, and found that every woman is so different from the other, in beauty, in demeanor, in ambiance, in friendship, in courtship, in intellect, in color, in nationality, and the list is infinite.
That keeps me involved and many a times takes me to Nirvana of discovery. And the only one after meeting whom I screamed Eureka! was my one and only wife. And even after that I keep searching, and keep getting some clues.
As long as the names of all the A to Z goddesses, of love and beauty, from Achtland, to Aphrodites, to Lakshmi, to Venus, and Zoria, are alive, my search will be alive.
Here is the link to Godesses of love and beauty to figure out:
http://wuzzle.org/cave/lovegods.html
Hope it helped ;-) Cheers.
The problem is, the short run eventually turns into the long run. I've been hobbying for almost 9 years and as a result, have been quite nonchalant about putting any effort into finding a real relationship. Instead, I chose to focus 100% on my career. Now, I'm thinking I probably should start getting serious about finding someone, before it's too late. I say that since I've been using SP's as a crutch/excuse to avoid a real relationship. I know damn well that if escorts weren't an option, I would have ended up dating the civilian women I met last year.Sukdeep said:
That is the point of the hobby, not the problem with it, and I'd leave out the emotional part, it's about the money.Sukdeep said:
It’s simple… It’s cheaper then dating, you don’t have to play all the games women play and you know what you are going to get.
How much time and money have you all spent trying to wine and dine the ladies, only after numerous outing you get nothing except the old line “ I just don’t feel the connection” and then you start all over again and you go home with your dick in your hand and some Jergins on the night table…
Save the hundreds or possibly thousands of dollars on the unknown and spend $200 to $250 on a sure thing. Oh ya lets not forget that these are the women that chances are none of us would ever be able to date or have a relationship with. Unless we had cash hand over fist to buy them everything they wanted and then bend over backwards for their every whim. And yes I am saying that a lot of the very attractive women in Toronto are shallow ( hmmm shallow women in Toronto maybe that should be a thread )
Now I’m not saying never look for or never get into a relationship but in the in between instead of trying so hard to pick up a woman and get in her pants just go for the sure thing.
How much time and money have you all spent trying to wine and dine the ladies, only after numerous outing you get nothing except the old line “ I just don’t feel the connection” and then you start all over again and you go home with your dick in your hand and some Jergins on the night table…
Save the hundreds or possibly thousands of dollars on the unknown and spend $200 to $250 on a sure thing. Oh ya lets not forget that these are the women that chances are none of us would ever be able to date or have a relationship with. Unless we had cash hand over fist to buy them everything they wanted and then bend over backwards for their every whim. And yes I am saying that a lot of the very attractive women in Toronto are shallow ( hmmm shallow women in Toronto maybe that should be a thread )
Now I’m not saying never look for or never get into a relationship but in the in between instead of trying so hard to pick up a woman and get in her pants just go for the sure thing.
That....
"It’s cheaper then dating, you don’t have to play all the games women play and you know what you are going to get."
...is the second biggest lie ever told. I have gotten laid three or four times in a week spending nothing more than gas.
And yes I am saying that a lot of the very attractive women in Toronto are shallow ( hmmm shallow women in Toronto maybe that should be a thread )
Might I suggest that dating women for the sole purpose of getting in their pants might not be the most "deep" thing in the world either...and is probably the problem.
Not that I think you should change, mind you. Guys like you make it oh, so much easier for guys like me.
cliff1 said:
"It’s cheaper then dating, you don’t have to play all the games women play and you know what you are going to get."
...is the second biggest lie ever told. I have gotten laid three or four times in a week spending nothing more than gas.
And yes I am saying that a lot of the very attractive women in Toronto are shallow ( hmmm shallow women in Toronto maybe that should be a thread )
Might I suggest that dating women for the sole purpose of getting in their pants might not be the most "deep" thing in the world either...and is probably the problem.
Not that I think you should change, mind you. Guys like you make it oh, so much easier for guys like me.
I hobby because I prefer to surprise and please experienced women. Oh, and my wife gets turned on by my stories that include other women...
...I think she still thinks that they are just fantasies... lol
...I think she still thinks that they are just fantasies... lol
This comment, Sir, makes you stand out from the crowd and makes me curious about the man behind the MLAM.MLAM said:
The gentlemen who complain of having difficulty bedding civilian women could learn from you.
Everyone: Thank you all again for taking the time to offer your thoughts to this thread - much appreciated.
Um, please tell me that at least you guys get regular STI tests. You know can get gonorrhea, chlamydia in your throat (even from DATY, DFK). I'm sure your wife would love it if you brought something home.futurelegend said:MLAM...thank you. Your posts are legendary!! I think that you should take a position as a guest columnist at the Sun or Star, or whatever paper will take you, just RANTING. I'm a ranter myself, so I find such value and humor in your post....keep up the good work.
To answer the original question...I might be a bit different than the other posters here. I am not 40+, I am not a socially awkward single, I am not unattractive (IMHO), I am not the victim of several failed marriages (yet
I'm one of those guys where my wife practically begged me to go out and get laid from other women. Yes, I know I'm lucky, and I couldn't imagine not getting regularly tested. Why the fuck should she have to catch something and have it left untreated because I haven't been telling her what I've been doing.
/rant done
//had a co-worker catch syphilis from her husband that was sleeping around on her and never told her until he got all these fucked up symptoms
///serious, and she might not be able to have any kids
////that's fucked
...because in 35 years of marriage I have not ever had the experiences that I have had in a 60 minute encounter with a sexy woman.
