tboy said:
Fab, I can feel your pain but what did the driver do wrong in your eyes>?
He followed the rules (bad bad BAD man)
YOUR daughter forgot her purse, he didn't force her to leave her ID at home
YOU should have made sure she always had money to either get home or at least use a payphone.
The rules are the rules and yes, there are exceptions, but if you think about it, the driver was probably instructed to watch for, and pay particular attention to people taking advantage of student discounts.
Sure, he could have let her slide but what would she have learned if he had?
I bet dollars to donuts she doesn't forget her purse/id/money again.
Dude, maybe you should thank him for teaching her something. Someone told me a story once about how his 18 month old used to jump off the 2nd last step of their staircase. He'd do it even if someone wasn't relatively close to catch him. They kept on and on and he'd do this all the time. So finally one day he put a thick carpet at the foot of the stairs and the next time the toddler jumped, they let him fall. Needless to say he didn't jump anymore!
Yes, your daughter was embarassed. Yes, the driver eventually (and could have a little sooner) drove on. But like I said, your daughter learned a tough lesson that being irresponsible has consequences and it was HER problem, not the driver's.
Again, it was probably very tramatic for her and I hope she learned from it.
While I tend to agree with your analysis of the lesson, and the responsibility of the driver.... .....You attempting to justify (spin) this as a life lesson is a perfect example of the type of thinking that exists in many parts of the public service and TTC.
As per the post, the girl had a bus ticket, was in front of her school that had just let out, is 14 years old and is taking the bus probably with friends... What would lead someone to think that this girl was not a student??? If the bus driver asks her about her ID, and she tells him/her the story, why would he not give her the benefit of the doubt???
Did the bus driver know how far the girl would have to walk? Was he aware of any health risks she might have that could make that walk difficult or life threatening??
Regarding a lesson: this is like chopping off a hand for stealing!!!
I hardly think that the driver gave a shit about the rules or the lesson for that poor girl..... Hiding behind the strict interpretation of the rules in this case was A DESPICABLE ACT by an IDIOT...
In fairness to TTC drivers... I have had very few problems with them, and I hardly believe that one of them would do something like this... Only the guys daughter and the driver know what really went on... but I would guess that he asked for ID, she might have gotten defensive/mouthy and then it escalated from there..
Drivers see all kinds of people trying to BS them on a regular basis, and they tend to get a bit jaded about the whole thing....
Funny enough a friend's daughter got on a bus without realizing that she did not show her ID and sat down. When she was leaving the bus driver kindly asked her to pay as she had forgotten to pay. She looked for her student pass and realized that she had left it at school. The guy gave her a stern warning and let he go... She was so thankful about it that she found the driver the next time and gave him a present... Now my friend's daughter just came here from China and speaks very little English... but just loves Canada because of this type of treatment..... I would think that this is a much better life lesson than the one mentioned above....