Sometimes a bit of guilt
Sometimes regret for the $$$$ spent
A Lot of times a secret smile of smugness
Sometimes regret for the $$$$ spent
A Lot of times a secret smile of smugness
What do cheaters feel ?
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Careful now, that proves intention, eh! JK. Every body has weaknesses, and deserves second (at least) chance.I would pray and hope and do my best to ensure that if it was my husband he would feel pruning sheers.
Good one!I would pray and hope and do my best to ensure that if it was my husband he would feel pruning sheers.
I agree with above, It is really just glorified masterbation. Put it this way your out on the town, had a couple of beers and feel a little horny. So on the way home you hit the rub and tug, bust one and be on your merry way. No emotional connection or investment, just getting your rocks off and out the door. If you hadn't gone to the R&T you would have went home (Still horny) watched some porn and taken care of business. At the end of the night same result. No issues for me there.
Only prune one ? Maybe. If it happens I will decide.
And all I would be doing is following mine
What?! So thinking about other women when with the SO is considered cheating too? If that's the case then I've "cheated" too many times!
So, mrsCALoki, how do you define cheating?I would pray and hope and do my best to ensure that if it was my husband he would feel pruning sheers.
I said the mentioned scenario is cheating, in my mind. It may be not cheating to you, but it does not change the fact that with the biggest sex organ one is having it with the one in mind. Try call out the name "in mind" when reaching climax and see the reaction yourself. Again, this is not selfrightous speaking, i've committed this also. Guilt-ridden or not, one should call a spade a spade!
I should mention that i have the luck to have a liberal SO, the kind that will alert me to a hot looking lady walking by and we share a laught together, maybe even do the ooohs and aaaahs silently together! I've known ladies who prefer to blind fold their SOs, and guys that sneak a peek here and there. Of course, i should NEVER do a 180 head turning, hahaha!
Maybe people who cheat apparently cannot feel much when it comes to others feelings?
I do feel that there needs to be a distinction between cheating with a sp and with someone that you are seeing on the side.
I may just be trying to justify it to myself, but in those two scenarios, i think the SP is the lesser of the two evils. My opinion only, everyone is free to agree or disagree.
I may just be trying to justify it to myself, but in those two scenarios, i think the SP is the lesser of the two evils. My opinion only, everyone is free to agree or disagree.
If LL cheated with either, I would be incredibly hurt. Ask your wife if she sees a distinction. "it was just for sex" is terribly hurtful and not an excuse.
Nothing is perfect not even your SO, I understand that now. But life's short so you roll with the punches and do what you have to do. Seeing SPs just supplements what I have and satisfies curiosities, provides an escape from life's daily problems. Now those that get emotionally attached to an SP they're just fooling themselves.
well celing fan in all my years, I have never cheated on a girlfriend of mine or on a spouse of mine. I have dated multiple women at the same time before. I have even been Sancho many times ( unknowingly at first). I have had the classic threesome relationship (myself, a girlfriend and another girl) that lasted a few months (it wasn't worth all the hype just headaches ). I have even had the offer twice in the last 5 years to enter into an affair (one was a long ago lost love). But again, in the dozen or so relationships I have had over the years, I have had others cheat on me and now I like being single and seeing sps and that makes me feel groovy
