Thay all feel something different.Do cheaters walk around with guilt ?
Or Do they block it out that they cheated ?
What do cheaters feel ?
There are so many diffs in human psyche that will serve as a justifications (excuses), but being a dog isn't... maybe being a pig is! With your judgemental tone you woulld have no trouble avoiding recurrence.this is an interesting thread. a married man has been pursuing me for quite some time, i finally gave in and its gotten sexual. we have a lot of friends in common, its a big risk that he is taking, lucky for him i'm not in love and dont ever see myself loving him (i cant respect his behaviour, but i'll fuck him for fun). his marriage is very new, his wife is goodlooking. im ambivalent about the whole thing - on the one hand i am attracted to him and like him to a degree, but i dont pursue him and am definitely not trying to have any kind of relationship. he does all that, and its hard to say no to hot no strings sex because i'm just a human being as well. i wonder about his motivations... why marry someone and then put so much effort into trying to get with someone else? i think he must be either really, really confused, or just a dog. im trying my best to steer clear in future.
i wasnt being judgemental, just factual. if you want to read into the word "dog" and make it into a judgement then thats on you.There are so many diffs in human psyche that will serve as a justifications (excuses), but being a dog isn't... maybe being a pig is! With your judgemental tone you woulld have no trouble avoiding recurrence.
I read the whole post my dear. It is totally ON ME, like you said. I said it with HUMILITY.i wasnt being judgemental, just factual. if you want to read into the word "dog" and make it into a judgement then thats on you.
Its not cheating if its a massage parlor, or an escort. Its just a more expensive form of jerking off.Do cheaters walk around with guilt ?
Or Do they block it out that they cheated ?
What do cheaters feel ?
Without trying to be overburden to you, i beg you to verify WHO are you thinking of when "expensively jerking off"? To me, i am cheating even if i'm with my SO and thinking of another woman. This again i said fully awared that "guity me" was there and had done that. I'll include SC into the mix too.Its not cheating if its a massage parlor, or an escort. Its just a more expensive form of jerking off.
So if my wife watches lesbian porn and frigs off is she cheating? Meh you need to lose the guilt. Of course escorts, MP's are cheating in most womans eyes, but its a different and for me less guilty cheating than say banging the intern at work on a regular basis.Without trying to be overburden to you, i beg you to verify WHO are you thinking of when "expensively jerking off"? To me, i am cheating even if i'm with my SO and thinking of another woman. This again i said fully awared that "guity me" was there and had done that. I'll include SC into the mix too.
Thank you, to each his own.So if my wife watches lesbian porn and frigs off is she cheating? Meh you need to lose the guilt. Of course escorts, MP's are cheating in most womans eyes, but its a different and for me less guilty cheating than say banging the intern at work on a regular basis.