Sometimes a bit of guilt
Sometimes regret for the $$$$ spent
A Lot of times a secret smile of smugness
Sometimes regret for the $$$$ spent
A Lot of times a secret smile of smugness
Careful now, that proves intention, eh! JK. Every body has weaknesses, and deserves second (at least) chance.I would pray and hope and do my best to ensure that if it was my husband he would feel pruning sheers.
I agree with above, It is really just glorified masterbation. Put it this way your out on the town, had a couple of beers and feel a little horny. So on the way home you hit the rub and tug, bust one and be on your merry way. No emotional connection or investment, just getting your rocks off and out the door. If you hadn't gone to the R&T you would have went home (Still horny) watched some porn and taken care of business. At the end of the night same result. No issues for me there.Its not cheating if its a massage parlor, or an escort. Its just a more expensive form of jerking off.
If its cheating by having another emotional relationship then sure they would feel guilty (usually).
Only prune one ? Maybe. If it happens I will decide.Careful now, that proves intention, eh! JK. Every body has weaknesses, and deserves second (at least) chance.
It is not so much cheating as following man's nature
Might be a huge one for any SO though . If you have one, ask her :roll:I agree with above, It is really just glorified masterbation. Put it this way your out on the town, had a couple of beers and feel a little horny. So on the way home you hit the rub and tug, bust one and be on your merry way. No emotional connection or investment, just getting your rocks off and out the door. If you hadn't gone to the R&T you would have went home (Still horny) watched some porn and taken care of business. At the end of the night same result. No issues for me there.
What?! So thinking about other women when with the SO is considered cheating too? If that's the case then I've "cheated" too many times!Without trying to be overburden to you, i beg you to verify WHO are you thinking of when "expensively jerking off"? To me, i am cheating even if i'm with my SO and thinking of another woman. This again i said fully awared that "guity me" was there and had done that. I'll include SC into the mix too.
So, mrsCALoki, how do you define cheating?I would pray and hope and do my best to ensure that if it was my husband he would feel pruning sheers.
I said the mentioned scenario is cheating, in my mind. It may be not cheating to you, but it does not change the fact that with the biggest sex organ one is having it with the one in mind. Try call out the name "in mind" when reaching climax and see the reaction yourself. Again, this is not selfrightous speaking, i've committed this also. Guilt-ridden or not, one should call a spade a spade!What?! So thinking about other women when with the SO is considered cheating too? If that's the case then I've "cheated" too many times!
I said the mentioned scenario is cheating, in my mind. It may be not cheating to you, but it does not change the fact that with the biggest sex organ one is having it with the one in mind. Try call out the name "in mind" when reaching climax and see the reaction yourself. Again, this is not selfrightous speaking, i've committed this also. Guilt-ridden or not, one should call a spade a spade!
I should mention that i have the luck to have a liberal SO, the kind that will alert me to a hot looking lady walking by and we share a laught together, maybe even do the ooohs and aaaahs silently together! I've known ladies who prefer to blind fold their SOs, and guys that sneak a peek here and there. Of course, i should NEVER do a 180 head turning, hahaha!
If LL cheated with either, I would be incredibly hurt. Ask your wife if she sees a distinction. "it was just for sex" is terribly hurtful and not an excuse.I do feel that there needs to be a distinction between cheating with a sp and with someone that you are seeing on the side.
I may just be trying to justify it to myself, but in those two scenarios, i think the SP is the lesser of the two evils. My opinion only, everyone is free to agree or disagree.
Maybe ask Mr Clinton, it might be "i'm not having sex with THAT woman"...If LL cheated with either, I would be incredibly hurt. Ask your wife if she sees a distinction. "it was just for sex" is terribly hurtful and not an excuse.
Tits, pussy, ass, mostly!...............Why, what have you been feeling?What do cheaters feel ?
Tits, pussy, ass, mostly!...............Why, what have you been feeling?