She will go, on average, about 2 weeks with staying inside. She will only shower once every 5 days, and she usually wont even get dressed. The longest she has stayed inside is 35 days straight.
oh my. and the counseling question? Might she be open to it, or might she hit you with a frying pan for even suggesting it?She will go, on average, about 2 weeks with staying inside. She will only shower once every 5 days, and she usually wont even get dressed. The longest she has stayed inside is 35 days straight.
I asked her about counselling, but she refused.
Thanks man, I hear what you're saying. I feel like I want to give it one more shot. It's been two years now since we have been apart and I want to see if maybe we might be able to start fresh... just start spending time together. I miss having the whole family together.Don't dwell in the past or have those good memories make you soft. She didn't want to make the first move, and did her own thing, especially with the pursuit of this other guy from Australia. Seek out someone new to make you happy. You don't deserve to be treated like this.
What does she do all night long?She will go, on average, about 2 weeks with staying inside. She will only shower once every 5 days, and she usually wont even get dressed. The longest she has stayed inside is 35 days straight.
How much did the divorce cost you?My ex was very similar, and it turned out she was talking to some guy all night on her computer (on the fucking $2,700 PC I bought her). She would go to sleep at 11 am and not wake up until who knows when... She didn't do shit around the house... She kept asking me for $20k and I figured out later she was planning to go meet this dude in Australia... So glad I never gave it to her.
We used to have awesome sex, suddenly she never wanted to anymore. It was really strange. Anyways after a few years of that shit, and finding out what she was up to, I GTFO. I was always loyal to her and never fucked around though i flirted a bit here and there, that was it. After I left I started seeing SPs.
I would suggest to you, GTFO. Go stay at a friends house for a bit. Cut her the fuck off from $. Than see what happens.
My wife is perpetually angry - every day! This has been going on for 14 years and no matter what I do, I cant successfully curb her unhappiness. Do any terbites have advice on how to deal with a wife who is NEVER happy. Specifically, how do you stop them from getting mad so often?
No divorce, since we had a common law relationship, we simply separated. We had separate bank accounts. So, nothing really, lucky for me.How much did the divorce cost you?
When it comes to relationships sexual loyalty only sets a guy up for a rude awakening years down the road.
I'm in a similar situation with my spouse. We get along 50% of the time but we have major disagreements the rest. She's a hard worker, not a sloucher or slacker but we've had no sex since Jun 2012. It was just way too much work and I always felt like I was asking her for a big favour to have sex or make love. When I tried to get close, she would remind me of some argument or something I said and it would destroy the mood....so she uses sex as a form of punishment. She says she doesn't like to have "sex", she wants to "make love".....Christ!....sometimes I just want to fuck and at other times make love......does it always have to be romantic? She always wears long tights to sleep saying that she is cold. It is such an unbelievable chore to coax her to remove them. She Has nice lingerie but never wears it. Tried counselling, that didn't work. That's when I gave up trying and started hobbying. I was loyal to her before that point last year and loved having sex (sorry, making love) with her. Once we went to the Old Mill for New Years and it was one of the best sex I've had.....she rode me CG and when we woke up in the morning discovered the bed had come away from the wall by over one foot! LOL....I've I've seen a lawyer and he said stay in the house (since it was paid for with all my money) but you can serve her to get her out. All I want right now is a post nuptial marriage contract but she didn't even respond to my request to do this by July this year. I'm considering the lawyer's suggestion. In retrospect, I would never have married this woman and I'm envious of those who are still single. Sorry for my rambling, just wanted to vent. Thanks for listening.I was trying to figure out what was wrong with my ex also. Anytime I breached the subject she would shut down. No interest in talking about working things out, no interest in seeing a doctor, no interest in see someone to talk to like a therapist...