For God's sakes Pool, I was joking!!pool said:There is no such thing as a non racist.
A half Asian friend of mine once called me racist for saying something to the effect of "Chinese people are bad drivers". Once I removed my hand from his neck he explained to me that he took offense because I implied all Asians are bad drivers. I insisted that he was nit-picking and should know what I meant in knowing me. Up untill that point most people said I'm one of the least racist people they've met. Then why did I react so strongly and in retrospect an embarrassing way. Because, I do have racism in me and that incident was a turning point in my awareness.
Funnily enough some of my racism stemmed from racism and prejudice towards myself from other races/groups and of course irrational resentment toward individuals.
OK, so do I now have to walk on egg shells around him. No, but if I don't want to offend him, then I need to be more careful in my wording to express how I truly feel. It's not about being "politically correct", but genuine respect for others feelings.

