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The Ask-A-Client Thread

Kya_Jean said:
Why do clients pull the "accidental" CIM?

Personally I find this extremely disrespectful. We are all adults here who have climaxed a few times in our lives I would hope. Why do clients think that we are stupid and actually believe they didn't know they were about cum? I just read a review were a SP said, "you CIM I throw up on you" because men have been letting it go when and where they are not suppose to.

I don't believe I will get an honest answer to this question, but I will try.
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I have two takes on this . BTW I've never done it without permission but have really , really enjoyed that gift when offerred.

Take 1- it's not an accident and the guy could care less about an SP's feelings around CIM . In other words the guy is a jerk .

Take 2 -the sensation is much better cumming in a hot wet mouth compared to COB , COF etc. . When the moment of truth approaches guys are not thinking straight and giving in to the pleasure . Why do retailers make a killing off of impulse buying ? Because we are weak when it comes to pleasuring ourselves . It could be a candy bar, a bag of chips a, an ice cream or a CIM .
I believe we are responsible for our actions and need to take responsibility but the CIM scenario has at least 2 players and there has to be ownership on both sides .

By giving head to the point of climax an SP is testing a clients willpower and some of us are stronger than others in resisting temptation . The climax can be less intense when you have to take your cock out of her mouth and cum someplace else so it isn't a stretch to see why the guy who can't resist the candy bar, bag of chips etc would succumb to the temptation to CIM .

Once again I don't support guys doing this but find it is easy to understand why they do .

I also read that comment about the SP threatening to throw up on the client - talk about a mood killer.
 
Carrie Moon said:
I have recently found a couple of my good regulars who I have amazing chemistry with getting close to this.. rubbing up against my inguinal region (where the leg and crotch meet) bare but getting dangerously close to the moister area. The GFE experience is to blame for this.. they admit to me they would date me if they weren't married. I too would date them if not.. the answer to this is for me when they try this is to jump up and put the condom on right away so there's no accident during the increased passion.. I find I have to be the voice of reason as I'm the professional. I do it in such a way though as to bring the chemistry back up to where it was by blowing them with the condom on.. as I do anyway and then jump on them when they're wound up again.

As the client.. I suggest you fantasy role-play rubbing up against her clit with the condom on..and then penetrate.

Professionals have just as much difficulty sometimes keeping their heads in the game as clients.. chemistry is the reason people say.. it just happened. Not a good answer for pregnancy or an STD!
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Thanks, Carrie. Your answer helps and I agree that both customer and SP have a responsibility to be safe. It was helpful to hear your side of the equation and that you can also develop very strong chemistry with a customer and that it is legitimate. Hmmmm.....me thinks I'd like to pay you a visit.....:rolleyes:
 
rosemount36 said:
Thanks, Carrie. Your answer helps and I agree that both customer and SP have a responsibility to be safe. It was helpful to hear your side of the equation and that you can also develop very strong chemistry with a customer and that it is legitimate. Hmmmm.....me thinks I'd like to pay you a visit.....:rolleyes:
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Heck if there weren't many times I had chemistry with a client.. I probably wouldn't do this job for 20 years.. can you imagine the girls who hate sex or men doing this for any length of time? The endorphin rush from sex.. is amazing.. having said that.. I can enjoy the intercourse immensely when there's no chemistry at all.. after all the pussy is built for fucking.
 
Carrie Moon said:
Heck if there weren't many times I had chemistry with a client.. I probably wouldn't do this job for 20 years.. can you imagine the girls who hate sex or men doing this for any length of time? The endorphin rush from sex.. is amazing.. having said that.. I can enjoy the intercourse immensely when there's no chemistry at all.. after all the pussy is built for fucking.
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The endorphin rush is so amazing that I think it's one of the reasons that sex can become addictive. I also think that the "rush" is different for different people. For me, and I suspect the majority of the members on this board, it is extremely powerful. For others, including many of our SOs, not so much. When you finally meet someone with the same "chemistry" i.e. the same endorphin rush, it is a very powerful attractant. That is the level that the SP that I mentioned above and I were in our arrangement - perhaps the reason for the "accident" . Love your mind, btw.:)
 
rosemount36 said:
I had a similar experience from an SP that retired a few months ago. We had developed a good chemistry. I had had my first shot and she had come a few times (again we had very good chemistry) and we were getting ready for my round 2. She started with the pussy slide with her being very wet and very vocal. Then she moved in such a way that as we were doing the dance she moved her pelvis into a position that as we were humping I went straight into her. I was alarmed and tried to pull back as far as I could to get my boy out to wash and put a condom on, but she kept humping as hard and as deep as she could. I had to yell her name to get her to stop and to prevent me from blowing in her. We then had a long discussion as to what had happened and when our last tests were etc. I've been tested since, as has she, and thankfully we are both negative for all potential stds. I don't see her anymore and since this time am reluctant to develop such a relationship again. I have cut down on hobbying and must admit am now a little put off with my behaviour as well. I must have, in some way encouraged her action in some way and am now re-assessing how I behave with SPs. I say this because one of the things she had said was, "but I thought this is what you had always wanted." I did talk quite a bit about hating condoms and wishing I could be in her bare, thinking that she knew I was only fantasizing. Instead, she decided to help me make the fantasy reality and as a result had put us both in danger. Anybody else have an experience like this?
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It happened to me about a year ago, it was an incall in one of the top 3 agencies. Lets call her Jane.

Got to the room chit chat a little, foreplay for a good 20 minutes and developed great chemistry. She was wet and horny at that stage, the pussy slide started and become obvious that she wanted me to enter without a condom.

She then tells me I am her first client so my mind said damn I guess its Ok but so many thoughts crossed my mind like how about other guys she had before she became an sp. We were so hot for each other and it happened, after orgasms I felt like shit. Was paranoid for weeks, kept looking at jr. every morning to see for any signs.

2 months later had all types of tests done and I was fine. Never saw her again and will never do it without the sock on, just too scary.
 
smylee52 said:
I have two takes on this . BTW I've never done it without permission but have really , really enjoyed that gift when offerred.

Take 1- it's not an accident and the guy could care less about an SP's feelings around CIM . In other words the guy is a jerk .

Take 2 -the sensation is much better cumming in a hot wet mouth compared to COB , COF etc. . When the moment of truth approaches guys are not thinking straight and giving in to the pleasure . Why do retailers make a killing off of impulse buying ? Because we are weak when it comes to pleasuring ourselves . It could be a candy bar, a bag of chips a, an ice cream or a CIM .
I believe we are responsible for our actions and need to take responsibility but the CIM scenario has at least 2 players and there has to be ownership on both sides .

By giving head to the point of climax an SP is testing a clients willpower and some of us are stronger than others in resisting temptation . The climax can be less intense when you have to take your cock out of her mouth and cum someplace else so it isn't a stretch to see why the guy who can't resist the candy bar, bag of chips etc would succumb to the temptation to CIM .

Once again I don't support guys doing this but find it is easy to understand why they do .

I also read that comment about the SP threatening to throw up on the client - talk about a mood killer.
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I understand that the release is better in a CIM over COF or COB. It is the same for women. I would prefer a man to keep on giving DATY then stop and start digits or touch play at the time of climax. I understand that part.

This is the part I don't understand. As a former SP I know that for the most part I could tell if a man was about to cum by the way his cock would get increasingly harder, the pulsating etc. But sometimes you don't know as the one giving, so I don't get how the SP would have some responsibility here. Also, many men like the BJTC, therefore SP's would be given crap all the time if she only allowed for a 5 min BJ out of fear of a client reaching climax, not to mention the guys who climax in less then 5 minutes.

It is a catch 22 for the SP and I feel the responsibility lies with the client to cum where he has the option to, not where he feels at the time because he has no will power. If you know you have no will power then tell that to the SP and let her only give you a BJ up to a certain point. We are not mind readers.

Scenario 1 - I get that some guys are just jerks and don't care and therefore also ruin it for others. I know many women in this field who will provide BBBJ to respectful clients who have proven themselves but start out as SAFE providers strickly because of this reason. At least if a client pulls a CIM it is in a condom.
 
Hiding said:
What's the craziest escorting behaviour you've encountered?
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Since I meet almost all my escorts in SC's, I tend to be able to weed out the "crazies" (I am not into crazy behaviour), "weirdos" and "wackos". :eek: However, I did meet a young dancer (Italian) who deviated somewhat from the usual pattern.

She said that she wanted the encounter to be like a real "date" as she didn't want to be just a "piece of meat". This meant dinner, a movie and then a hotel or my place.
 
As for the surprise CIM, now I'm not particularly fond of BJ's so I don't partake that often but with SO's, sometimes the Orgasm can come as a total surprize and quite quickly and unexpectedly. There's been numerous times during intercourse where things are progessing, things are happening, everything's under control then WHOOP I'm there. My ATF (summer ex GOE) said on the couple of times it happened "hey, wtf happened there, you caught me totally off guard..." I said "hey, it caught me off guard TOO lol"

Sometimes it happens so fast we don't have time to say anything.....btw: to the ladies, when YOU'RE in the middle of an O can you stop and say: "oh btw, Mr Tboy, I'm coming and I just wanted you to know so you could be prepared...."
 
Hiding said:
What do you really think of the girls you see? In terms of stability and intellect... or is that not even on your mind in the slightest.
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That is completely dependent on the person I am seeing. I have met many wonderful ladies who are smart, well educated and have it all together, but I have also met some complete flakes. I do not judge a person by the industry they work in. I judge a person on their own merits, (or lack thereof).

What's the craziest escorting behaviour you've encountered?
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An SP asking if I would like to share a crack pipe before we began, being denied a shower before we began, a woman who insisted I keep my clothes on, and only open my zipper so our skin does not touch, a woman who came to my place without condoms and refused to use mine (in a new sealed box).

Have women have offered you BBFS? If so, how many? (Not sure if this discussion is allowed here)
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A few times over the years.

What's your typical alibi for any SO?
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I only hobby when I am having a 'drought' in my personal life, so I have no alibi's.

I think the consensus has been "my daughter may never do this" but would you introduce your son to TERB?
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No, I would not. I would not introduce my kids to drugs or alcohol either. If they want to partake in this hobby, they can do it themselves.
 
tboy said:
As for the surprise CIM, now I'm not particularly fond of BJ's so I don't partake that often but with SO's, sometimes the Orgasm can come as a total surprize and quite quickly and unexpectedly. There's been numerous times during intercourse where things are progessing, things are happening, everything's under control then WHOOP I'm there. My ATF (summer ex GOE) said on the couple of times it happened "hey, wtf happened there, you caught me totally off guard..." I said "hey, it caught me off guard TOO lol"

Sometimes it happens so fast we don't have time to say anything.....btw: to the ladies, when YOU'RE in the middle of an O can you stop and say: "oh btw, Mr Tboy, I'm coming and I just wanted you to know so you could be prepared...."
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I can tell you when I am about it to and I can hold it off it abit, but I am trained professional so don't try it at home. LOL

I understand that sometimes it happens. For most respectful clients, when that happens during a BJ, they quickly pull out to avoid CIM and end up making a mess everywhere else instead, but you see the intent to ensure they are not climaxing in your mouth.
 
Carrie Moon said:
Did you start seeing escorts and then find out about terb or the other way around? I know some of my clients found out about terb from me.. and I found out about it from a client who was the first to review me. Paul Waters.. he asked if it was okay to review me and I had no idea what I was in for!
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I started hobbying before I discovered TERB. Now I find it easier to meet the ladies I have an interest in, instead of a crap shoot.
 
amber-jade said:
do you wish your S/O would play with you(as a couple ) or at least try something more than they are now ?

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I feel very fortunate that the woman I am with now is up for pretty well anything and everything. We are very open about what we want to try, and up to this point nothing that either of us is interested in is 'off limits'.
 
Just a supplement to the TERB question. I come on TERB for other reasons as well. Here are some examples:
1) Sold two Maple Leaf tickets and a fancy watch.
2) Bash the LLL.:p
3) Got good info on HD TV and cabling 101.
4) Got good info on cellphones.
5) Got good advice to avoid Scarborough (just kidding!).
 
Hiding said:
What do you really think of the girls you see? In terms of stability and intellect... or is that not even on your mind in the slightest.
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I've met all kinds and the girls in T.O are some of the best all around. Thanks Terb.
Hiding said:
What's the craziest escorting behaviour you've encountered?
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Had a girl offer me a "bumb" and proceed to do one inbetween SOG. I was like "WTF?"

Hiding said:
Have women have offered you BBFS? If so, how many? (Not sure if this discussion is allowed here)
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Yes and no I did not think for one second about going for it. I was so scared that my dick almost got instalimp. I got a total of 2 offers. They were not upsells. One was after we used up both condoms and she said it was ok to go in raw for a 3rd shot. I said no thanks, I'll just blow in your mouth if it's all the same to you.

Hiding said:
What's your typical alibi for any SO?
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I'm a guy, don't need no alibi. No my SO probably suspects that I get some side action but I suspect the same from her. Ignorence is bliss.

Hiding said:
think the consensus has been "my daughter may never do this" but would you introduce your son to TERB?
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I think I'll teach my son or sons to respect women and let them live their own lives. What's right for me might not be right for them.
 
pokerdude said:
Guess I didn't put the quotes in right.
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I was wondring what Becky was saying...lol! :D
 
pokerdude said:
Had a girl offer me a "bumb" and proceed to do one inbetween SOG. I was like "WTF?"
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okay.. I'll ask.. what's a bumb?
 
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