The Ask-A-Client Thread

[OnTheWayOut]

What do you really think of the girls you see? In terms of stability and intellect... or is that not even on your mind in the slightest.

What's the craziest escorting behaviour you've encountered?

Have women have offered you BBFS? If so, how many? (Not sure if this discussion is allowed here)

What's your typical alibi for any SO?

I think the consensus has been "my daughter may never do this" but would you introduce your son to TERB?

1. I don't think any differently of the escorts I see than anyone I meet in any other way. I prefer to see stable escorts and usually become friends with the ones I like the most.

2. I've had pretty tame escort experiences. I'd say craziest (and scariest) was offers to do bbfs.

3. Yes, probably 4 or 5. Like I said above, very scary.

4. work

5. Maybe depending on his relationship status. We were unusually close.

 

[skypilot]

good idea

i often get nervous/excited when i meet someone for the 1st time
does a client get butterfly's when ..say...parking, and walking up to a location ?
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I get a nervous excited feeling that is really just positive anticipation, and I really enjoy the anticipation and look forward to experiencing it each time. And I have been hobbying for almost 40 years.

what is a client thinking of when he leaves to go home....?
i mean is it stuff like...
''crap i have to stop at the store to get bread, or ..crap i'm soo late..
or..crap...she can really do that thing with her mouth very well '' ??
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If it was a good experience I enjoy the after glow. If it was a bad experience I tend to get a little depressed.

What do you really think of the girls you see? In terms of stability and intellect... or is that not even on your mind in the slightest.

What's the craziest escorting behaviour you've encountered?

Have women have offered you BBFS? If so, how many? (Not sure if this discussion is allowed here)

What's your typical alibi for any SO?

I think the consensus has been "my daughter may never do this" but would you introduce your son to TERB?

Generally I tend to really like the girls that I see. Their stability and intellect run the gamut, but I can go along with almost anything.

Craziest behavior - in a restaurant with an SP and she extended her arms and started running around making noises like an airplane. Another SP in another high end restaurant, SP had no real dining social skills and started wolfing down food like she hadn't eaten in days. She asked for and ate three deserts. Had an overnite with an SP I had seen a couple times. She arrived late, gave a half assed blow job and fell asleep for the night.

I have been hobbying since BBFS was the norm. However since it became dangerous I only had one experience in Baltimore. The girl was giving me a bbbj, then she tried to get on cowgirl and insert me BB. I rolled to the side so she couldn't do it. Had to end the evening early as I totally lost interest.

Business meeting alibi.

If my son asked, I'd tell him. Otherwise no.

Have you ever thought that SP's were whores with no other skill or talent to draw on except sex, then be surprised that we are educated, intelligent, astute women?

No. I have always found SP's interesting for many different individual reasons.

Did you start seeing escorts and then find out about terb or the other way around? I know some of my clients found out about terb from me.. and I found out about it from a client who was the first to review me. Paul Waters.. he asked if it was okay to review me and I had no idea what I was in for!

I started seeing escorts before personal computers or the internet even existed. Computers and TERB have made the hobby a lot easier.

do you wish your S/O would play with you(as a couple ) or at least try something more than they are now ?
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My last SO was hot and was game for anything. On an SO scale she was a 10+.

 

[legatto]

I'm very new to this (have seen 3 people... and it's only been two months) so don't know if my answers are in alignment with everyone's but figured I'd get in on this too.

does a client get butterfly's when ..say...parking, and walking up to a location ?

It took me 3 years to deal with the butterflies enough to even make it into a mp. When I did go, my heart was*POUNDING* even during the massage itself. Fear moreso than excitement.

what is a client thinking of when he leaves to go home....?

For girl 1, it was pretty much "wow, am I imagining that she likes me? that was .... wow...."

For the other two girls it was pretty much "huh... that... kind of sucked..."

Back to girl 1 again, and it has consistently been "man... I really dig this person... I need to stop seeing her like this and just hang out with her"

so... yeah... I guess it's a lot of reflection. For me I think of whether or not the other person thought of it as anything other than a business transaction.

What do you really think of the girls you see? In terms of stability and intellect... or is that not even on your mind in the slightest.

It's very much on my mind. The two girls I visited that I was disappointed with... I had the impression that they were just... not with it. The other... she's really cool and I respect her a lot, and... ok... I've probably praised her too much by this point. But it's hard to be turned on physically if the girl seems like an idiot.

What's the craziest escorting behaviour you've encountered?

Too new to have seen any crazy behaviour... I guess the crack addict that asked me if I "want a date" when I was doing my laundry was rather crazy. I couldn't hold back and immediately laughed and said no... the thought didn't occur to me for several seconds that she was serious.

Did you start seeing escorts and then find out about terb or the other way around?

TERB first. Knew of this place a long time ago... was too nervous to even register to read reviews

do you wish your S/O would play with you(as a couple ) or at least try something more than they are now ?

Yes. Except I'm not sure about mmf... so... really... I don't know. I would love to do something at Club Wicked where it's still just her and I... but other people are around. Honestly... I think that if I mentioned it, she might be up for it... but... I don't think I could risk mentioning it and her not being up for it.
Too new... no craziness for me.

Have women have offered you BBFS? If so, how many? (Not sure if this discussion is allowed here)

Nope. And would NOT take it if offered.

What's your typical alibi for any SO?

Shopping. If someone sees me in the area... I just decided to explore. If someone sees me at the MP.... well I'm kind of fucked for an alibi there...

I think the consensus has been "my daughter may never do this" but would you introduce your son to TERB?

I wouldn't "introduce" *anyone* to this place. I wouldn't care if anyone I knew was here... but I don't want anyone knowing that *I* am here.

 

[amber-jade]

I leave with a big happy grin, trying to recall every detail so I can recount them to my lovely wife, Not only does it get her hot (which leads to more sex for me), it also helps her decide if the SP a 3some candidate.

i LOVE both your mind.....

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[genintoronto]

I leave with a big happy grin, trying to recall every detail so I can recount them to my lovely wife, Not only does it get her hot (which leads to more sex for me), it also helps her decide if the SP a 3some candidate.

You Sir sound like you have a lovely wife. I'm sure you are making a lot of jealous guys around here.

 

[Bear669]

Somewhat nervous...

good idea


i often get nervous/excited when i meet someone for the 1st time

does a client get butterfly's when ..say...parking, and walking up to a location ?
.

..First time I hobbied (after 16 years of monogamy).

Now its just pleasant anticipation. MOST excited I have been however, was meeting up with 3 wonderful women I had not seen in more than a year, and not sure how it would go. (wonderful!)

And, I rarely meet new SPs unless introduced to me as a duo by a gal I know
very well.

 

[Keyra]

Without introducing herself or saying a word, she just went to work on a wild BBBJ - deep throating, face-fucking, etc. until I blew my load down her throat and she swallowed every drop. Then we said hello and introduced ourselves.

That sounds really hot. Would you mind elaborating on what happened a little?

That is, was it an outcall or an incall? If it was an incall, did she answer the door naked and just drop to her knees as soon as you were one step inside, or was she still fully clothed when she did it? (I'm assuming that she lunged for your crotch, extracted Mr. Happy and then went to work on him - I can't see you being naked right at the get-go, lol.) If an outcall, did she walk into your place and just drop and go? Did you still go ahead and have a full appointment with her after? (I take it you were able to muster up MSOG.)

More details please.

 

[milehigh]

Some answers

Initially many years ago when I was fresh to the hobby, I was nervous, but not any more.

I tend to stick to regulars, usually with whom you have some sort of sexual chemistry with.

I'll tell when I do get nervous, when I tried the Plenty of Fish scene going out on dates... I was nervous and justifiably so, had some not so good experiences there. Had some dissappointments there. Also many many women where the sex was really disappointing.

You girls on this site may want to know that it is much more comfortable seeing you, you have a much better time and (surprise)with someone you feel comfortable with.

I have developed a few relations beyond the "sessions" i.e. seeing someone outside non-session. I also met one of my best friends in a session.

A pet peeve I have is when you are not a regular, and you are really getting into it, that 10 minute knock at the door. Haven't figured out exactly why I find it annoying.

One other thing I have found is not to trust reviews too too much. Chemistry plays an important part in things. What works well for one person may not work well for another.

 

[milehigh]

Biggest disappointments

Was seeing this girl Ashlyn at Secret Rendevous. Was to me, the perfect situation. Showed up one day and she left the agency suddenly.

I like the agency, all the girls are good, but had to find someone with similar chemistry.

 

[antaeus]

...
does a client get butterfly's when .. .

Sometimes. First time, normal concerns about safety, does she have a lineup outside her door, a huge mole, wart, scar, leaking wound, eyepatch on her face. Second+ time nervous did I bring wrong envelope and this one's empty, do I remember her name, is it really worth it...

when he leaves to go home

was it really worth it. I liked it when she did.... Next time I'll do ___ better. How long will it be this time until I sport wood again.

What do you really think of the girls you see? In terms of stability and intellect... or is that not even on your mind in the slightest.

What's the craziest escorting behaviour you've encountered?

Have women have offered you BBFS? If so, how many? (Not sure if this discussion is allowed here)

What's your typical alibi for any SO?

I think the consensus has been "my daughter may never do this" but would you introduce your son to TERB?

Of all the girls I saw I wondered how the hell they did it, does she have an on off switch, what brought her to be doing this. Will she become a newspaper statistic. I remember this one girl, started with the shirt and noticed a light scar on her neck. Shirt off and the light scar goes down her body around a breast down into her skirt waistband, down her thigh, etc. I couldn't believe she could still do this profession, she was fun, we laughed, I remember her so many years later, she must have had amazing mental perseverence.


Stability was certainly in my mind: crazy scenario, is she going to flip and start screaming, running down the hallway etc, on my time? But I think experience teaches one to spot stability and intellect: wording in ad, type of pictures, reading between lines of reviews here. Certainly when it was lacking the session was forgettable.

Intellect certainly varied. One girl first impression I thought she was partially mentally handicapped, but a bit of time realized just slightly eccentric with an atrocious stuff a sock in it laugh. One woman gave impression of being really smart, but she was just a bullshitter, and it evidenced in a forgettable session. A few women I saw I still remember details about them, our conversations, not just their awesome tits and ass.

A few women I thought were intellectually in the right profession: filthy sex machines in the bedroom, nothing else. Cruel yes, but conversely I've met guys who obviously were only suited to shovel dirt or pick up trash.


I never experienced real crazy behaviour. One girl was making soup and insisted I stick around after so she could finish and give me some of her soup to take home. It was an OK vegetable broth.

Probably the only odd behaviour was lack of discretion: most girls told me their real name. One time her daughter's OHIP card fell out of her wallet onto my chest and disappeared into sheets, I retrieved it but made a point not to look at ID side, I just don't want to know. One girl asked help on her resume including showing me previous employer reference letter.

SP went into detail about her client "Fred Zed" and certain particular requests! SP mentioned client name I knew, and she agreed with my brief description and added details.

SP discussed intimate details about a business deal she was working on. SP started to negotiate session for my art and tattoo services, which I foolishly encouraged, but then thankfully declined.

BBFS never been offered or discussed. In all my hobbying only one time one incident: round 2 girl started pussy slide, and continued, and continued, and continued, it was hot but I was concerned because she was really wet and I thought just a slight lean and... Anyway, we continued because to best of my ability to comprehend she was getting off, she started it, she was experienced, indeed a much missed Terb favourite, and this was not our first time. So, I decided, calculated acceptable risk.

 

[ebhobbs]

That's why I'm not 100% convinced an escort is fully cheating? At bare minimum I think it saves a LOT of otherwise happy marriages, thanks Hangman.


Hot, but the craziest escorting behaviour you've ever encountered was a threesome? Or you've encountered it but never thought of indulging beyond that...


What if he was 25, a virgin, and desperate to lose it? Would you encourage him to see an escort?

Ballzdeep, "you're not there for that" is an honest answer, I appreciate that.

Johnhenry, when are you going to start including your wife? I'm not sure if that's weird for most people, but I think the idea of watching an SO get off with someone else might be hot...

No not unless he brought it up with me first

 

[ebhobbs]

do you wish your S/O would play with you(as a couple ) or at least try something more than they are now ?

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YES YES and YES

 

[tboy]

Good one, I used to get so paranoid looking behind my shoulder or If I see a guy or two hanging around the area...man that was bad.

Now a veteran as you and know that its kind of legal so the only urge I feel is of excitement.

Sorry, incalls are not legal in any way shape or form. You visiting or the lady offerring. You can be arrested and charged under the bawdy house laws. Don't kid yourself.

Back to the original questions:

I don't use incalls (because of the above and it just seems rather tawdry to me) but the times that I did, afterwards, I hated having to walk/drive anywhere cuz I am usually more than a little weak in the knees. I know one time the incall was located right next to a video store and I went in looking for DVD deals and just couldn't concentrate or care lol....

I found out about terb via some other site but only after having a really bad bait and switch situation pulled on me. It was HORRENDOUS.

I do the outcall thing because a) I'm more comfortable in my own environment b) I'm too lazy/cheap to find parking, call 1/2 hr before the appointment, find the damn place and then one time on an outcall, the finish on the door was worn out right down to the bare wood because of everyone knocking there 30 times a day.

I am often nervous about meeting a new lady just due to the unknown. In fact, when I met Selina I was actually scared because of what I heard, I thought she might kill me lol. I did actually have to put an ice pack on my groin after our date lol.......

What do I think of the ladies? I've only had a couple of what I consider "wingnuts" but the rest have been highly intelligent, warm, friendly and open. I frankly would rather them be honest and upfront than "saying what she wants me to hear". For eg: I'm not hung like a horse so I don't like hearing: oh you're so big.....and thankfully I haven't heard "why are you single" in a long time.....

S/O: When I had one we were toying with the idea of a 3some and went so far as to make a few calls but in both cases, she got so hot and wet we just fucked like animals instead. If and when I get a gf and the topic comes up I'd discuss it but of the 3 or so 3somes I've had? They've all been rather fake/staged and the fantasy has definitely been better than the reality.

and though no one asked:

My biggest "beef" with agency girls is that when you do click with one, they have to rush off immediately/rightfuckingnow/phonesringingoffthehook. I have had more than a few want to stay and have said, "oh man, it'd be so nice to just hang out and have a soak in the jacuzzi tub" or when they've asked what I was doing now, told them I had a new DVD movie to watch on the plasma, "oh man, it'd be great to cuddle up with some popcorn and watch that, I've heard it's a great movie..."

One of my biggest regrets in this hobby was one time I saw an indie incall on the Danforth. After we cleaned up and I was getting ready, she asked me if I wanted to go down the street to a pub and see this band she knew. I was caught off guard and said "no sorry, I have to get moving". Later when I got to my car and started home I thought: what the fuck are YOU doing??? she's a hot lovely lady and you said NO??? shitttttt I tried getting in touch with her to a) apologize and b) see her again. I never did. I can't help thinking that she thought: oh man, this guy thinks I'm good enough to fuck, but not be seen in public with?

 

[Cycleguy007]

do you wish your S/O would play with you (as a couple)?

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I assume you mean "play" with an escort with us... This is a topic of which comes with very high interest for me. I have hinted on a number of occasions here in the lounge that my wife is very bi-curious and wants to explore more.

It was also my original reason for joining Terb last November. We've had some encounters (with non professionals) which were somewhat lacking due to the enthusiasm level by the add'l female. Swinger clubs around my neck of the woods are virtually non-existant, and Toronto scene is not very convenient due to we have kid's at home. We joined a "swinger site" but unfortunately the vast majority of members are either freaks or dudes trolling for MFM which we are not into. Maybe someday... one never knows ;-). We did however find one couple that we met with several times, but ended that when they started heavily pursuing "swap" instead... We have also had a number of encounters with a couple of her GF's, which were somewhat lacking in enthusiasm as well. There is a new prospective GF now however which may turn into something very interesting!

Anyway, last fall, I suggested we hire a "professional GF" to play with. She was down with that initially so I started doing some research, found TERB, got addicted (***rolls eyes*** ya think?), but the attitude cooled somewhat over the winter as we were pursuing other things, and now we are actively talking about it again, (summer weather tends to bring out the lascivious nature in us both), so perhaps in the not so distant future I can answer your question with a definitive YES!!

 

[IndianDude]

good idea


i often get nervous/excited when i meet someone for the 1st time

does a client get butterfly's when ..say...parking, and walking up to a location ?


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Yes everytime.
Even if I have seen her before.

 

[IndianDude]

Did you start seeing escorts and then find out about terb or the other way around? I know some of my clients found out about terb from me.. and I found out about it from a client who was the first to review me. Paul Waters.. he asked if it was okay to review me and I had no idea what I was in for!

I found out about hobbing while living in montreal for a few years.
I accidentally found merb. I visited the sight several times before taking the plunge. I've been in trouble ever since.
But then again, I've had sex with some of the hottest women who I would never have had a chance of sleeping with in my private life.

 

[Kya_Jean]

Why do clients pull the "accidental" CIM?

Personally I find this extremely disrespectful. We are all adults here who have climaxed a few times in our lives I would hope. Why do clients think that we are stupid and actually believe they didn't know they were about cum? I just read a review were a SP said, "you CIM I throw up on you" because men have been letting it go when and where they are not suppose to.

I don't believe I will get an honest answer to this question, but I will try.

 

[OnTheWayOut]

Why do clients pull the "accidental" CIM?

I don't believe I will get an honest answer to this question, but I will try.

Maybe I shouldn't answer this as I don't pull that trick. I always be sure to warn the girl, even if I know she does CIM or swallows. Just common courtesy, it's her choice from there. I have actually considered that if I did not warn the girl she could make a mess where I don't want one. Or react badly. No sense tempting fate, be good to her and she will usually reward you.

 

[rosemount36]

BBFS never been offered or discussed. In all my hobbying only one time one incident: round 2 girl started pussy slide, and continued, and continued, and continued, it was hot but I was concerned because she was really wet and I thought just a slight lean and... Anyway, we continued because to best of my ability to comprehend she was getting off, she started it, she was experienced, indeed a much missed Terb favourite, and this was not our first time. So, I decided, calculated acceptable risk.

I had a similar experience from an SP that retired a few months ago. We had developed a good chemistry. I had had my first shot and she had come a few times (again we had very good chemistry) and we were getting ready for my round 2. She started with the pussy slide with her being very wet and very vocal. Then she moved in such a way that as we were doing the dance she moved her pelvis into a position that as we were humping I went straight into her. I was alarmed and tried to pull back as far as I could to get my boy out to wash and put a condom on, but she kept humping as hard and as deep as she could. I had to yell her name to get her to stop and to prevent me from blowing in her. We then had a long discussion as to what had happened and when our last tests were etc. I've been tested since, as has she, and thankfully we are both negative for all potential stds. I don't see her anymore and since this time am reluctant to develop such a relationship again. I have cut down on hobbying and must admit am now a little put off with my behaviour as well. I must have, in some way encouraged her action in some way and am now re-assessing how I behave with SPs. I say this because one of the things she had said was, "but I thought this is what you had always wanted." I did talk quite a bit about hating condoms and wishing I could be in her bare, thinking that she knew I was only fantasizing. Instead, she decided to help me make the fantasy reality and as a result had put us both in danger. Anybody else have an experience like this?

 

[Carrie Moon]

I had a similar experience from an SP that retired a few months ago. We had developed a good chemistry. I had had my first shot and she had come a few times (again we had very good chemistry) and we were getting ready for my round 2. She started with the pussy slide with her being very wet and very vocal. Then she moved in such a way that as we were doing the dance she moved her pelvis into a position that as we were humping I went straight into her. I was alarmed and tried to pull back as far as I could to get my boy out to wash and put a condom on, but she kept humping as hard and as deep as she could. I had to yell her name to get her to stop and to prevent me from blowing in her. We then had a long discussion as to what had happened and when our last tests were etc. I've been tested since, as has she, and thankfully we are both negative for all potential stds. I don't see her anymore and since this time am reluctant to develop such a relationship again. I have cut down on hobbying and must admit am now a little put off with my behaviour as well. I must have, in some way encouraged her action in some way and am now re-assessing how I behave with SPs. I say this because one of the things she had said was, "but I thought this is what you had always wanted." I did talk quite a bit about hating condoms and wishing I could be in her bare, thinking that she knew I was only fantasizing. Instead, she decided to help me make the fantasy reality and as a result had put us both in danger. Anybody else have an experience like this?

I have recently found a couple of my good regulars who I have amazing chemistry with getting close to this.. rubbing up against my inguinal region (where the leg and crotch meet) bare but getting dangerously close to the moister area. The GFE experience is to blame for this.. they admit to me they would date me if they weren't married. I too would date them if not.. the answer to this is for me when they try this is to jump up and put the condom on right away so there's no accident during the increased passion.. I find I have to be the voice of reason as I'm the professional. I do it in such a way though as to bring the chemistry back up to where it was by blowing them with the condom on.. as I do anyway and then jump on them when they're wound up again.

As the client.. I suggest you fantasy role-play rubbing up against her clit with the condom on..and then penetrate.

Professionals have just as much difficulty sometimes keeping their heads in the game as clients.. chemistry is the reason people say.. it just happened. Not a good answer for pregnancy or an STD!