True true, I just gotta stick to my gut feeling. I know deep down paying money on first meet is not something I'm comfortable with. But I was just curious if this is still a trend the hotter/younger SB are, will always ask money up front.
No, a real SB who is looking for longevity will not ask for money on the first date, that is the difference between FS and SB. It takes days maybe weeks to create a relationship and trust, then you meet. You may not be intimate on the first date, its a slower process and completely different to FS. A clever SB wouldn’t ask for anything for just a dinner date, although me and many others do ask for a PPM if you expect intimacy because we have wasted our time many times with meet ups to see if we ‘click’ and get nothing from it. May as well be on Tinder and be used for free. Seeking isnt a normal dating site, so don’t be surprised when the financial side of the arrangement gets brought up lol.
