Sugar Dating Experience

[greenhelmet]

I'm supposed to see a 19 year old from Oshawa on Monday. I live central uptown. She has no car and no way I'm spending 4 hours in the car doing 2 round trips. I live 60 seconds away from a Go Bus station. I told her that if she takes the bus here, I will drive her home after.

On a side note regarding prices. We agreed on a couple of things and she starts asking me how much I offer. I said I can't make on offer without knowing what I am making an offer on. I've never met you. Will we even have any connection. I suggested a meet and greet to get over that hurdle. Nope, she wants to know how much I'm offering and she made some reference to going to a salon and leaving a tip depending on the service. TBH, it made no sense but it gave me the opportunity to say, "When you go to a salon, do they ask you how much you are willing to pay or are their prices listed. It's the same when you buy clothes or groceries. Everything has a price tag attached to it and the buyer decides if they want to spend that money. A lawyer or dentist doesn't ask how much you are offering. They have their rates and they tell you what it is beforehand. This is just the way our society works. This situation is no different, but if you want to tell me how much you are looking for, I can see if we are in the same ballpark."

It took her a while to respond but she seemed to understand the logic of what I was saying and quoted a number. I will say that she must have some serious negotiating skills and drove a hard bargain. She said, and I quote, "You're right and I can't accept less than $150." I kid you not. LOL.

Guys, DO NOT MAKE THE FIRST OFFER!

My argument is 100% valid and logical. A vendor of goods or a service always states their price. That is how things work. End of story. There is no such thing as bidding. That's total bullshit.

If a potential SB doesn't understand or is unwilling to accept that point of view, walk away. She is being an unreasonable person. This is not the type of person you want to spend time with. I don't care how hot she is. Stick to your guns and walk away. Do not make the first offer. And, as happened to me, you could save yourself some money. And it will also help keep prices down, overall.

Last part of the story: she messaged me yesterday saying she just got her period, so we can't fuck. "I can suck your dick as much as you want (we'd agreed on BBBJ in our previous discussion) for 2 hours but TBH, I can't accept less than $100 for that. Is that OK?" Ya' gotta love some of these 19 year olds. She says this is her first time as a SB.

Thanks for sharing your experience!

 

[Liam011]

For the out of city ones, do they usually just travel to you, or you pay for their transportation or pick them up?

I travel to them. I pretty much only accept SB that can host. It's easier for me (I'm married) and women are usually more comfortable in their own surroundings and tend to fuck better then.

 

[Liam011]

I'm supposed to see a 19 year old from Oshawa on Monday. I live central uptown. She has no car and no way I'm spending 4 hours in the car doing 2 round trips. I live 60 seconds away from a Go Bus station. I told her that if she takes the bus here, I will drive her home after.

On a side note regarding prices. We agreed on a couple of things and she starts asking me how much I offer. I said I can't make on offer without knowing what I am making an offer on. I've never met you. Will we even have any connection. I suggested a meet and greet to get over that hurdle. Nope, she wants to know how much I'm offering and she made some reference to going to a salon and leaving a tip depending on the service. TBH, it made no sense but it gave me the opportunity to say, "When you go to a salon, do they ask you how much you are willing to pay or are their prices listed. It's the same when you buy clothes or groceries. Everything has a price tag attached to it and the buyer decides if they want to spend that money. A lawyer or dentist doesn't ask how much you are offering. They have their rates and they tell you what it is beforehand. This is just the way our society works. This situation is no different, but if you want to tell me how much you are looking for, I can see if we are in the same ballpark."

It took her a while to respond but she seemed to understand the logic of what I was saying and quoted a number. I will say that she must have some serious negotiating skills and drove a hard bargain. She said, and I quote, "You're right and I can't accept less than $150." I kid you not. LOL.

Guys, DO NOT MAKE THE FIRST OFFER!

My argument is 100% valid and logical. A vendor of goods or a service always states their price. That is how things work. End of story. There is no such thing as bidding. That's total bullshit.

If a potential SB doesn't understand or is unwilling to accept that point of view, walk away. She is being an unreasonable person. This is not the type of person you want to spend time with. I don't care how hot she is. Stick to your guns and walk away. Do not make the first offer. And, as happened to me, you could save yourself some money. And it will also help keep prices down, overall.

Last part of the story: she messaged me yesterday saying she just got her period, so we can't fuck. "I can suck your dick as much as you want (we'd agreed on BBBJ in our previous discussion) for 2 hours but TBH, I can't accept less than $100 for that. Is that OK?" Ya' gotta love some of these 19 year olds. She says this is her first time as a SB.

My usual line when they want me to name a price first is "I've learned it's never a good idea to tell a lady how much she is worth"
The smart ones get the hint and offer up a rate. The dumb ones either aren't worth the effort or underquote themselves.

 

[Hpguy]

I'm supposed to see a 19 year old from Oshawa on Monday. I live central uptown. She has no car and no way I'm spending 4 hours in the car doing 2 round trips. I live 60 seconds away from a Go Bus station. I told her that if she takes the bus here, I will drive her home after.

On a side note regarding prices. We agreed on a couple of things and she starts asking me how much I offer. I said I can't make on offer without knowing what I am making an offer on. I've never met you. Will we even have any connection. I suggested a meet and greet to get over that hurdle. Nope, she wants to know how much I'm offering and she made some reference to going to a salon and leaving a tip depending on the service. TBH, it made no sense but it gave me the opportunity to say, "When you go to a salon, do they ask you how much you are willing to pay or are their prices listed. It's the same when you buy clothes or groceries. Everything has a price tag attached to it and the buyer decides if they want to spend that money. A lawyer or dentist doesn't ask how much you are offering. They have their rates and they tell you what it is beforehand. This is just the way our society works. This situation is no different, but if you want to tell me how much you are looking for, I can see if we are in the same ballpark."

It took her a while to respond but she seemed to understand the logic of what I was saying and quoted a number. I will say that she must have some serious negotiating skills and drove a hard bargain. She said, and I quote, "You're right and I can't accept less than $150." I kid you not. LOL.

Guys, DO NOT MAKE THE FIRST OFFER!

My argument is 100% valid and logical. A vendor of goods or a service always states their price. That is how things work. End of story. There is no such thing as bidding. That's total bullshit.

If a potential SB doesn't understand or is unwilling to accept that point of view, walk away. She is being an unreasonable person. This is not the type of person you want to spend time with. I don't care how hot she is. Stick to your guns and walk away. Do not make the first offer. And, as happened to me, you could save yourself some money. And it will also help keep prices down, overall.

Last part of the story: she messaged me yesterday saying she just got her period, so we can't fuck. "I can suck your dick as much as you want (we'd agreed on BBBJ in our previous discussion) for 2 hours but TBH, I can't accept less than $100 for that. Is that OK?" Ya' gotta love some of these 19 year olds. She says this is her first time as a SB.

what site are you using

 

[shack]

My usual line when they want me to name a price first is "I've learned it's never a good idea to tell a lady how much she is worth"
The smart ones get the hint and offer up a rate. The dumb ones either aren't worth the effort or underquote themselves.

Pretty good. It's less typing than I need to do. LOL

But the concept is the same. Don't go first.

 

[shack]

what site are you using

SDM

 

[thedogeking]

That's my hesitation - managed to get some leads. But scared that the girl will take the money and run so sticking to escorts.

 

[LTO_3]

That's my hesitation - managed to get some leads. But scared that the girl will take the money and run so sticking to escorts.

Some escorts do that too. If you have to, pay the SB part of the money up front and the rest when you're done. Better yet make that part the expectations discussion you'll have when you meet her for the first time.

LTO_3

 

[Leimonis]

I had a BBW say her PPM was $500 even for the first meet just for a coffee or meal. No thanks. I told her a SP generally is $250-300 hourly on average so why would I fork out $500 just for a meal. And I don't care about the being seen with so and so.

You know what BBW and a moped have in common - it may be fun to ride, but you don’t want to be seen doing it

 

[dchoye]

SDM

How are you doing in SDM compared to seeking?

 

[shack]

How are you doing in SDM compared to seeking?

I'd say comparable. Both were streaky and hit or miss.

All women are too unpredictable. LOL.

 

[shack]

You know what BBW and a moped have in common - it may be fun to ride, but you don’t want to be seen doing it

Love it. LOL

 

[shack]

If it's an attractive BBW I don't care...SSBBW is where the line is drawn lol.

For me, it's a sliding scale.

We all love a beautiful fit woman with curves. A Playboy model.

But once they start packing it on I say: The more overweight they are, the bigger their tits have to be to compensate. So a SSBBW has to have absolutely gigantic tits. I'm talking huuuuge. Like the wrestler Hunter Hearst Helmsley, aka triple H at the very least. That seems more likely to be an ebony woman. I've only had one but she was horny as hell.

 

[thedogeking]

Any intel on the following?

 

[Bobbblitz004]

Sdm or seeking? Looks like an escort

 

[waxtrax]

Sdm or seeking? Looks like an escort

She messaged me while ago on Seeking but didn't get back to her. I'm assuming the ones that gives you their number voluntarily right away are escorts?

 

[shack]

She messaged me while ago on Seeking but didn't get back to her. I'm assuming the ones that gives you their number voluntarily right away are escorts?

One of many tell tale signs. (or is tell tale one word?)

 

[waxtrax]

Anyone seen SBs as escorts? Curious are the vibe much like seeing regular SPs? Like in and out or is it more chilled spending few hours together?

 

[rocco_s]

What's the going rate for sbs nowadays. 300 to 500?

 

[dadbodyguy]

SDM

what does that stand for?