I don't know, kinky links might be too much for TERBI am sorry, I meant try some kink, not link!
Sugar Dating Experience
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For the out of city ones, do they usually just travel to you, or you pay for their transportation or pick them up?
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May I PM you to explain what I meant?I don't know, kinky links might be too much for TERB
I'm supposed to see a 19 year old from Oshawa on Monday. I live central uptown. She has no car and no way I'm spending 4 hours in the car doing 2 round trips. I live 60 seconds away from a Go Bus station. I told her that if she takes the bus here, I will drive her home after.
On a side note regarding prices. We agreed on a couple of things and she starts asking me how much I offer. I said I can't make on offer without knowing what I am making an offer on. I've never met you. Will we even have any connection. I suggested a meet and greet to get over that hurdle. Nope, she wants to know how much I'm offering and she made some reference to going to a salon and leaving a tip depending on the service. TBH, it made no sense but it gave me the opportunity to say, "When you go to a salon, do they ask you how much you are willing to pay or are their prices listed. It's the same when you buy clothes or groceries. Everything has a price tag attached to it and the buyer decides if they want to spend that money. A lawyer or dentist doesn't ask how much you are offering. They have their rates and they tell you what it is beforehand. This is just the way our society works. This situation is no different, but if you want to tell me how much you are looking for, I can see if we are in the same ballpark."
It took her a while to respond but she seemed to understand the logic of what I was saying and quoted a number. I will say that she must have some serious negotiating skills and drove a hard bargain. She said, and I quote, "You're right and I can't accept less than $150." I kid you not. LOL.
Guys, DO NOT MAKE THE FIRST OFFER!
My argument is 100% valid and logical. A vendor of goods or a service always states their price. That is how things work. End of story. There is no such thing as bidding. That's total bullshit.
If a potential SB doesn't understand or is unwilling to accept that point of view, walk away. She is being an unreasonable person. This is not the type of person you want to spend time with. I don't care how hot she is. Stick to your guns and walk away. Do not make the first offer. And, as happened to me, you could save yourself some money. And it will also help keep prices down, overall.
Last part of the story: she messaged me yesterday saying she just got her period, so we can't fuck. "I can suck your dick as much as you want (we'd agreed on BBBJ in our previous discussion) for 2 hours but TBH, I can't accept less than $100 for that. Is that OK?" Ya' gotta love some of these 19 year olds. She says this is her first time as a SB.
I travel to them. I pretty much only accept SB that can host. It's easier for me (I'm married) and women are usually more comfortable in their own surroundings and tend to fuck better then.
My usual line when they want me to name a price first is "I've learned it's never a good idea to tell a lady how much she is worth"
The smart ones get the hint and offer up a rate. The dumb ones either aren't worth the effort or underquote themselves.
Pretty good. It's less typing than I need to do. LOL
But the concept is the same. Don't go first.
That's my hesitation - managed to get some leads. But scared that the girl will take the money and run so sticking to escorts.
Some escorts do that too. If you have to, pay the SB part of the money up front and the rest when you're done. Better yet make that part the expectations discussion you'll have when you meet her for the first time.
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I find it's time consuming and annoying chatting with them. A lot aren't upfront or if I cave in and make an offer they don't negotiate back. The few I met were in small cities or towns and didn't want as much compared to others. I had a BBW say her PPM was $500 even for the first meet just for a coffee or meal. No thanks. I told her a SP generally is $250-300 hourly on average so why would I fork out $500 just for a meal. And I don't care about the being seen with so and so. I go average to BBW types generally. A lot also I find don't drive and most times I don't feel like driving over an hour one way. Some also can't host at their place so I'd have to bring them to mine which I've done probably twice only years ago and it's annoying especially if you drive back the same day so that's about 2 hours or more just in the vehicle with the woman. And if she's on her period and only offering oral it really depends on what's agreed. Average BBBJ is what? $100? And some are asking for more for their time together as in cuddling and watching tv or going out and about. If you got the money to drop for all that then have at it and most will offer you a good experience because of the money involved. I'm better off on dating sites and finding someone to travel with too even if I have to pay for their ticket because they aren't going to charge me for the entire travel time too. But if it's their only means of income and that's their business then have at it.
And most also if you've seen them a few times in a few months deep down aren't into ya and can lure you and take more out of ya. I've heard stories about that and the guy was all upset because he taught she actually loved him and she just played the guy and robbed him. Most of course only care about money and that usually leads to a miserable life if ya form a relationship too.
And most also if you've seen them a few times in a few months deep down aren't into ya and can lure you and take more out of ya. I've heard stories about that and the guy was all upset because he taught she actually loved him and she just played the guy and robbed him. Most of course only care about money and that usually leads to a miserable life if ya form a relationship too.
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You know what BBW and a moped have in common - it may be fun to ride, but you don’t want to be seen doing it
I'd say comparable. Both were streaky and hit or miss.
All women are too unpredictable. LOL.
For me, it's a sliding scale.
We all love a beautiful fit woman with curves. A Playboy model.
But once they start packing it on I say: The more overweight they are, the bigger their tits have to be to compensate. So a SSBBW has to have absolutely gigantic tits. I'm talking huuuuge. Like the wrestler Hunter Hearst Helmsley, aka triple H at the very least. That seems more likely to be an ebony woman. I've only had one but she was horny as hell.
