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I've been chatting with this girl on and off for a few weeks and she agrees to see me in a hotel (no meet and greet, just straight to the point). I figure the worst outcome for me is that I book a hotel and she either doesn't show or shows but is not the girl in the pictures but rather someone much less attractive, in both cases I end up wasting the hotel fee. But if she shows up and ends up being the same person in the pictures then good times are likely to be had. She wants to stay the night over but doesn't want me to stay with her (she's coming from another city so it makes sense she doesn't have to drive back, plus I can't stay the night even if I wanted). What is the worst that could happen? She'll trash the place and I get dinged for the damage?
 
futt bucker said:
I've been chatting with this girl on and off for a few weeks and she agrees to see me in a hotel (no meet and greet, just straight to the point). I figure the worst outcome for me is that I book a hotel and she either doesn't show or shows but is not the girl in the pictures but rather someone much less attractive, in both cases I end up wasting the hotel fee. But if she shows up and ends up being the same person in the pictures then good times are likely to be had. She wants to stay the night over but doesn't want me to stay with her (she's coming from another city so it makes sense she doesn't have to drive back, plus I can't stay the night even if I wanted). What is the worst that could happen? She'll trash the place and I get dinged for the damage?
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She is going to use it as incall for the sessions she is going to book in her escort persona, or for the other sugar daddy dates she has booked with guys in your area.
 
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futt bucker said:
I've been chatting with this girl on and off for a few weeks and she agrees to see me in a hotel (no meet and greet, just straight to the point). I figure the worst outcome for me is that I book a hotel and she either doesn't show or shows but is not the girl in the pictures but rather someone much less attractive, in both cases I end up wasting the hotel fee. But if she shows up and ends up being the same person in the pictures then good times are likely to be had. She wants to stay the night over but doesn't want me to stay with her (she's coming from another city so it makes sense she doesn't have to drive back, plus I can't stay the night even if I wanted). What is the worst that could happen? She'll trash the place and I get dinged for the damage?
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The worst? she will ask you for cash upfront, then take the first opportunity and bolt. Yes, happened to me and it sucks. Never give up the cash until the end.
 
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She is going to use it as incall for the sessions she is going to book in her escort persona, or for the other sugar daddy dates she has booked with guys in your area.
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Unlikely. I am going to be with her until late evening. Unless she can line up Johns after I leave and overnight? Possible but unlikely since I don't plan to tell her the hotel location until the day of.
 
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The worst, she will ask you for cash upfront, then she will take the first opportunity to bolt. Yes, happened to me and it sucks. Never give up the cash until the end.
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Sorry to hear about your bad experience.

I never give cash upfront. Only hand cash out after the deed is done. I always tell them, first meeting is meet and greet for coffee/drinks with no money exchanged. Subsequent meetings are PPM if intimacy is realized. Some will ask for money during the first meet and greet but I refuse.
 
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Sorry to hear about your bad experience.

I never give cash upfront. Only hand cash out after the deed is done. I always tell them, first meeting is meet and greet for coffee/drinks with no money exchanged. Subsequent meetings are PPM if intimacy is realized. Some will ask for money during the first meet and greet but I refuse.
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You do this for a while and 95% of the girls you date are amazing and you let your guard down. Then you meet a vampire.
 
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futt bucker said:
I've been chatting with this girl on and off for a few weeks and she agrees to see me in a hotel (no meet and greet, just straight to the point). I figure the worst outcome for me is that I book a hotel and she either doesn't show or shows but is not the girl in the pictures but rather someone much less attractive, in both cases I end up wasting the hotel fee. But if she shows up and ends up being the same person in the pictures then good times are likely to be had. She wants to stay the night over but doesn't want me to stay with her (she's coming from another city so it makes sense she doesn't have to drive back, plus I can't stay the night even if I wanted). What is the worst that could happen? She'll trash the place and I get dinged for the damage?
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No chance I would leave my card open at a hotel. Tell her to use her card and give her the cost of the hotel in cash.

It's asking for trouble my man.

You could get dinged 1000s bud, don't do it.
 
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Unlikely. I am going to be with her until late evening. Unless she can line up Johns after I leave and overnight? Possible but unlikely since I don't plan to tell her the hotel location until the day of.
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she can tell them to stand by until she know where. Bad move
 
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Unlikely. I am going to be with her until late evening. Unless she can line up Johns after I leave and overnight? Possible but unlikely since I don't plan to tell her the hotel location until the day of.
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dadbodyguy said:
she can tell them to stand by until she know where. Bad move
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Ever heard of the app Telegram?

IF she already has clients from past is not hard for her to do what is mentioned above.
 
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dadbodyguy said:
No chance I would leave my card open at a hotel. Tell her to use her card and give her the cost of the hotel in cash.

It's asking for trouble my man.

You could get dinged 1000s bud, don't do it.
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Good point. I hadn't thought of that. I guess I'm not devious enough to think of all the ways people can exploit you.
 
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Ever heard of the app Telegram?

IF she already has clients from past is not hard for her to do what is mentioned above.
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True but it wouldn't matter to me if they didn't wreck the place. Still, the more I think about it, the less appealing the arrangement seems to me.
 
futt bucker said:
True but it wouldn't matter to me if they didn't wreck the place. Still, the more I think about it, the less appealing the arrangement seems to me.
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I think all men here are glad you see past the wall with your big head. Men help other men.
 
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[Men]

Would you think it’s rude if someone asked you to be their sugar daddy? How would you want to be asked?
 
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[Men]

Would you think it’s rude if someone asked you to be their sugar daddy? How would you want to be asked?
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Now that's a loaded question(s). I don't think there's one way of asking that fits all because it would depend upon the SB/SD connection. If the SB said would you take care of me financially, I'd like X amount per month. My response would be what are you bringing to the table to justify that amount or just a flat out no and move on.

LTO_3
 
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[Men]

Would you think it’s rude if someone asked you to be their sugar daddy? How would you want to be asked?
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I would want her to ask politely.

I don't think it is rude to ask.
I just think that like many such questions, the issue is what happens if the answer is no and how do they accept that?
 
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A couple of years ago I was a member of Seeking.com and was permanently banned because I was talking about money for sex. I made an attempt months later but with no success. They took my money and ran. Do any of you know if there is a way to sign up successfully, without being detected?
 
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brian44 said:
A couple of years ago I was a member of Seeking.com and was permanently banned because I was talking about money for sex. I made an attempt months later but with no success. They took my money and ran. Do any of you know there is a way to sign up successfully, without being detected?
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You can’t talk explicitly about sex or they’ll ban you. Use coded language instead, as discussed previously in this thread.
 
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