Perhaps you could explain what's not plausible because all I see from you are empty accusations that sound like jealousy rather than a coherent argument. His tales have an air of plausibility to me having experienced such things myself.
Sugar Dating Experience
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I’ve stated my issues days ago.
Summary. His financial situation (story) didn’t add up. Also how he “tested” her made no sense either.
The principle of his story is something that very well could happen. Just his explanation of it didn’t make sense.
Calling me jealous though, I find that hilarious
I second the idea that if you do enough young women some will definitely catch feelings and all kinds of magic may happen. Being conventionally attractive (tall dark and handsome or whatever the trend of the day is) helps a lot, but it’s not even necessary.
Sounded more polite than obsessed. Why not move on? You just keep repeating the same thing over and over without adding anything which decreases rather than increases your position.
Tripled, though that can be a double edged coin as feelings can lead to her possessiveness and erratic behaviour that makes your life more difficult rather than pleasant. Most of the time you want friendly with benefits. The crazy ones are usually awesome in bed but at a cost.
You are the one seeming obsessed since you keep responding to me about an argument that has nothing to do with you.
I made my comment days ago, seen the argument still going today and chimed in again. That’s hardly obsessed. So yeah, keep dragging this out all you want but I don’t see a point in continuing this with you.
I'm located in Ottawa, so my experience dealing with SB is only from here.
My profile - I made a description on my profile of what I'm looking for, plus photos of myself. I also paid for monthly membership (I think it helps a lot)
My texts - I do approached girls with a polite text, not just a 'Hi! How are you '
Within couple days I received a lot of interest, some from SPs or MAs that I screen out automatically as they ask for a high PPM and I can see them anyway lol
Couple of real SBs in town!
Within a week, I met two early 20s for a meet and greet.
The 1st one, it was a nice M&G and she was ready to pursue but I wasn't as she was giving me a ' don't touch me vibe ', she was asking $100 PPM for social date in public and maybe intimate after couple months she said... Forget that! It's been couple weeks now, in retrospective I might contact her again and take her on a public date and see what happens next.
Met couple times we the second one, she didn't asked for PPM but I was buying her weeds. After 2-3 meetup she always had an excuse for not going further, I wasn't pushy either, so I cut her off.
After these two experience, I met and brought a 28 years old for dinner date, had good time with her during the dinner, brought her to a bar for a couple of drinks after, then brought her home. At home she literally jump on me and her wild side came out. No PPM discussed at that time, didn't asked for anything either for weeks. Our schedules didn't line up so we are having our second date this week (dinner at home or hotel), we did agreed on a PPM of $250 from now on.
Let's see how it's gonna be!
I had a lot of other girl interested that I didn't pursue ( I started to date a civilian at the same time), so I paused my membership... Thinking of starting again soon as my dating life is on neutral now.
All that is very recent, April-June 2023
My profile - I made a description on my profile of what I'm looking for, plus photos of myself. I also paid for monthly membership (I think it helps a lot)
My texts - I do approached girls with a polite text, not just a 'Hi! How are you '
Within couple days I received a lot of interest, some from SPs or MAs that I screen out automatically as they ask for a high PPM and I can see them anyway lol
Couple of real SBs in town!
Within a week, I met two early 20s for a meet and greet.
The 1st one, it was a nice M&G and she was ready to pursue but I wasn't as she was giving me a ' don't touch me vibe ', she was asking $100 PPM for social date in public and maybe intimate after couple months she said... Forget that! It's been couple weeks now, in retrospective I might contact her again and take her on a public date and see what happens next.
Met couple times we the second one, she didn't asked for PPM but I was buying her weeds. After 2-3 meetup she always had an excuse for not going further, I wasn't pushy either, so I cut her off.
After these two experience, I met and brought a 28 years old for dinner date, had good time with her during the dinner, brought her to a bar for a couple of drinks after, then brought her home. At home she literally jump on me and her wild side came out. No PPM discussed at that time, didn't asked for anything either for weeks. Our schedules didn't line up so we are having our second date this week (dinner at home or hotel), we did agreed on a PPM of $250 from now on.
Let's see how it's gonna be!
I had a lot of other girl interested that I didn't pursue ( I started to date a civilian at the same time), so I paused my membership... Thinking of starting again soon as my dating life is on neutral now.
All that is very recent, April-June 2023
Please tell me. What do I have to gain by lying to a bunch of anonymous guys?
Let's get this thread back on the topic of Sugar Dating Experience. If you guys want to have a feud you can create a separate thread for that .... haha.
Here's my question: Has anyone tried directly asking young women they meet? There's a cute university student at the dog park who interests me. However, how do you bring up the topic of sugar without coming across as totally creepy? Anybody have any tips?
Here's my question: Has anyone tried directly asking young women they meet? There's a cute university student at the dog park who interests me. However, how do you bring up the topic of sugar without coming across as totally creepy? Anybody have any tips?
Not possible to do this with someone you meet at the dog park without coming across as creepy. Basically, because it is creepy AF.
Interesting because there's a girl at the gym I go to and awhile ago I recognized her in a profile on seeking. She works at the gym and we've flirted a couple of times and always say hi to each other. I'm trying to stop this behaviour but she would likely be an exception if I see her again I might talk to her to maaaaybe line something up. I've flirted with 3 different LCBO girls, they all know I'm married but kind of seem down to maybe hang out and have fun.
The internet really made this so much easier. To my knowledge no one I've met in the world is repressing a crush on me that I could take advantage of. But the internet makes it so easy to find willing parties that there's no need risking an unpleasant encounter trying for someone you know for real. Just not worth it regardless of whether it looks creepy
I’d say at a minimum you should already be in a position to say “hey can you resolve something my friend and I were arguing about” and present some kind of a hypothetical sugar scenario and see what she says. That gives you plausible deniability.
I can see this possible in a restaurant with a waitress but not so much at a dog park. You better have game for that and a lot if it. And be prepared to not come to this restaurant again
which is why I do it on the internet Also try putting yourself in the female's position.
She's outside at a dog park.
Alone with her dog.
She wants to always feel safe to take her dog there.
A guy comes up to her and makes some small talk and segues into asking if she's ever heard of sugar dating before (or something to that effect).
No matter how the topic is brought up, she'll know what you're getting at. And if she is classy, there is a power imbalance that directly impacts how a female feels about her safety and for the 99% that aren't into sugar dating, they may not feel safe in the park again. And if they see you, they immediately think ew that's the creepy older guy that was asking about maybe being my sugar daddy, I think I better find a different park.
