I'm located in Ottawa, so my experience dealing with SB is only from here.
My profile - I made a description on my profile of what I'm looking for, plus photos of myself. I also paid for monthly membership (I think it helps a lot)
My texts - I do approached girls with a polite text, not just a 'Hi! How are you '
Within couple days I received a lot of interest, some from SPs or MAs that I screen out automatically as they ask for a high PPM and I can see them anyway lol
Couple of real SBs in town!
Within a week, I met two early 20s for a meet and greet.
The 1st one, it was a nice M&G and she was ready to pursue but I wasn't as she was giving me a ' don't touch me vibe ', she was asking $100 PPM for social date in public and maybe intimate after couple months she said... Forget that! It's been couple weeks now, in retrospective I might contact her again and take her on a public date and see what happens next.
Met couple times we the second one, she didn't asked for PPM but I was buying her weeds. After 2-3 meetup she always had an excuse for not going further, I wasn't pushy either, so I cut her off.
After these two experience, I met and brought a 28 years old for dinner date, had good time with her during the dinner, brought her to a bar for a couple of drinks after, then brought her home. At home she literally jump on me and her wild side came out. No PPM discussed at that time, didn't asked for anything either for weeks. Our schedules didn't line up so we are having our second date this week (dinner at home or hotel), we did agreed on a PPM of $250 from now on.
Let's see how it's gonna be!
I had a lot of other girl interested that I didn't pursue ( I started to date a civilian at the same time), so I paused my membership... Thinking of starting again soon as my dating life is on neutral now.
All that is very recent, April-June 2023