Sugar Dating Experience

[Leimonis]

If you see a girl who has multiple locations, they live in one location but they are hoping to find SDs from different locations. Because they are looking for wealthy men, then they can have opportunity to travel to NY , Miami or other cities like LA.
For example, If they figure it out, the men in Toronto are not wealthy enough, then they will try other cities Those girls don’t work, have lots of time . They are hunter for having lavish style life.

Which is exactly why they are not worth talking to, unless maybe one is only looking for a masturbation session

 

[xix]

If you see a girl who has multiple locations, they live in one location but they are hoping to find SDs from different locations. Because they are looking for wealthy men, then they can have opportunity to travel to NY , Miami or other cities like LA.
For example, If they figure it out, the men in Toronto are not wealthy enough, then they will try other cities Those girls don’t work, have lots of time . They are hunter for having lavish style life.

Believe it or not there is a scale or a chart.
The very top is - from I have read-

Predator, - only sleeps with rich / wealthy, really does their homework and travel to them or with them (rarely)
Gold diggers, - wants well to do but not rich / wealthy ; will drive an hour plus to see him, once her local pool is dried up for awhile.
Materialism - If he looks well dressed ( Player) I will take him locally
Nymphomaniac / sloppy joe - Doesn't care who they have as along as it is decent, only temp 4-12 weeks.

 

[dchoye]

Been on seeking for two weeks now and I find there a lot of work weeding out the scammers and the ones that want money for a meet without any promise of sex Even when I get to message the ones that are legit SB. Most want range 700 per private meet and it’s going to be amateur sex. Is it really worth it? When the going rate for SP is 300

 

[Leimonis]

Been on seeking for two weeks now and I find there a lot of work weeding out the scammers and the ones that want money for a meet without any promise of sex Even when I get to message the ones that are legit SB. Most want range 700 per private meet and it’s going to be amateur sex. Is it really worth it? When the going rate for SP is 300

I'd say if it's only sex you are looking for and you don't want it to be amateur, it'll be barely worth it. Especially when you can book a 1hr duo or two SPs separately for 1 hr each for about the same price.

I am now trying only to hook up with SBs that I hope to also genuinely like for reasons other than sex. It's very much hit or miss but hits are good.

 

[ExoticSpirit]

Have any of you tried to get a SB in the Barrie to Collingwood region? If so, are the per meet rates different from those in Toronto?

 

[Leimonis]

Have any of you tried to get a SB in the Barrie to Collingwood region? If so, are the per meet rates different from those in Toronto?

I would guess you’d have less choice but better rates comparing to a city like Toronto

 

[brian4hartley]

Saw an Asian SP the other night. I think sugaring has ruined my SP experience. Except for Orange/Berry - she's always exceptional. I saw Kendall at HPL a while back and it was the same disappointing experience as that Asian SP. The Asian girl was skinny, unattractive and kind of lifeless. I kept wondering if she was sleeping. And Kendall was bigger than the photos gave off and I just couldn't get hard enough to pound her like I usually do.

Now with sugaring it's been going great. I have some girls on allowance, and some on PPM. PPM rates range from 300-500 and the allowance is a bit excessive, but it comes with more trust, interaction, travel, etc. so it's worth it. I would never put a girl who lives with her parents on allowance... you want to be able to do sleepovers, travel, etc. with those ones.

What's really fun with sugaring is you can have a fuck load of fun in the bedroom. And like others have mentioned here, the attraction is real so the resulting horniness, cum, sex-experience and everything that follows is truly amazing.

 

[FunInToronto2023]

For what service did you meet

If I remember correctly, we met to grab a bite to eat and see if we were into each other. I ended up waiting awhile because she was late and didn't have time to go eat. I picked her up and we were definitely into how each other looked. Drove to a fairly secluded area (but also not sketchy, it was public enough for her own safety). We started making out and if I wasn't actively trying to stop the addiction, I'd definitely message her to meet up again. I drove her back to the university after. She's since messaged and offered to overnight with me but that was awhile ago and I haven't messaged any of the girls recently.

 

[Big John]

If I remember correctly, we met to grab a bite to eat and see if we were into each other. I ended up waiting awhile because she was late and didn't have time to go eat. I picked her up and we were definitely into how each other looked. Drove to a fairly secluded area (but also not sketchy, it was public enough for her own safety). We started making out and if I wasn't actively trying to stop the addiction, I'd definitely message her to meet up again. I drove her back to the university after. She's since messaged and offered to overnight with me but that was awhile ago and I haven't messaged any of the girls recently.

How does commenting here regularly about the addiction, help you with giving it up? Experience suggests it would have quite the opposite effect. You're like the alcoholic visiting a bar everyday to drink with us, but only drinking water, for now.

Those of us who understand addiction would think well for you if we didn't see you again for months, years or never - in hopes that you have truly moved on from this phase of your life and found happiness in other activities and reconnected with your wife as you seam to want based on what you have said over the last few months.

 

[FunInToronto2023]

How does commenting here regularly about the addiction, help you with giving it up? Experience suggests it would have quite the opposite effect. You're like the alcoholic visiting a bar everyday to drink with us, but only drinking water, for now.

Those of us who understand addiction would think well for you if we didn't see you again for months, years or never - in hopes that you have truly moved on from this phase of your life and found happiness in other activities and reconnected with your wife as you seam to want based on what you have said over the last few months.

I'm still dealing with it but in my own way for now.
I'm not just drinking water, I saw a SP last week in my hotel.

I appreciate your concern and input.

 

[Big John]

I'm still dealing with it but in my own way for now.
I'm not just drinking water, I saw a SP last week in my hotel.

I appreciate your concern and input.

At least seeing a SP versus a new SB is like having a Bud Light vs half a bottle of scotch. It's a step in the right direction and kudos to you.

 

[FunInToronto2023]

At least seeing a SP versus a new SB is like having a Bud Light vs half a bottle of scotch. It's a step in the right direction and kudos to you.

haha thank you... definitely going in the right direction and fewer and further between. At least I'm on more of a normal path and with winter upon us, that should naturally slow down my activity until at least the spring. One day at a time.

 

[ExoticSpirit]

I would guess you’d have less choice but better rates comparing to a city like Toronto

That's what I would think as well which is why I'm curious to see if others here have SB experience in smaller centres along with what typical rates are. There are many smaller Ontario towns with colleges/universities

 

[Leimonis]

That's what I would think as well which is why I'm curious to see if others here have SB experience in smaller centres along with what typical rates are. There are many smaller Ontario towns with colleges/universities

Offer 300-400 and see what happens

 

[dchoye]

On seeking, I doing an experiment where I put my lowest net worth /earnings for two weeks and then I am going to put myself as the highest self net worth / earnings for two weeks to see if there is any differences response I might get

 

[shack]

Offer 300-400 and see what happens

I try hard as hell not to make an offer. I'd prefer if they go first. What if I offer too much? I've screwed myself

I ask them how much they're looking for. I say that's not the way the world works.

"When you go to get your hair or nails done, do they ask you how much you're willing to pay or do they tell you how much they charge? When you go to a lawyer, does he ask you what you are offering for their service or do they tell you what their rate is?" etc., etc. It's not a fucking auction. You're selling something, what's the price?

Not long ago, in person, I got her to go first. She was unsure, but finally said "a couple of hundred?" About 20 minutes later, after some BBBJ, I was balls deep in there.

 

[Bobbblitz004]

Had one ask for 800, offered 400 she was okay with it because she “liked” the way I look. The prices are all over the place.

 

[Bobbblitz004]

Still haven’t found and SB with a high sex drive. If you guys know one out there feel free to share

 

[art van dele]

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Met her on SA in the Toronto section. She then tells me she is leaving to go back to NY as she travels back and forth. This appears to be very common.

It’s a scam.

 

[Leimonis]

I try hard as hell not to make an offer. I'd prefer if they go first. What if I offer too much? I've screwed myself

I'd think that I screwed myself if
1.she didn't want to go first and stopped communicating and I lost a potentially good Sb or
2. if I set up a dinner at which it would turn out that her price was too high and I'd need to sit there and hate life