Nor would any guy post incessantly on an escort review site without ever posting a single review. What's your point Mr. Eunuch?
Relationships are tough these days
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Nor would any guy post incessantly on an escort review site without ever posting a single review. What's your point Mr. Eunuch?
Not that I would argue your reasoning, but this is only a win if you want to date women in their 30s
KK
I'm too old for the 20s airheads. The ladies in their thirties are still hot, but smarter.Not that I would argue your reasoning, but this is only a win if you want to date women in their 30s
KK
I was not referring to sex workers, plural . My post was responding to you, personally.
Nor did I "hate on" you because you are a sex worker.
You argument trying to veil your attack on the OP as "pointing out an obvious fact" fails.
I just find your posts to be vituperative and toxic to just about every discussion you post in. Andit is always pretty contemptuous of men. I observed your frantic flailing and spewing in the SD thread and resisted posting as it is so clear that not one person agreed with you anyways. You had enough piling on.
Oh, I do more than "cruise". I use TERB for its intended purpose. I write reviews. I read the agency and independent ads and as a result I am a customer.
And one more thing... TERB is not a "Sex Worker's Forum" . Assuming you intended to use an apostrophe to denote possession of the forum.
So just a reminder.... TERB is a forum where customers review sex workers. Not a place I interfere with you as a "sex worker" you use to belittle and shit on your potential clients.
I think you may have a pretty good idea about women being addicted to social media. Lol.
Would you be able to not spend the amount of hours a week you waste on social media for a guy.......any guy?
this is one of my non negotiable s for when dating a woman. if they live on social media, Im not interested. it speaks volumes to me about the character of that person. I see it as the need for validation by others for pointless shit. seriously how important is your food? or duck lips? there are so many other thing that are much more useful to do with your time beside playing on the phone and watching for updates. I have a huge bone of contention for people that surf their phone while I am with them physically in their presence. a complete lack of respect and consideration of my time and our relationship. I will kick that shit to the curb.
however, I do see social media as a good way to promote your business. definitely a no go when it comes to a personal relationship.
I kind of get where you are coming from. Cell phone with all the new social media, dating app and even texting is a big factor in a lot of relationship failure for both men and women.
In the old days we actually had to get out of the house to meet new people and see our friends. We had to call. Talk and interact in person.
I now feel like social media had a lot of people getting addicted to social recognition, getting more followers, "likes", ect. Social media make it so easy to cheat and meet new people that we just consommate relationship like we do with our phones. We dont really care about it because there will be a new one as soon as the old one will not work the way we want.
Now is it the case for women only? no. It goes both ways. Our society is kind of sick.
It's not exclusive to women but it's mainly women and a tiny handful of men. Considering the fact that women rate most men as ugly on free dating sites while men rate women on a respectable Bell Curve, it's women that are in the driver's seat. It's women who are hypergamous, not men. I'm not dumping on women, I'm just stating the obvious. A hot guy will hookup with a hot, average, and even below average female for a good time. But it doesn't work the other way around.
The post about the availability of 30+ year old women by another poster has a lot of validity. But one should understand that these women are not necessarily any 'smarter' or any more 'mature' than they were in their 20s. They simply know that options decrease with age so finding stability, any way they can get it, is in their best interest. It may not be you that she cares about, rather how useful you are to her that she cares about.
If a women is 30+ and deep into a successful career, I give her kudos and she is potentially great relationship material. She worked her ass off and that's not easy to do. But if she's 30 and just "starting her life" a whole lot of skepticism should come into play. What exactly was she doing in her "previous" life from 20 - 30 such that virtually no progress was made. Life's too short to throw away a decade exclusively on partying and fucking around.
This problem is not related to social media dependance or lazyness in my humble opinion. We are asked to choose at a very young age what we want to do as a lifetime job. Let's say 16 or 17. The problem with millenials or the generation a bit before, is that a lot of them will try a certain path and then come back to school to start over and this is what delays the "settling down process". The generation before us chose the resignation path and often fall in a midlife crisis because of their general insatisfaction.
Now the society is sick and a lot of us focus on material and social acceptance but italso vary depending with what kind of people you are hanging out with and who you chose to date.
In most case, this has nothing to do with social media we have to be carefull here. If you ending up thinking that most of the 30 yrs old women are not smarter but just evaporate, its because you are in a pattern in your dating life. All these women has something in common and that something...is you.
That leads me to suggest rethinking your choice or where you find them.
**sorry for the multiple edit but exposing an argument in English is a bit more work for me lol**.
I love how male members with way more posts/yr or on average than women who actually utilize this site for business as well as social purposes are saying how women misuse social media more than men. As usual the hypocrisy abounds with some on here.
I wouldn't be so quick to judge like that...Many members here have significant others...
One can also argue: Who are you to pass judgement like given the impact of your line of work on your love life?
Overall, the equation is never that simple.
Here's a thought for you. Perhaps change your "type" of woman you are looking for and you may have a better success in the long run! I have a buddy who would constantly end up with the crazies until I pointed it out to him, they all share similar personalities, similar taste, similar temperaments and I said to him, why not change that up a little bit? Lo and be hold, he did! Now he is with a great woman for the last 4 years and he is the happiest I have ever seen from him in the last 15+ or so years.
People tend to get caught in the same cycle and unable to break that trap/cycle.
People tend to get caught in the same cycle and unable to break that trap/cycle.
Social media was supposed to help connect us, but I swear it's done the opposite. Instead it's become a platform for perpetuating vanity and envy, for mob justice, and for obsession. Social media has given us little good and a whole lot of bad.
Dawn lee and the other SP please sit down
OP is talking about hot young pussy in college/early 20s that is obviously addicted to Instagram and attention. It’s a societal problem, young men are addicted too but for young women it’s much more prevalent
This doesn’t apply to you because you’re a decade older and don’t face the same social pressure. Instead of denying it and trying to fault the OP just discuss the issue at hand.
OP is talking about hot young pussy in college/early 20s that is obviously addicted to Instagram and attention. It’s a societal problem, young men are addicted too but for young women it’s much more prevalent
This doesn’t apply to you because you’re a decade older and don’t face the same social pressure. Instead of denying it and trying to fault the OP just discuss the issue at hand.
