Relationships are tough these days

[Bigdaug]

My last two girlfreinds have been a nightmare. Reason why social media and them being constantly on it (addicted) specfically instagram. They where spending way to much time on it and i was never sure what they where doing or talking to. I have no problem with them being on it once i awhile keeping in touch with freinds and family but spending hours on it everyday and then who knows how much time on the weekends was a real problem for me.

Its a real relationship killer and the best i can figure why women are on it so much is attention. I cant see myself in a real relationship these days with the cell phone so powerful in peoples lives. Im not going to compete with it for my girls attention.

Anyone else having issues with your SO being on her phone and social media way to much.

 

[malata]

they be looking for SD with mo' money

 

[Sophia Sinclair]

https://me.me/i/was-taking-pictures...g-break-when-229a4bb24db7402ab5416542f35fe4ac

 

[Smallcock]

Females love attention, specifically male attention. Not sex, but attention driven by sex appeal. And lots of it; the more, the better. It's in their DNA to want to attract as many potential highly suitable partners as possible so they can choose the top specimen to mate with.

Modern technology in the form of social media is the absolute ultra perfect marriage for the female attention-seeking gene, and that's its downfall. I'm not going to make any dire predictions about what this means for society. I really don't know how things will turn out. The only thing that is certain is that there's no going back from here.

 

[kkelso]

Females love attention, specifically male attention. Not sex, but attention driven by sex appeal. And lots of it; the more, the better. It's in their DNA to want to attract as many potential highly suitable partners as possible so they can choose the top specimen to mate with.

Modern technology in the form of social media is the absolute ultra perfect marriage for the female attention-seeking gene, and that's its downfall. I'm not going to make any dire predictions about what this means for society. I really don't know how things will turn out. The only thing that is certain is that there's no going back from here.

Social media has made it infinitely easier for women to see what they don't have. In the long run I just don't think this can be good.

KK

 

[foru2discover]

Its work being in a relationship... we are on all types of sites like this one looking for some hot young pussy are we any better
Just have to pay more attention to SO or someone else will while we are fucking around

 

[kherg007]

Social media is going to be the death of us. Sure, it has an upside. But I believe it is destroying empathy and the creating loneliness, as we are evolved to deal w face to face interactions and social media spares us from that - from wrestling w our own feelings, and from comprehending someone else's. Nowadays, to strike up a convo with a stranger is considered "creepy". And it is not just those Instagram cowgirls, but males too. I overheard 2 lovely 20 something ladies lamenting how blokes their age put in no effort and would rather go home and jerk off to porn than pursue a real woman. Maybe I'm cuz I'm an old bugger, but I'm here cuz I love real women. I love them through all 5 of my senses...and taking a lady into your senses like that...makes you.....well....for lack of a better word.....ALIVE.....

 

[The "Bone" Ranger]

They are so addicted that they are checking for "updates" while driving - I see it all the time.

 

[Bigdaug]

I don t want to live in anxiety in my relationships or having to prove my self worth all the time. I work a lot and can t give someone 24/7 attention. It s easier for women these days they have a lot of options with dating sites and social media. So they re always looking.

 

[RZG]

Women with their phones have destroyed the social contract between men and women. They`re in so deep they have no idea and likely don`t care. As far as where we are headed.... I think we just might be fuckered. As bent as he was one way, I think he was on point the other way. It`s a long read but holy shit.. https://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-srv/national/longterm/unabomber/manifesto.text.htm

 

[Sophia Sinclair]

Women with their phones are to blame for the breakdown of the social contract between the sexes and yet it's a man who invented the cell.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Martin_Cooper_(inventor)

 

[Smallcock]

Social media has made it infinitely easier for women to see what they don't have. In the long run I just don't think this can be good.

KK

It's part and parcel of what I call toxic femininity. In other words it's a combination hypergamy on overdrive mixed with extreme narcissism, with a sprinkling of superficiality throughout. While fun for awhile, it leads to further metal illness, a breakdown in relationships, and damaged personal finance.

 

[Smallcock]

Social media is going to be the death of us. Sure, it has an upside. But I believe it is destroying empathy and the creating loneliness, as we are evolved to deal w face to face interactions and social media spares us from that - from wrestling w our own feelings, and from comprehending someone else's. Nowadays, to strike up a convo with a stranger is considered "creepy". ...

A lot has certainly changed in how we interact.

Nowadays, if you go into a coffee shop like Starbucks to drink coffee, without a smartphone or laptop, you're a weirdo LOL

 

[RZG]

It's part and parcel of what I call toxic femininity. In other words it's a combination hypergamy on overdrive mixed with extreme narcissism, with a sprinkling of superficiality throughout. While fun for awhile, it leads to further metal illness, a breakdown in relationships, and damaged personal finance.

^^^ Promote this man.... I`ve been in 2 civvie relationships in the past year. This describes both to a damn T exactly. After several months I`m done, tell `em GTFO.

 

[jcpro]

Social media has made it infinitely easier for women to see what they don't have. In the long run I just don't think this can be good.

KK

Actually, in a long run it's a winner for men. They chase a small group of men while they are really young, by the time they reach thirties, reality settles in like a cold bucket of water. Dating women in their thirties is easier than ever in my opinion. You just have to be polite, wear something smart and clean, open the car door for them and you're in.

 

[kherg007]

Actually, in a long run it's a winner for men. They chase a small group of men while they are really young, by the time they reach thirties, reality settles in like a cold bucket of water. Dating women in their thirties is easier than ever in my opinion. You just have to be polite, wear something smart and clean, open the car door for them and you're in.

Had a mate divorced at 42 (attractive, witty, in great shape) and unleashed out into the single wilds...came back with a 'holy shit you would not believe the amount of lonely mid-late 30s women out there it's like shooting fish in a barrel...I can get laid almost any night!"

 

[penelopebloom]

My last two girlfreinds have been a nightmare. Reason why social media and them being constantly on it (addicted) specfically instagram. They where spending way to much time on it and i was never sure what they where doing or talking to. I have no problem with them being on it once i awhile keeping in touch with freinds and family but spending hours on it everyday and then who knows how much time on the weekends was a real problem for me.

Its a real relationship killer and the best i can figure why women are on it so much is attention. I cant see myself in a real relationship these days with the cell phone so powerful in peoples lives. Im not going to compete with it for my girls attention.

Anyone else having issues with your SO being on her phone and social media way to much.

it's weird that you're accusing the girls' interest in social media as the sole reason for the breakdown in your relationship when there's at least like five other things at play here:

- how interesting/dateable are you if they'd rather be on instagram than socialize/give attention to you
- how interesting/dateable are you if you are on an escort review board asking for advice about your girlfriends
- why does it appear that you only attract vapid women who are on instagram all day
- you are on TERB, so it appears your first 'solution' to your relationship issues is the easy way out: paying for a short-term fantasy as opposed to putting in the real work of finding and nurturing a relationship
- you assume the women you were with who were on instagram were seeking 'attention' - what basis do you have for this belief? or is this just your selfish way of discounting what may have been their boredom with you


i always think it's funny that men on here try to ask for relationship advice from other men on here - hello, this is not a good representative sample of the kind of men who have successful relationships lol.

 

[malata]

It's part and parcel of what I call toxic femininity. In other words it's a combination hypergamy on overdrive mixed with extreme narcissism, with a sprinkling of superficiality throughout. While fun for awhile, it leads to further metal illness, a breakdown in relationships, and damaged personal finance.

like when lady gaga and brad pit sang together. At first it was about the meaning in the song, then reality hit. The money and status took over the song

 

[Darts]

Many women now have careers and money and/or are in lesbo relationships so don't feel the need to have "the man" in their life. If they want children, they can adopt like Charlize Theron and Sandra Bullock or they can actually produce their own with a sperm donor.

I read or heard somewhere that when Ashley Madison got hacked 95 % of the members were male 3% were women and 2% were female escorts. (The numbers might vary but you get the idea.)

BTW: No self-respecting, intelligent, capable and independent woman would ever seek a sugar daddy.

 

[SchlongConery]

i always think it's funny that men on here try to ask for relationship advice from other men on here - hello, this is not a good representative sample of the kind of men who have successful relationships lol.

Thankfully, nor is it a representative sample of well balanced, pleasant, non-toxic women. As your incessant vituperative attacks here and in your well published professional conduct proves.