Realizations after seeing your first SP?

[shack]

And getting this thread back on track, my realizations after seeing my first SP was, damn, why didn't I do this sooner!! My initial SP meeting was a great GFE/PSE encounter and repeated with her a few times just as I've done with many SPs since that first time. A majority of my SP meetings have been top notch and thankfully there have been only a few less than stellar meetings.

LTO_3

Have any of them been part of long term, committed relationships?

Didn't think so.

 

[LTO_3]

Have any of them been part of long term, committed relationships?

Didn't think so.

Long term, 5 plus years, then yes. But still within the confines of being and seeing an SP.

LTO_3

 

[Patron]

This thread brings back a lot of memories. One of the first sex workers I saw told me something that fits in quite nicely with the last few pages. She said the only time she knew that neither she or the customer would have a good time was when one of the first thing he says is You know I don’t usually have to pay for it. She said those guys have a low opinion of sex workers and bring negative energy to the session. Certainly not my realization, but something I learned from her. So it is likely a self fulfilling prophesy that a guy who feels sex is better in a long-term committed relationship will likely have better sex in such a relationship. Bringing up the obvious question of why see a sex worker at all?

 

[xmontrealer]

So you came here with no intention of contributing to what the OP asked. BIG SURPRISE there.

As i review the thread, and the way it has developed, you are actually the OP. You're the one who expressed a negative opinion about the quality of sex with escorts as compared to sex in a committed relationship.

The real OP was only asking a simple question.

As is common on terb, despite being disagreed with by many other members, you have taken a defensive and insulting position to all who disagree with you.

And saying "fuck" does not in and of itself win debates...

 

[southpaw]

After my first time, I realized that it's an upfront expense in the short term, but I'd probably save money over the long term.

Since then, I've seen a lot of evidence to support this notion.

 

[Orangebook]

After my first time, I realized that it's an upfront expense in the short term, but I'd probably save money over the long term.

Since then, I've seen a lot of evidence to support this notion.

Would you be able to expand further on what this means? Apologies just want to make sure I understand.

 

[southpaw]

Would you be able to expand further on what this means?

Expensive divorces and custody battles. Keeping up with the Joneses. Sexual harassment allegations in the workplace.

A friend got a mail order bride who shacked up with another guy. He still had to support her financially until the sponsorship period ended.

All this costs money. A lot more than SPs do.