This is a safe space? Really (and I mean REALLLY)? Not at all. This is a place where people can anonymously post about just about anything they want to; but it's FAR from a safe place. And why are you wasting time calling out judgment. Every fucking review posted here is about someone's judgment of the woman they have seen. Does that mean you're going to call out every fucking person that posts? You are knit picking comments without looking at them in there context!
Realizations after seeing your first SP?
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That's bordering on an ad hominem attack.
But your attitude is somewhat arrogant. You voiced your opinion that sex outside of a loving and committed relationship can never be as good as when you are in one after you seen an escort. That's quite the database you are working with. And once again, just because that was your experience, it is an arrogant approach to automatically project your personal feelings/preferences onto others as if they should obviously feel the same.
There is a difference between sharing opinions, debating and just being judgmental. You were being judgmental. Period. Sorry you don't like being called but deal with it.
I would like to state and I think that most men will agree that the spiritual/romantic desire that a man has for human connection, intimacy, and partnership is completely separate from the physical desire to have sex. A man’s sexual desire and what he wants out of a relationship are like two different entities.
When you are seeing an SP, you are paying for the physical aspect of sex only, and expecting any sort personal connection between her and you to be real would prove you to be highly mistaken. That’s not to say that any praise or affection an SP can give you is fake, it’s just to say that it’s a part of their job.
Which is why (amongst a few flops obvs) I would have to say that the level of sex that you have with sex workers is way higher than civi’s because you are paying for girls way hotter and more attractive than you could ever get in real life. You can literally narrow down the agency girls and call a girl who is EXACTLY your type in every category, from height, hair colour body proportions skin tone etc…..
How long would it take you to do that IRL? Probs never…..
If you find that you are getting mediocre sex it could be that the quality of girls or whatever agency you are using is too low. This is obvious, but you do generally get what you pay for, this is why there are so many girls that have the option to go Indy and charge racks by the hour.
But what’s probably more likely is that you are treating your time with SP’s probably with an attitude that they owe you sex. Just because you’re paying doesn’t mean that you have the right authoritative control. I find that if you treat an SP like you would any other civil date, which means actually put in some effort, look good and smell good, be interesting and talk/flirt with her, show her a good/interesting time, be a gentleman….
It’s amazing how far some girls will go when all these good attributes are a package deal with the money on the nightstand….
Absolutely NOTHING wrong with my opinion, at all. If it doesn't match your experience, who gives a fuck? Again, the OP asked people to share there experiences after seeing escorts and if they came to any realizations. If my conclusions seem too extreme for you, I don't give a damn. I gave my opinion based on my experience and if you don't like it, you can piss right off! Seriously, wtf?
I wasn't being judgmental in my initial post. But if it came across as that, that's on YOU. I shared my opinion based on my experiences and you didn't like it. I don't give a fuck if you think I'm being judgmental. It's not what the thread is even remotely about!
I did not edit anything to change any context. I edit my posts very frequently because I always proof read what I wrote and tweak spelling, adjectives etc. But what I end out posting is what I intended to say all along.
It was you, who out of nowhere, made assumptions about my personal family life because we had different opinions on what sex with basic strangers can feel like. And BTW, I was on topic and my prediction came true.
You should concentrate on your other debate, with Genesis, because she's a sharp cookie.
You have made more than one post in this thread. I don't have to take just your intinal post into consideration. I take them all. Others said their opinion, their experiences and you judged them. Period.
And I have yet to state my opinion on your experience because I am not judging it as you have with others in the thread.
It's all there in black and white. You said what you said. We can all see it. I even asked questions to make sure I was understanding you right and with clarifying, you were judgmental.
You edited your post AFTER I responded to it. So if your initial post was not worded the way you intended, then I was responded to a message which didn't represent what you wanted to say. That is on YOU. ALL of your messages have been in response to what I posted. You haven't once directly responded to the OPs inquiry. You (for some reason) went directly to my comment.
No you didn't! You went straight to calling me judgmental (who gives a fuck what you think about my response to the OPs post!) Are you that messed up in the head, lady? Seriously, do you do this on all threads?
Are you messed in the head???? It is in black and white. I asked about the anal example before I said I felt you were judgmental. How screwy do you have to be to deny something that is literally right in front of your face??? Post 26 is the anal example question, post 29 is the first time I said anything about being judgmental. It is litterally right there on page 2. LOL.
You are getting very emotional though. You should try and calm down a little. You're going to hurt yourself.
Bottomline. You were judgmental. I have said that. People can see it. They can agree or disagree. It’s all good. I’m going to watch RuPaul now. I’m bored.
I'm trying to understand how my initial comment triggered you to want to come in here and post all this BS. Who gives a fuck whether someone's partner does or does not like to receive anal and how that impacts the dude? Seriously? If the dude wants to do anal so bad, why not just hire fucking hooker? This isn't rocket science. Any why does me sharing my opinion based on experience make you upset and make you feel like it isn't a "safe" place? Your judgements have no impact on my posts so fuck off, ok? Seriously, is Monday that slow for you?
This isn't a debate, you moron! It's about sharing experiences/realizations people had after seeing an escort. Are you going to make one post responding to the OPs initial post or continue on this road of nonsense!
So you came here with no intention of contributing to what the OP asked. BIG SURPRISE there.
And getting this thread back on track, my realizations after seeing my first SP was, damn, why didn't I do this sooner!! My initial SP meeting was a great GFE/PSE encounter and repeated with her a few times just as I've done with many SPs since that first time. A majority of my SP meetings have been top notch and thankfully there have been only a few less than stellar meetings.
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