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Re: Re: Re: My response to Bella and no shows
However, I would like to hear Bella's side of the story, if there is one.
Initially, kasey started a new thread without history until the mods inserted it into this thread, which I was not aware of. So now I can see the connection. I guess it's payback time.Roommates said:
However, I would like to hear Bella's side of the story, if there is one.
Re: Re: Re: Re: My response to Bella and no shows
I agree, this should be interesting!Meister said:
Not to be rude but as a client I dont really care if you have to walk down the block or travel across the city. You can move if its inconvenient for you.
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QUOTE]Originally posted by Bella6969
No Shows .........
I travel from up North everyday to the city which can be time
consuming and some times difficult.
Kisses
Bella6969 [/QUOTE]
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QUOTE]Originally posted by Bella6969
No Shows .........
I travel from up North everyday to the city which can be time
consuming and some times difficult.
Kisses
Bella6969 [/QUOTE]
BELLA ......WAS A 'NO SHOW'.... TODAY!!!!!!!
Well, Bella.....(aka Frisky Peaches), is a fine one to post about "NO SHOWS!" Because today she was a "NO SHOW" where I was concerned!!!!!
We had arranged to meet for lunch several days ago by pm. I even called this am and left her a message on her voicemail to confirm as she had requested.
I hadn't seen her since my trip to Britain, and she had asked me to bring and show her my holiday pics. I had even bought her a nice gift, which I was really looking forward to giving her.
She said she would treat me to lunch, as I had treated her to dinner the last time. After lunch, I was going to propose that we go back to her incall 'workplace' afterward for an appointment, as it's only a couple of streets up from there.
After standing outside for nearly an hour at Indian Rd. and Bloor, breathing in all those exhaust fumes on a hot Friday afternoon, I called but no answer.......and I was just too proud to go and knock on Muddy's door to ask if she was there or what was going on.......Needless to say, I felt like an idiot!
Now, I know how Kasey, Sara, Winston, ace2OO0, Paul Waters and others feel.
So much for common courtesy! I wasted over three hours, including over two hours travelling time.
Bella has my personal phone number. She could have either called and left a message, or pm'd me here on terb, if something came up and she needed to cancel. That would have been the polite thing to do.
What hurt me the most is that she had lead me to believe that we had more than just a 'client/sp,' relationship, but had become 'friends' as well.
Now I ask you, is that a way to treat your friends? So rude, sooo wrong... and sooo... inconsiderate.
Anyway, I will be very curious to hear Bella's side of the story. I'm sure she'll make up a good one!!!!!! She always does.
I believe however, at the least, that an apology from Bella is in order, if we are ever to get things back 'on track.'
Well, Bella.....(aka Frisky Peaches), is a fine one to post about "NO SHOWS!" Because today she was a "NO SHOW" where I was concerned!!!!!
We had arranged to meet for lunch several days ago by pm. I even called this am and left her a message on her voicemail to confirm as she had requested.
I hadn't seen her since my trip to Britain, and she had asked me to bring and show her my holiday pics. I had even bought her a nice gift, which I was really looking forward to giving her.
She said she would treat me to lunch, as I had treated her to dinner the last time. After lunch, I was going to propose that we go back to her incall 'workplace' afterward for an appointment, as it's only a couple of streets up from there.
After standing outside for nearly an hour at Indian Rd. and Bloor, breathing in all those exhaust fumes on a hot Friday afternoon, I called but no answer.......and I was just too proud to go and knock on Muddy's door to ask if she was there or what was going on.......Needless to say, I felt like an idiot!
Now, I know how Kasey, Sara, Winston, ace2OO0, Paul Waters and others feel.
So much for common courtesy! I wasted over three hours, including over two hours travelling time.
Bella has my personal phone number. She could have either called and left a message, or pm'd me here on terb, if something came up and she needed to cancel. That would have been the polite thing to do.
What hurt me the most is that she had lead me to believe that we had more than just a 'client/sp,' relationship, but had become 'friends' as well.
Now I ask you, is that a way to treat your friends? So rude, sooo wrong... and sooo... inconsiderate.
Anyway, I will be very curious to hear Bella's side of the story. I'm sure she'll make up a good one!!!!!! She always does.
I believe however, at the least, that an apology from Bella is in order, if we are ever to get things back 'on track.'
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No Shows?
Black List those clients, as it should be the same for SP's also who gives appointments and do not turn up at all, the same should be both ways. Educated People must act in a responsible manner being adults.
Such behavour is really very disgusting & troublesome for those who go through such a waste of time.
Black List those clients, as it should be the same for SP's also who gives appointments and do not turn up at all, the same should be both ways. Educated People must act in a responsible manner being adults.
Such behavour is really very disgusting & troublesome for those who go through such a waste of time.
Disgusting?
Abhorrent?
Yeah, no shows rank right up there with all the great moral ills plaguing our society.
Sheesh, guys, grab some perspective pills - STAT!
Abhorrent?
Yeah, no shows rank right up there with all the great moral ills plaguing our society.
Sheesh, guys, grab some perspective pills - STAT!
Ive never missed an appointment without giving advanced notice.
However, I have had many many SPs no-show over the years.
I think it would be appropriate for SPs to give me a deposit to encourage them to meet their appointments.
A deposit would also be good when seeing a new SP. If she is 30 lbs fatter than here picture or a complete bait and switch then I would keep the money and send her on her way.
However, I have had many many SPs no-show over the years.
I think it would be appropriate for SPs to give me a deposit to encourage them to meet their appointments.
A deposit would also be good when seeing a new SP. If she is 30 lbs fatter than here picture or a complete bait and switch then I would keep the money and send her on her way.
BELLA ......WAS A 'NO SHOW'.... TODAY!!!!!!!
Hi Nazer!
I've seen Bella at least half a dozen times and socially we've met twice.....We've always had a great time, until today! She was fun, professional and great to be with....But sometimes things change.....I dunno why.
Perhaps she has issues to deal with in her private life, that we don't know about. Other guys have experienced 'no shows,' from her as well, and have mentioned it both on Terb and GTAC! I guess it's my first time, so I should be so lucky 'cause even Muddy @TGF said to another pollster here on terb who pm'd me today, that 'it happens more often than naught....."
Bella was my fave and I was her regular....read my post above. But courtesy and politeness are very important to me! Being 'stood up,' is not one of them after giving her many glowing reviews here and on GTAC!!!!
Of course, being adult, I am willing to forgive Bella, given an apology and a proper response.
Hi Nazer!
I've seen Bella at least half a dozen times and socially we've met twice.....We've always had a great time, until today! She was fun, professional and great to be with....But sometimes things change.....I dunno why.
Perhaps she has issues to deal with in her private life, that we don't know about. Other guys have experienced 'no shows,' from her as well, and have mentioned it both on Terb and GTAC! I guess it's my first time, so I should be so lucky 'cause even Muddy @TGF said to another pollster here on terb who pm'd me today, that 'it happens more often than naught....."
Bella was my fave and I was her regular....read my post above. But courtesy and politeness are very important to me! Being 'stood up,' is not one of them after giving her many glowing reviews here and on GTAC!!!!
Of course, being adult, I am willing to forgive Bella, given an apology and a proper response.
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She'll be back and give some excuse about some emergency with friends or family or whatever.
It may be true or not.
But would your plumber, carpet cleaner, or whoever have an appointment with you, then miss the appointment without a call and then disappear for a week?
Even if your plumbers wife died, Im quite certain he would call you himself or have someone call for you him and let you know he wont make the appointment.
It may be true or not.
But would your plumber, carpet cleaner, or whoever have an appointment with you, then miss the appointment without a call and then disappear for a week?
Even if your plumbers wife died, Im quite certain he would call you himself or have someone call for you him and let you know he wont make the appointment.
What's disturbing (and laughable) about this thread is that it seems to have moved from the professional into the personal. This is an escort review board. If a client or an SP doesn't show up for a call (or a job), then complain away. However, if you're seeing someone outside the normal confines of what constitutes a professional arrangement in this business, and you are stood up (accompanied by the requisite hurt feelings), it has no place on this board, IMHO.
That's why we have the Lounge.......you're technically correct, Anais North. This would not be posted in the Escorts section. This is strictly a discussion forum......where clients and sp's are allowed to " let their hair down," so to speak, and ''let all it all hang out!"
On the professional side, there was a business arrangement made between Bella and Kasey......... On my side, you are right, I am a regular client of Bella and lunch is a personal arrangement.
But you might call it a 'business' lunch if you like. If you read carefully, I was going to make an appointment to see the lady ''professionally," after the personal (lunch).
Bella started this thread about "No Shows." It's quite ironic isn't it, how things have 'backfired' over the length of this thread.
On the professional side, there was a business arrangement made between Bella and Kasey......... On my side, you are right, I am a regular client of Bella and lunch is a personal arrangement.
But you might call it a 'business' lunch if you like. If you read carefully, I was going to make an appointment to see the lady ''professionally," after the personal (lunch).
Bella started this thread about "No Shows." It's quite ironic isn't it, how things have 'backfired' over the length of this thread.
Ok i havent been hiding ,,,,, i have a life away from the
board *
There is no story when it comes to me . But then again everyone changes *
Musketeer ..... about our lunch ....
you of all people know what i have been going through
with my health .. some friend .....
we have pm'ed eachother about all this but u still insist on this
show for everyone , why would u go there with out speaking with me first ? you have my number , i was at home u know that .
sorry for not getting out of bed sick , im sure i had the way i was feeling on my mind alot more ...
Hope everyone has a great weekend
Bella6969
To the admin of the board ,,, this is a great board
the way u guys run it and all , im happy to be a member
to bad there are so many anal people *
Kisses
Bella6969
board *
There is no story when it comes to me . But then again everyone changes *
Musketeer ..... about our lunch ....
you of all people know what i have been going through
with my health .. some friend .....
we have pm'ed eachother about all this but u still insist on this
show for everyone , why would u go there with out speaking with me first ? you have my number , i was at home u know that .
sorry for not getting out of bed sick , im sure i had the way i was feeling on my mind alot more ...
Hope everyone has a great weekend
Bella6969
To the admin of the board ,,, this is a great board
the way u guys run it and all , im happy to be a member
to bad there are so many anal people *
Kisses
Bella6969
Bella baby........
First of all, for the record, I phoned you yesterday and I and left you a message on your voicemail confirming that I was meeting you for lunch as agreed.......
You were not picking it up even though I'd pm'd you that I'd be calling you around that time.....that was a little after 10 am.
I left to meet you at 11:20am. I never heard from you.......
You pm'd me yesterday evening about you being sick. And, about your health, how was I supposed to know? You told me about it 'after the fact!'.......not before I was stood up!!!!
It would have been nice if you would have pm'd me to cancel or phoned, either before I left to meet you, or the evening before, if you weren't feeling well. It would have been appreciated as a matter of courtesy.
Lastly, I hope that you are feeling much better now.......get well soon. You sound more like yourself today.......more like the 'feisty' little Bella I know. Lol!
First of all, for the record, I phoned you yesterday and I and left you a message on your voicemail confirming that I was meeting you for lunch as agreed.......
You were not picking it up even though I'd pm'd you that I'd be calling you around that time.....that was a little after 10 am.
I left to meet you at 11:20am. I never heard from you.......
You pm'd me yesterday evening about you being sick. And, about your health, how was I supposed to know? You told me about it 'after the fact!'.......not before I was stood up!!!!
It would have been nice if you would have pm'd me to cancel or phoned, either before I left to meet you, or the evening before, if you weren't feeling well. It would have been appreciated as a matter of courtesy.
Lastly, I hope that you are feeling much better now.......get well soon. You sound more like yourself today.......more like the 'feisty' little Bella I know. Lol!
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