Is it possible for a provider to develop feelings for a client?

rambo5500

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I've always had this fantasy of becoming a regular with someone and eventually we both develop feelings for each other. And eventually she wants to be my girlfriend. Not for my money, but for who I am and of course our sexual intimacy

I like talking and getting to know someone, even if I know it's just a pure client-provider relationship

Overtime I learned that providers are just normal people who can gain feelings for others. Especially if there is alot of intimacy other than just sex

In your experience, is it possible for a provider to develop feelings for a client? And I'm not talking about a celebrity client or anything. Just a regular guy
My brother this pretty much sums it up ;)

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Carpa

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Very little chance if the SP is a true professional. Those that are off and on in the business, its possible but rare. Usually they're playing you.
 
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hawktoulover

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Anddd you just keep revealing yourself for what you are.
I truly wish you the best and that you can learn to love yourself and others fully. Life gets better when you act from a place of love for all.

I called a spade a spade. Unpleasant was the least confrontational word I could have used given the context.
I hope you open up your mind and heart to others a little more. Clearly, you are projecting your damage here hoping other people with your toxic mindset will support you like an echo chamber.
You want toxic here it is 😂
A high-IQ woman will lift you up, not drain you. She’ll add light, clarity, and momentum to your life. She understands ambition, respects space, and matches energy because she’s building too. You usually meet her young in school or university before the world makes everyone guarded. Rarely at work, because she’s too busy leading her own.
A low-IQ woman, on the other hand, loves with raw instinct. Even if you mess up, she’ll hold you down, cook for you, and make you feel like royalty. That kind of loyalty is rare pure heart, zero calculation.
Then there’s the average-IQ woman😂 the self-proclaimed “deep thinker.” She reads half a book and suddenly she’s Socrates with Wi-Fi. She’ll argue with you for sport, bring drama like it’s a career, and turn peace into a group project. She will treat sex as a weapon. You’re a low IQ person.
The lesson? Intelligence shines, loyalty warms, but ego burns everything in between.
I rest my case🥲🔫
 

rockinglad

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You want toxic here it is 😂
A high-IQ woman will lift you up, not drain you. She’ll add light, clarity, and momentum to your life. She understands ambition, respects space, and matches energy because she’s building too. You usually meet her young in school or university before the world makes everyone guarded. Rarely at work, because she’s too busy leading her own.
A low-IQ woman, on the other hand, loves with raw instinct. Even if you mess up, she’ll hold you down, cook for you, and make you feel like royalty. That kind of loyalty is rare pure heart, zero calculation.
Then there’s the average-IQ woman😂 the self-proclaimed “deep thinker.” She reads half a book and suddenly she’s Socrates with Wi-Fi. She’ll argue with you for sport, bring drama like it’s a career, and turn peace into a group project. She will treat sex as a weapon. You’re a low IQ person.
The lesson? Intelligence shines, loyalty warms, but ego burns everything in between.
I rest my case🥲🔫

Lol. Very obvious flaws in your logic here.
A high IQ woman and women with high emotional intelligence, will see right through your petty little mind games such as using, as you said, Machiavellian techniques. Do you really think they would put up with your BS if they're so smart? :)
 

hawktoulover

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Forgot to
Lol. Very obvious flaws in your logic here.
A high IQ woman and women with high emotional intelligence, will see right through your petty little mind games such as using, as you said, Machiavellian techniques. Do you really think they would put up with your BS if they're so smart? :)
like i said before, money talks😂 nothing else matters
 

rockinglad

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You want toxic here it is 😂
A high-IQ woman will lift you up, not drain you. She’ll add light, clarity, and momentum to your life. She understands ambition, respects space, and matches energy because she’s building too. You usually meet her young in school or university before the world makes everyone guarded. Rarely at work, because she’s too busy leading her own.
A low-IQ woman, on the other hand, loves with raw instinct. Even if you mess up, she’ll hold you down, cook for you, and make you feel like royalty. That kind of loyalty is rare pure heart, zero calculation.
Then there’s the average-IQ woman😂 the self-proclaimed “deep thinker.” She reads half a book and suddenly she’s Socrates with Wi-Fi. She’ll argue with you for sport, bring drama like it’s a career, and turn peace into a group project. She will treat sex as a weapon. You’re a low IQ person.
The lesson? Intelligence shines, loyalty warms, but ego burns everything in between.
I rest my case🥲🔫
On top of that, add the fallacy of Attack Ad Hominem. Look it up genius. ;)
 

rockinglad

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Forgot to

like i said before, money talks😂 nothing else matters
I see that I'm living in your head rent free as you've decided to reply to a comment 2 days later even after I ignored your last goading comment on this thread. Give it a rest and please seek therapy. It will enhance all areas of your life. It's not just women anymore. ;)
 

lunaseraphim

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You want toxic here it is 😂
A high-IQ woman will lift you up, not drain you. She’ll add light, clarity, and momentum to your life. She understands ambition, respects space, and matches energy because she’s building too. You usually meet her young in school or university before the world makes everyone guarded. Rarely at work, because she’s too busy leading her own.
A low-IQ woman, on the other hand, loves with raw instinct. Even if you mess up, she’ll hold you down, cook for you, and make you feel like royalty. That kind of loyalty is rare pure heart, zero calculation.
Then there’s the average-IQ woman😂 the self-proclaimed “deep thinker.” She reads half a book and suddenly she’s Socrates with Wi-Fi. She’ll argue with you for sport, bring drama like it’s a career, and turn peace into a group project. She will treat sex as a weapon. You’re a low IQ person.
The lesson? Intelligence shines, loyalty warms, but ego burns everything in between.
I rest my case🥲🔫
I have a IQ of 145.
 

oil&gas

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There is no such thing as free sex. Pay now or pay later in money or a piece of yourself.
Very true in the sex industry.

Make me reminiscent of good old time in my college years. Back then there
were no such things as paid sex. Only easy, wild and of course free sex could
be had from (almost exclusively white) hot gals.
 

hawktoulover

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I see that I'm living in your head rent free as you've decided to reply to a comment 2 days later even after I ignored your last goading comment on this thread. Give it a rest and please seek therapy. It will enhance all areas of your life. It's not just women anymore. ;)
Babe i have a life, I don’t live on terb. I was out having fun blue jays won.i hope they win tonight
 

rockinglad

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True in the sex industry in terms of if the client is (unrequitedly) seeking more. "

There is no such thing as free sex. Pay now or pay later in money or a piece of yourself.


Obviously an SP falling in love can happen depending on a person's personal circumstances, and where they are emotionally, mentally, physically.
If someone were intentionally looking for that in this industry and seeking to manipulate an SP's vulnerabilities, that's wrong.
That's all I got bottom line!
 
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lunaseraphim

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Sexy - where did you get your IQ tested?
I'm not going to disclose it lol. Let's just say IQ doesn't necessarily mean anything..
True in the sex industry in terms of if the client is (unrequitedly) seeking more.
Obviously it can and does happen depending on a person's personal circumstances, and where they are emotionally, mentally, physically.
If someone were intentionally looking for that in this industry and seeking to manipulate an SP's vulnerabilities, that's wrong.
That's all I got bottom line!
It's normal there's no free sex in the sex industry... 🫢
 

rockinglad

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I'm not going to disclose it lol. Let's just say IQ doesn't necessarily mean anything..
Fair enough!

It's normal there's no free sex in the sex industry... 🫢
Indeed. I was reiterating my points that SP's are human and that it is both a rarity and wrong to try and manipulate them into garnering romantic feelings for a client enough to surpass professionally implemented boundaries.
 
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hawktoulover

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True in the sex industry in terms of if the client is (unrequitedly) seeking more.
Obviously it can and does happen depending on a person's personal circumstances, and where they are emotionally, mentally, physically.
If someone were intentionally looking for that in this industry and seeking to manipulate an SP's vulnerabilities, that's wrong.
That's all I got bottom line!
Babe trust me i have been in situations
I was torn between two fears
Too see her one more time
Or never see her again
I can’t tell which frightens me more
 
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