Is it possible for a provider to develop feelings for a client?

hawktoulover

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Nice - actively spreading misogyny and toxic unhealthy relationship dynamics.
How does it feel to be encouraging people to take on incel mentalities?
Hahaha 😂 check the actual meaning of misogyny — it’s about hating women, not confidence.
Not acting needy is just power play. I’m not telling anyone to treat women like objects. I just feel great teaching people how to be a little Machiavellian.
Google machiavellian aswell 😂😂
 
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lunaseraphim

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Hahaha 😂 check the actual meaning of misogyny — it’s about hating women, not confidence.
Not acting needy is just power play. I’m not telling anyone to treat women like objects. I just feel great teaching people how to be a little Machiavellian.
Google machiavellian aswell 😂😂
Google narcissist
 

rockinglad

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Hahaha 😂 check the actual meaning of misogyny — it’s about hating women, not confidence.
Not acting needy is just power play. I’m not telling anyone to treat women like objects. I just feel great teaching people how to be a little Machiavellian.
Google machiavellian aswell 😂😂
I know what Machiavellianism is.
It's better to be aware of the damaging games that people like you play and prey on people's insecurities rather than play them yourself. Or is that how you try and get women to like you? How's that working out for you. 😂
There's a difference between not acting needy and actual confidence based on a healthy perception of yourself and other people. :)
 
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lunaseraphim

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I know what Machiavellianism is.
It's better to be aware of the damaging games that people like you play and prey on people's insecurities rather than play them yourself. Or is that how you try and get women to like you? How's that working out for you. 😂
There's a difference between not acting needy and actual confidence based on a healthy perception of yourself and other people. :)
Exactly. "Women all love being abused" ok who are you listening to? Some crusty dude wearing a fedora who has an alt right podcast or actual women? Lolllll
 
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hawktoulover

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I know what Machiavellianism is.
It's better to be aware of the damaging games that people like you play and prey on people's insecurities rather than play them yourself. Or is that how you try and get women to like you? How's that working out for you. 😂
There's a difference between not acting needy and actual confidence based on a healthy perception of yourself and other people. :)
Damn mate, you good? What set this off? This is beyond my imagination. And seriously… ‘prey’ on people? What are we, wildlife documentaries now?
You choose words that are so sharp they could cut glass. I honestly wonder what happened to you.
 

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I'm sure it happens, and that can be such a beautiful happy ending! But one thing to keep in mind, although we are genuine , we also dial up our personality, submissiveness, docile nature to be the absolute PERFECT girl for you. It's still me, but enhanced and molded to what you love, and we are great at mirroring. Once it's shifted to being someone's girlfriend, the image of muse fades quickly, and reality kicks in. Trust me, we're much better as a fantasy, muse and escape than a long term partner. :p
 

rockinglad

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Damn mate, you good? What set this off? This is beyond my imagination. And seriously… ‘prey’ on people? What are we, wildlife documentaries now?
You choose words that are so sharp they could cut glass. I honestly wonder what happened to you.
I'm only speaking truth brother.
 

rockinglad

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I'm sure it happens, and that can be such a beautiful happy ending! But one thing to keep in mind, although we are genuine , we also dial up our personality, submissiveness, docile nature to be the absolute PERFECT girl for you. It's still me, but enhanced and molded to what you love, and we are great at mirroring. Once it's shifted to being someone's girlfriend, the image of muse fades quickly, and reality kicks in. Trust me, we're much better as a fantasy, muse and escape than a long term partner. :p
Agreed - but only because men who use service providers run the risk of falling into trap mindsets, like that all women are like this, or that all women are attainable, or that this is how women should act/behave in a relationship. When no woman in a "real life relationship" would be like that 100% of the time. There is a fine line. And delusional thinking, no insult intended, is a real risk for people who indulge in this hobby.

Not so much that service providers are un-dateable. They're just human.
 
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Agreed - but only because men who use service providers run the risk of falling into trap mindsets, like that all women are like this, or that all women are attainable, or that this is how women should act/behave in a relationship. When no woman in a "real life relationship" would be like that 100% of the time. There is a fine line. And delusional thinking, no insult intended, is a real risk for people who indulge in this hobby.

Not so much that service providers are un-dateable. They're just human.
Such low iq i have never seen my life. Justify it all you want. A hoe is a hoe. They will be besties as long ad you’re pay
I'm only speaking truth brother.
No brother, you’re twisting reality while I’m just here playing friendly games. Dropping words like ‘unpleasant’ and ‘preying on people’—that’s straight-up toxic. Sounds like life’s thrown some heavy punches your way. Please get well soon.
 
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rockinglad

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Such low iq i have never seen my life. Justify it all you want. A hoe is a hoe. They will be besties as long ad you’re pay

No brother, you’re twisting reality while I’m just here playing friendly games. Dropping words like ‘unpleasant’ and ‘preying on people’—that’s straight-up toxic. Sounds like life’s thrown some heavy punches your way. Please get well soon.

Anddd you just keep revealing yourself for what you are.
I truly wish you the best and that you can learn to love yourself and others fully. Life gets better when you act from a place of love for all.

I called a spade a spade. Unpleasant was the least confrontational word I could have used given the context.
I hope you open up your mind and heart to others a little more. Clearly, you are projecting your damage here hoping other people with your toxic mindset will support you like an echo chamber.
 
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If you can get access to the article that would be great since my source / reference is there.


In conclusion, the waiter was a guy / and partner up with one of the strippers.
If you are aware I am sure you can conclude why she partner up with him. It wasn't his looks or money - he didn't have much - so it could have been companionship.

So 1 / 1000 strippers may end up hooking / marriage.
 

hawktoulover

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Anddd you just keep revealing yourself for what you are.
I truly wish you the best and that you can learn to love yourself and others fully. Life gets better when you act from a place of love for all.

I called a spade a spade. Unpleasant was the least confrontational word I could have used given the context.
I hope you open up your mind and heart to others a little more. Clearly, you are projecting your damage here hoping other people with your toxic mindset will support you like an echo chamber.
So you think my ideas are a public safety hazard now?
 

lunaseraphim

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Don't forget your wallet.
Yeah because this is our job. A lot of these conversations end up with snide remarks about us wanting to be paid for our services and bitter sentiments about the fact that this is work for us. If you can't accept that you have to pay an escort, then don't see an escort. Go use a dating app. I take my job super seriously, I put a lot of heart into it and I know most of my colleagues do as well. Yeah of course I want to be compensated for my services because it's my job. There's not much to add.. That doesn't mean I'm a greedy person who takes money from people who aren't booking me for services that are my job to offer.
 
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