Yeahh. Part of a provider's job is to sell you the fantasy from the moment they greet you to the moment they're out of your line of sight and out the door. It's up to you as a client to self regulate boundaries knowing that it is a service you hired and paid for. It's incredibly unfair to put that kind of expectation on a provider given that this is their job.Hmmm. Yup, very true. I guess I just assumed the escort would think of me as a friend the exact same way as I do. I mean in a sense that she pretends we only ever met in the civi world. I definitely see the issue with my logic. Im
Slow, damn
Is it possible for a provider to develop feelings for a client?
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So true. And check out my signature below...says it all. Hence my surprise at that one time interaction by a lady to escalate. (Although I had a regular who we'd go have lunch after and she never charged any time but of course the meal was my shout). But as I indicate below - don't ask if it's real, only ask if you were entertained. And leave it at that.
Itâs all about money, mate. If youâve got it, you can have any girl you want.
âSuccessful men are rare, beautiful girls are everywhere.â
Because it ruins the fantasy. And you're risking losing a client.
As a client, you are used to providers showing up as the best versions of themselves. It's the girlfriend experience minus any of the unpleasantries. It becomes mental gymnastics when you have to juggle that with the "friend" version of a client and instead of compartmentalizing, you're constantly analyzing how you should show up. Many clients can't handle that dichotomous reality. Such as yourself if I'm being honest, reading how you reply in most of your messages.
Ex: Are you actually being a true "friend"? What does being a friend mean to you? Because if a provider can't be their true selves around their "friend", why would they want to sustain that? Why would they want to perform or give the best versions of themselves that is performance, and takes a lot of work, for a "friend"? You should ask yourself if you're even capable of that.
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That's simply untrue. Some women actually care about a man's character and how that will impact their relationship.
Sure, you can attract a beautiful woman if you're a rich man, but if you're unpleasant, who would want to stick around you? Unless they're just in it for the money or for other self destructive reasons. And that's more of a reflection on you if you're okay with that.
However, OP was specifically inquiring about if a provider would actually fall in love for a man for HIM. Not his money.
Yes I am specifically telling him it all about money!! And Mate, those girls who care about character wonât ride you like this or have you seeing stars with how they treat your junior.
Letâs be real the more you act like you donât care, the more they chase. Keep playing the nice guy and youâll stay stuck. âUnpleasantâ? Not sure why you used that word. Trust me, no one here is unpleasant â 90% of the guys are chill, funny, and good vibes.
Many reasons. Not everyone is trustworthy, and sometimes guys don't understand how something could compromise our safety and anonymity. I've become friends with a client who was still actively seeing providers and I didn't know that. He told other providers certain things about me, that I didn't want them to know.. he didn't have bad intentions but it still made me question things.
I don't want to become someone's friend only to find out later that he's mentioning things I told him on review boards. I already think it's weird and unpleasant when clients mention me without naming me on threads, on forums like Merb. They may not realize it but a lot of people will end up asking them who they're talking about, or they will figure it out.
Also if I had an argument with a client I became friends with, certain things could really go wrong.. sometimes it's really hard to forget that somebody was your client..
None of this is true.. also no nice guy would say something like "girls who care about character won't ride you like this" or "the more you act like you don't care the more they chase" lol this is so disrespectful, honestly.
Nice - actively spreading misogyny and toxic unhealthy relationship dynamics.
How does it feel to be encouraging people to take on incel mentalities?
