You're in your 30s, married and with 1 kid. I'm guessing not much action from your wife lol? If you don't drink your options are bar, club or some social gatherings for hobbies like dance classes, cooking, etc. As for bars & clubs buy yourself a pop or get a virgin drink. The mall isn't usually where people exchange socials and such especially at your age I'd say.
How to pickup a girl from the mall?
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Mary Kay convention.
A decade ago I was early for airport pick up. Decide to park by the Anime North hotel across the street. 50 - 60 % of the cars were pink, some Cadillac. 2 minutes later it hit me who the convention was.
What is the other competition to Mary Kay cosmetic products?
Mall hangouts are long gone. Anyone hanging at Yorkdale mall will be young and annoying. probably mean and make you feel like a loser. they will be running around and make you wonder why you’re at the mall.
otherwise there’s the fast walking women. They’re doing returns or they’re jetting away from men they think are watching them lol
you can try chatting in the line at the food court is best option maybe or ask for a suggestion If you’re legitimately trying something on or maybe indigo? Assuming you read.
You could go to the Hudson Bay. All of the female employees will be losing their jobs and would probably accept a cash offer.
he needs to decide which category he wants to be in: the runners, the cyclists , the yogi, the potato, the dog walker, the swimmer, the juicer , etc.
this will also dictate the type of woman he will attract
Yes. I have witnessed a man with bruised ego see a woman who didn’t return his message on social media at the gym and it was awkward for everyoneI can't comment as to malls specifically but I love confidence, personally I don't care about looks much and most women I know don't either, being kind, sweet and able to face rejection are all good things🩷 every time a guy has been really polite and sweet after being rejected actually made me question my choice haha. I don't accept because of my line of work and to not complicate things BUT it truly is so admirable to be able to approach women say your bit and accept your answer with class no matter which way it goes. Honestly smiling makes anyone so much more personable, also smelling good! Anyways I wish you luck and hope you find someone lovely. I have also become friends with a few of my guy friends this way
who can answer this better than a lady herself…so the straight question to you…beside seeing the clients, if you really get an urge for hookup or feel lonely and need a companionship what would you do? do you reach out to your guy besties with a text or call asking him to come over? or head out to a bar and expect someone to approach you? who stands out in this vast crowd in your eyes, for whom you say lets do it, this guy looks green flag enough to go to his place or take him to my place.I can't comment as to malls specifically but I love confidence, personally I don't care about looks much and most women I know don't either, being kind, sweet and able to face rejection are all good things🩷 every time a guy has been really polite and sweet after being rejected actually made me question my choice haha. I don't accept because of my line of work and to not complicate things BUT it truly is so admirable to be able to approach women say your bit and accept your answer with class no matter which way it goes. Honestly smiling makes anyone so much more personable, also smelling good! Anyways I wish you luck and hope you find someone lovely. I have also become friends with a few of my guy friends this way
The confidence and being polite is key and works on most ladies. And learn to take rejection and shrug it off. If you see a decent looking chick with a guy thinking besides money of course why she chose to sleep with him is probably because he walked up to her and was charming and funny. It's not gonna work on all ladies, but it will on some and women dig confidence than someone shy. Try going with a wing man or woman that can potentially help too so it doesn't come off as if you're some creep.
If I get horny I add availability haha, I'm quite open about this on my social media, or I reach into my drawer and pull out one of my helpers
and add a shift anyways because nothing replaces the real thing. I love my guy friends but it's so hard to have a fun time with them without feelings becoming a real thing so I try not to complicate my life by inviting drama into it🩷. I honestly like every type of guy, confident and extroverted or confident and shy. I don't really invite strangers back to my place or go to theirs, at least with this industry I can screen.
Thx for the tip Karley. Makes sense to me .I can't comment as to malls specifically but I love confidence, personally I don't care about looks much and most women I know don't either, being kind, sweet and able to face rejection are all good things🩷 every time a guy has been really polite and sweet after being rejected actually made me question my choice haha. I don't accept because of my line of work and to not complicate things BUT it truly is so admirable to be able to approach women say your bit and accept your answer with class no matter which way it goes. Honestly smiling makes anyone so much more personable, also smelling good! Anyways I wish you luck and hope you find someone lovely. I have also become friends with a few of my guy friends this way
If your ego is so delicate you let a strangers rejection bother you do not play the game.
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that’s interesting and obvious…nothing wrong in it. but are you saying you have never had a random hookup or one night stand in life?If I get horny I add availability haha, I'm quite open about this on my social media, or I reach into my drawer and pull out one of my helpers
That is why I go to malls.
Exercise.
8000 steps sounds good but I go for over 10000 but I do not count steps I just walk until my legs ache
then take a break and walk some more. Walk up the stairs and take the escalators down.
Weather is always perfect, washrooms and good food and you might see something on sale you wanna buy
and parking is free.
Lots of great walking malls like Eaton Center, Square one, Scarboro Town Center
The one issue I have is sore feet as you are walking on concrete. Hoka runners seem to be the best shoes for sore feet.
That is what nurses wear.
BTW, you can meet women at malls as it can happen anywhere, I do not go there for that purpose.
Dress nice and have some style, because women will notice the small things like jewelry and
matching cloths.
Look at the mannequins for ideas
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actually! Now that I think about it, one time EVER it was last year in October and it was a lot of fun but it wasn't at my place and kind of in a space where I expected that to happen? I also initiated it. L
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okei…not a lot of detail but story sounds interesting. so, the guy was not confident enough to initiate? was it a bar or mall or ….?
Swagger up with a pretzel and say something cheesy like- I’d ask for directions to your heart, but I’m too busy dodging mall cops to find it—wanna grab a coffee instead? Now if the first girl rejects you, keep trying, you will eventually find a girl that says ‘yes’, if she can tolerate your horrible pickup line, then you know she’s the ‘one’
