How do SP's do it??

[VinnyBuff]

After last night, I have to say that I really really admire and respect SP's. Let me tell you why.

I just got out of a relationship about 2 weeks ago, and naturally I was feeling lonely, desperate, and horny. I needed to get laid, so I answered an ad in the casual encounters section on Craigslist to have a one night stand with this woman who was 34, which is 11 years older than I am. I'm not sure why she responded to me, she must have liked the picture I sent her, but we chatted through email and on the phone and then we met later the same night.

She was short, very plain, average weight, and average looking. She wore no makeup. I wasn't attracted to her at all, so when we met I didn't know how I was going to continue on with this. But I drove for an half an hour to get there, so it was going to happen no matter what. It was too late to turn back now.

She was very wild, we did a lot of kissing, and she gave me a bbbjtcim. After that I couldn't take it anymore, I wasn't attracted to her at all, I had to stop it there and I made up some excuse to get myself the hell out of there, i did not want to do DATY on her, or have any vaginal intercourse.

I felt so dirty and disgusting, she was not my type at all. When I went home I brushed my teeth 5 times, and showered for 2 hours. Now I'm convinced she gave me some STI's from the bbbj, my tool was itching after, and it still itches now. I don't know what to do. I feel so violated, why the hell did I do it if i wasn't attracted to her? I feel like an animal.

And that is why I respect and admire SP's so much. How the hell do you have sexual intercourse of any kind with men that are probably old, fat, ugly, smelly, hairy, and disgusting, day in and day out? I can't even imagine the psychological toll it must take on you, yet I'm sure you still manage to do it with a smile on your face and provide excellent customer service.

This is the first time I had any sexual encounter with a girl who I wasn't attracted to at all, and I have psychological trauma from it. I've said it before, but I feel so dirty and disgusting!

Sorry for my long rant, I just had to get this off my chest. You SP's are incredible, and I mean it.

 

[eldoguy]

Ever wonder what happens if there is an attraction to a sp, and how hot a session it becomes after seeing her often!

Trying not to see her again is most diffulcult I find.Then thinking ther could be a relatonship other than being on the clock! It then gets complicated.

 

[HAMSTER INSPECTOR]

I figure its sort of like fishing!

Imagine you go fishing for the first time and you get a whole mess of fish, then you discoverver that you have to clean these fish. You stick the knife into the fish belly and gut the sucker only to be discusted, you yank out a hand full of smelly guts and wonder what you got yourself into. You swear to yourself you will never do it again. Then many years go by and you have done it many times since wheather you get a whole mess of fish and sometimes your catch is so bad that you toss what you catch back because it is not worth keeping. You have no plans of giving up the sport because it has its rewards as well as its disappointments!

 

[Mr. Lucky]

Sometimes they fart on your face

 

[eldoguy]

Sometimes they fart on your face

It is there way of saying they would like to see you again!

So much for customer service

 

[lusciouslin33]

It's not work for all of us because some of us don't have a turnstile at the door.
For myself, someone that advertises very infrequently, I HAVE to have some sort of rapport and interest in the visitor or there is no way I can do it. Have asked some to leave based entirely on that creed.
It's a shitty thing to be so lonely that we allow ourselves to settle for a few moments of gratification in order to temporarily fill that emptiness we feel inside, eh.

 

[james t kirk]

You`re young and you`re from the current generation who is more fixated on looks than I am most likely.

I read your post and the one thing that comes to my mind is that you`re very shallow and totally fixated on looks. You described a woman of "average" this and "average" that, not a fat smelly pig or anything like that, just "She wore no makeup" And then you drone on about "feeling dirty" and probably having an STI from a blow job? Where the fuck do you get off saying something like that?

I dunno why, but reading your post, I feel sorry for her and not for you.

You strike me like a woman actually.

I would suggest you stick to the bars down in the club district because that`s where you`ll probably be more comfortable.

Just doing a little search on your posts confirms your fucked up attitude towards women there Biff, I mean Buff.

https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=180732

 

[Damondean]

Hery James T! Cut the guy some slack. He had an experience and he reported on it here . . .No need to bash him.

His question is legit. How do SPs do it? It must be hard to "do" everyone who calls or walks in through the door.... Jeez, I even try not to look in the mirro at myself.. )

 

[babyfinsta]

You`re young and you`re from the current generation who is more fixated on looks than I am most likely.

I read your post and the one thing that comes to my mind is that you`re very shallow and totally fixated on looks. You described a woman of "average" this and "average" that, not a fat smelly pig or anything like that, just "She wore no makeup" And then you drone on about "feeling dirty" and probably having an STI from a blow job? Where the fuck do you get off saying something like that?

I dunno why, but reading your post, I feel sorry for her and not for you.

You strike me like a woman actually.

I would suggest you stick to the bars down in the club district because that`s where you`ll probably be more comfortable.

Just doing a little search on your posts confirms your fucked up attitude towards women there Biff, I mean Buff.

https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=180732

agreed. Biff Loman there was pretty rude . stuck around for free sex and he feels violated?

 

[tboy]

Yeah, I missed the math in order to find out hold old the OP is.....23, explains everything.....just because she wasn't attractive (to you) why do you feel disgusted?

But to be honest, you're such a BOY. Get her to blow you then bail? A little selfish aren't you? Heck, I've met women that I wasn't all that attracted to physically and it led to sex and being a MAN I made sure she had a good time........

As for sp's: for the record we're not all old fat and smelly. Some of us are old, that isn't a bad thing, some are fat, again, that isn't necessarily a bad thing, and most of us know to shower WELL before a date so we're not smelly. I know many MANY 20 something women who once they try an OLD guy, they swear off BOYS because a) we know we're going to get some more so we're not in a rush b) we know that as MEN we take care of her needs too and c) we typically are gentlemen....

Sure, I bet there are times when an SP does a guy she wouldn't normally do but also remember that at all times: an SP can refuse to continue a date upon arriving at the location. So, that means that the ladies do it because they chose to, not because they have to. In fact, I'm old, not fat, and far from smelly and I've had 20 something ladies say to me: if I'm not scheduled, call anyways and I'll book on just for you......now THAT tells me she not only doesn't mind doing me, that she actually enjoyed herself TYVM.

BTW: not to keep repeating this but as you get older and wiser you'll learn that there is no such thing as bad sex, just different types.

 

[MuffinMuncher]

I know many MANY 20 something women who once they try an OLD guy, they swear off BOYS because a) we know we're going to get some more so we're not in a rush b) we know that as MEN we take care of her needs too and c) we typically are gentlemen....

BTW: not to keep repeating this but as you get older and wiser you'll learn that there is no such thing as bad sex, just different types.

I wholeheartedly agree with the first paragraph. The first 100 times you have sex, you look at it like an expiring commodity that you have get as much of as possible as fast as you can. Its about the "act" rather than the encounter. As you get past 30 (ok, 35-ish), it becomes less about quantity and more about quality.

Providers in the 20-25 range tend to prefer and date guys who are 10+ years older than they are. These girls put up with enough crap from guys at work, the last thing they want is a inept, selfish or speedy lover in their real lives.

I gotta disagree with the last statement though. There IS such a thing as bad sex, but by that age you should be able to see the signs long before it gets that far.

 

[LordLoki]

Drugs seem a common solution?

 

[lusciouslin33]

There IS such a thing as bad sex, but by that age you should be able to see the signs long before it gets that far.

I don't agree with you on your final comment. If you're having bad sex, that's because you're a bad communicator.

 

[Kyra.Graves]

I don't agree with you on your final comment. If you're having bad sex, that's because you're a bad communicator.

No, sometimes your with a selfish partner. I agree with MM, you can start to recognize those that will not listen easier with experience and it typically doesn't go that far. There are people out there that have no interest in their partners pleasure, it takes some experience to learn to avoid these people.

 

[VinnyBuff]

Yeah, I missed the math in order to find out hold old the OP is.....23, explains everything.....just because she wasn't attractive (to you) why do you feel disgusted?

But to be honest, you're such a BOY. Get her to blow you then bail? A little selfish aren't you? Heck, I've met women that I wasn't all that attracted to physically and it led to sex and being a MAN I made sure she had a good time........

I knew I would get some backlash from the older folk. What does my age really have to do with it? I've seen many older people on here in their 30's, 40's, 50's and even older, both clients and sp's alike who have stated that looks ARE important, and not only just important, but VERY important.

I don't think the importance of physical attraction has anything to do with age, it has more to do with personality. Knowing the person that I am, I can't be intimate with someone who I'm not physically attracted to, I just can't do it, it makes me feel disgusting as I've mentioned earlier. I'm not the type to have sex with an ugly, or old, or fat pig no matter how lonely and desperate I am. I'd rather just masturbate than have sex with the aforementioned type of women. It's just me, and I'd be perfectly happy if that was my only option.

Put it this way, if there was only one woman left earth, and I was the last man on earth, and I wasn't attracted to her the human race would become extinct. I wouldn't even have a second thought about it. Call me selfish if you want, but I'm just being honest. And I know I'm not the only one.

I have nothing against being friends with any woman, no matter what she looks like physically, but why do I have to have sex with, be in a relationship with, or marry a woman who I'm not physically attracted to? It doesn't make sense, that's what friendship is for. Romance and sex must have an element of physical attraction otherwise it won't work. That's why I'm surprised SP's can do what they do so well. I could never do it, even if I was getting paid $300 an hour, the emotional and psychological harm would not be worth it for me.

 

[BallzDeep]

I knew I would get some backlash from the older folk. What does my age really have to do with it? I've seen many older people on here in their 30's, 40's, 50's and even older, both clients and sp's alike who have stated that looks ARE important, and not only just important, but VERY important.

I don't think the importance of physical attraction has anything to do with age, it has more to do with personality. Knowing the person that I am, I can't be intimate with someone who I'm not physically attracted to, I just can't do it, it makes me feel disgusting as I've mentioned earlier. I'm not the type to have sex with an ugly, or old, or fat pig no matter how lonely and desperate I am. I'd rather just masturbate than have sex with the aforementioned type of women. It's just me, and I'd be perfectly happy if that was my only option.

Put it this way, if there was only one woman left earth, and I was the last man on earth, and I wasn't attracted to her the human race would become extinct. I wouldn't even have a second thought about it. Call me selfish if you want, but I'm just being honest. And I know I'm not the only one.

I have nothing against being friends with any woman, no matter what she looks like physically, but why do I have to have sex with, be in a relationship with, or marry a woman who I'm not physically attracted to? It doesn't make sense, that's what friendship is for. Romance and sex must have an element of physical attraction otherwise it won't work. That's why I'm surprised SP's can do what they do so well. I could never do it, even if I was getting paid $300 an hour, the emotional and psychological harm would not be worth it for me.

I completely agree with you, most people won't say it though. I went to an 80$ asian incall one time and the lady was gross, she was friendly but I couldn't get hard nomatter what she did.

Sex is all about physical attraction, I also don't know how the sp's do it, I'm just glad they do. They don't have to get hard to have sex, maybe that's it. If I'm paying for sex, it's going to be someone I'm attracted to. BTW I'm in my late 30's so age has nothing to do with it.

 

[tboy]

Again, you show your age......you don't know the difference between booking time with an sp (whose time you're paying for) and just picking up someone or being in a relationship with them? If I am paying someone to be with me I will book the time with the hottest woman I can afford. Most likely one I couldn't just pick up in any bar in the city.

You state: you can't be intimate with anyone you aren't attractive to. Well, I hate to break it to you, but you WERE and as soon as you got off, you bailed. Which, in my opinion, is a totally selfish and juvenile thing to do. If you were a "man" you would have not let it get that far and cowboyed the fuck up and told her straight out that you weren't interested.

Sorry, and I know this won't mean squat to you, but I have ZERO respect for you for doing that....(getting YOUR rocks off then bailing when it came time for you to reciprocate)......

I completely agree with you, most people won't say it though. I went to an 80$ asian incall one time and the lady was gross, she was friendly but I couldn't get hard nomatter what she did.

Sex is all about physical attraction, I also don't know how the sp's do it, I'm just glad they do. They don't have to get hard to have sex, maybe that's it. If I'm paying for sex, it's going to be someone I'm attracted to. BTW I'm in my late 30's so age has nothing to do with it.

Again, if you're paying for it, you have a certain expectation. But what the hell did you expect for $80.00? Charlize Theron?

I will be the FIRST to admit looks have a lot to do with it but what is SO wrong with this poster is the fact that he pulled a pussy move and let her give him head and THEN bailed......If he was a MAN he would have stopped it LONG before that......

 

[VinnyBuff]

Again, you show your age......you don't know the difference between booking time with an sp (whose time you're paying for) and just picking up someone or being in a relationship with them? If I am paying someone to be with me I will book the time with the hottest woman I can afford. Most likely one I couldn't just pick up in any bar in the city.

You state: you can't be intimate with anyone you aren't attractive to. Well, I hate to break it to you, but you WERE and as soon as you got off, you bailed. Which, in my opinion, is a totally selfish and juvenile thing to do. If you were a "man" you would have not let it get that far and cowboyed the fuck up and told her straight out that you weren't interested.

Sorry, and I know this won't mean squat to you, but I have ZERO respect for you for doing that....(getting YOUR rocks off then bailing when it came time for you to reciprocate)......

I've never been with a girl I wasn't attracted to before, the whole time right from the very beginning I was disgusted. I was just lying on the bed she was on top of me the whole time, doing things to me, kissing me, licking me, and then going for my tool, I was just lying still, I didn't initiate anything. I should have just bailed at the beginning, you're right, my eyes were closed the whole time imagining a hot woman. It was a bad experience for me, and psychologically taxing, but I promise you it will NEVER happen again. It was a new experience, and one experience that will never be repeated. I can guarantee you that from now on I will only be sexually active with girls that I'm attracted to. Even if that means paying for it when I'm your age when I can't get quality pussy for free.

 

[tboy]

...... Even if that means paying for it when I'm your age when I can't get quality pussy for free.

LOL obviously you can't NOW, as you so adamantly have told us in this thread....lol

Dude, you SO put your foot into it that time lol.....

BTW: you will learn at some point that some of the best sex will be from ugly or average looking women. Why? because they HAVE to be good at something, they can't just rely on their looks like attractive women can.....

 

[petitelover]

Why and how do they do it? Money is a very powerful drug.