How do SP's do it??

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VinnyBuff

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lolathelovely said:
How do SPs do it? How do waitresses do it? On their feet all day, customers sending food back and complaining, boss yells at them, the smell of the greasy food nauseating, remembering what everyone ordered-all for minimum wage and have to smile sweetly for a buck tip! I met an educated young SP recently who said "I wasn't forced into prostitution after I graduated, I was forced into retail." There are lots of men and women who do jobs that most people wouldn't want to ever do, but they do it. Why do we consider sex with strangers so degrading compared with cleaning sewers or other people's toilets? For me sex is pleasure, sex is good. Some people have hang ups about sex. Some don't. Sounds like the OP was unhappy with himself when he met this woman from craigslist and he is projecting his feelings of disgust with himself onto the woman and now onto SPs in general.

Personally, I get a thrill from anonymous sex-what will he look like, what's going to happen-goes through my mind. Sex is never the same twice. As an SP I'm stretching my boundaries and exploring myself sexually. I sleep with lots of men that I might not otherwise have slept with and most of the time it's enjoyable. It's exciting, fun and I get paid very well too. For me, the sex isn't the bad part of the job. People canceling at the last minute, no shows, weirdos on the phone, etc. It's the administration side that is bothersome-sometimes.

I'm an independent SP so I'm in complete control of what happens during a session and I keep 100% of the money. Not everyone is as lucky as me though. I'm sure lots of women hate the anonymous sex, certain sex acts they perform and even the men involved. They, hopefully, will only do it as short a time as possible and when they have enough money they will stop and find other work. When I was a student, I did lots of summer jobs that were less than desireable for low pay. When I got the money I needed for school or to travel, I stopped doing those jobs-they were short term solutions to meeting financial goals. I'm sure lots of SPs do this for a short time and then get out.

Again ask yourself, "How do waitresses do it?"
I'd rather work at McDonald's making minimum wage than have sex with ugly, old, or fat women multiple times a day, day in and day out while making top dollar. But I guess that's just me.
 

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VinnyBuff said:
I'd rather work at McDonald's making minimum wage than have sex with ugly, old, or fat women multiple times a day, day in and day out while making top dollar. But I guess that's just me.
This just keeps getting better and better doesn't it? lol

No worries vinnie, I don't think anyone, old fat or not, would pay you to have sex with them......from your own evidence you'd probably collect the money, let them give you head, then bail.......
 

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VinnyBuff said:
when did I ever say I pay for it?? I've been to MPs a few time, but that's it, never been to an SP. I'm mostly on this site to view the reviews on strip clubs.
You're way ahead of where I was when I was 23.

When I was 23, I was still in University, I had slept with a grand total of 2 women (I was still dating the second)

I had never DREAMED of paying for it period. I was still full of black and white morals at that age. I didn't cross that one way bridge till I was mid 30's when I discovered massage parlours.

Don't be so quick to judge.
 

james t kirk

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This just keeps getting better and better doesn't it? lol

No worries vinnie, I don't think anyone, old fat or not, would pay you to have sex with them......from your own evidence you'd probably collect the money, let them give you head, then bail.......
Yes it does.

The thing with Vinny is as you said, he should have bailed the second he realized he wasn't into it. He went for the blow job, then bailed and has the audacity to put this woman down because she didn't wear makeup, or was average and he thinks he has an STD.

No consideration for her feelings whatsoever.
 

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james t kirk said:
Yes it does.

The thing with Vinny is as you said, he should have bailed the second he realized he wasn't into it. He went for the blow job, then bailed and has the audacity to put this woman down because she didn't wear makeup, or was average and he thinks he has an STD.

No consideration for her feelings whatsoever.
First of all, I never asked for a blowjob, I didn't ask for anything. Like I said, I was just lying there with my eyes closed, she chose to give it to me, and she really enjoyed giving me head, she enjoyed it way more than I did. I don't think she has any regrets at all, especially considering the fact that she said my cum tasted sweet and loved the taste, and was incredibly enthusiastic and moaning the whole time she was doing it.

She got a lot out of it, I didn't, all of you old people seem to be bitter and jealous and are quick to make assumptions.
 

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James: good post, and I just love these guys that walk around thinking they are all that and a bag of chips when in fact, they have NO idea wth they're talking about.

But I mean, his statement: "when did I ever say I pay for it?? I've been to MPs a few time, but that's it" sums up his mentality entirely lol
 

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HAMSTER INSPECTOR said:
I went to see a woman of about 33 years old, she was 5,7 130 lbs. B tits and she was fashionable dressed. First she felt my balls off and then pulled on cock a bit, later she fingered my butt hole gently. She does this several times a day with different men. She does this day in and day out, how does she do it? Ohh, buy the way. She was wearing a white lab coat and she is my doctor.
ROFLMAO

That was good, Inspector, very good. Anyway...how do we do it? The same way anyone else does their job. Sometimes you like doing what you do, but when you dont....think of the $$$. Sometimes its worth it but when its not just remember, we have no choice...if we dont do it our pimps will trunk us!
 

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lolathelovely said:
Personally, I get a thrill from anonymous sex-what will he look like, what's going to happen-goes through my mind. Sex is never the same twice. As an SP I'm stretching my boundaries and exploring myself sexually. I sleep with lots of men that I might not otherwise have slept with and most of the time it's enjoyable. It's exciting, fun and I get paid very well too. For me, the sex isn't the bad part of the job. People canceling at the last minute, no shows, weirdos on the phone, etc. It's the administration side that is bothersome-sometimes.
Again ask yourself, "How do waitresses do it?"
This is the real response to pay attention to - from an SP. I've asked a few times - what's it like with an anonymous stranger? But then, that's exactly what I'm doing, despite checking reviews and so on. Thanks, Lola, for the real inside story...
 

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james t kirk said:
I dunno why, but reading your post, I feel sorry for her and not for you.

You strike me like a woman actually.
i had the same thought.
 

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VinnyBuff said:
She was very wild, we did a lot of kissing, and she gave me a bbbjtcim. After that I couldn't take it anymore, I wasn't attracted to her at all, I had to stop it there and I made up some excuse to get myself the hell out of there, i did not want to do DATY on her, or have any vaginal intercourse.

I felt so dirty and disgusting, she was not my type at all. When I went home I brushed my teeth 5 times, and showered for 2 hours. Now I'm convinced she gave me some STI's from the bbbj, my tool was itching after, and it still itches now. I don't know what to do. I feel so violated, why the hell did I do it if i wasn't attracted to her? I feel like an animal.
You kissed her so she would give you the bbbjtcim. If you were not attracted to her you should not have just used her like that to begin with. You did not do daty on her, but were willing to kiss her because your intent was to fulfill your own needs and not hers. If she was not your type at all you would not have been able to kiss her to begin with. The only one that was violated was her. You did behave like an animal. You thought of your own needs and not the needs of others, you kissed her she gave you pleasure and as you were kissing her she was thinking to please you and figured she would have more fun later. She was unselfish and gave you pleasure and then you left. If she asked you to eat her out first and then she would give you the bj then things may have been different, but of course you will deny it.
 

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tboy said:
Some of us are old, that isn't a bad thing, some are fat, again, that isn't necessarily a bad thing,.
I gotta disagree. It's been almost 8 years now since any moderately fuckable woman has invited me to do something for free (other than die...). I am fully resigned to the fact that I will never again get sniff of what I like except as a customer.
 

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The OP is a very young person and maybe has some issues and hangups.

Whatever his intent or context was, the point is a valid one for consideration. I'm often disappointed by how many hobbyists are willing to buy into comforting and convenient delusions about the question oposed by the OP.

Yes Yes I know, there are a few special and unusual individuals who truly crave and enjoy annonymous sex with completely random individuals, sight unseen no matter what they look like or how crappy their attitude - so don't acuse me of painting everyone with the same brush.

But let's face it, many of the women that are entertaining us are able to do so unflinchingly because of some irregular (and often unfortunate) circumstance in their life or their past. It's logical to conclude many can take it in stride because they have been through worse often enough to lose (or at least control) any fear and/or revulsion.

It bothers me to read so many posts from people implying that sex work is next to money for nothing, whining when a Half Hour of someone's body costs more than a pair of shoes from Winners, daring to feel outrage for paying or comparing it to their own jobs (yeah, ok, why don't THEY put an ad in Now offering BBBJTC & rimjobs to offset the cost of hobbying...hmm?)

I wish more people went to their Sp/MP/SC sessions with a greater respect for the legitimate possibility that their entertainer may have travelled a very turbulent path to become tough enough for the job and some of the drama and elements which often accompany it. That means just being a little more humble & magnanamous when dealing with the ladies and taking the high road as much as possible in any dspute or misunderstanding.
 

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Hard man? You're perpetuating a stereotype.....maybe you're referring to the crackho's that you see on jarvis but I have yet to come across any woman that has been forced into this business due to some turbulent history. For the most part they are more stable, more intelligent, more interesting and more together than any civilian woman I ever met....

Anyways, I suggest you pick up iespell it is an online spell check program you've got more than a couple in your post: for the record, I don't think the OP opposed anything.....he might have posed a question, which do you mean?
 

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Jade4u said:
You kissed her so she would give you the bbbjtcim. If you were not attracted to her you should not have just used her like that to begin with. You did not do daty on her, but were willing to kiss her because your intent was to fulfill your own needs and not hers. If she was not your type at all you would not have been able to kiss her to begin with. The only one that was violated was her. You did behave like an animal. You thought of your own needs and not the needs of others, you kissed her she gave you pleasure and as you were kissing her she was thinking to please you and figured she would have more fun later. She was unselfish and gave you pleasure and then you left. If she asked you to eat her out first and then she would give you the bj then things may have been different, but of course you will deny it.
It's funny how you jump to conclusions and make assumptions, you're completely wrong.

I was not willing to kiss her, I didn't want to kiss her at all. Like I said many times in this thread, I was lying on the bed with my eyes closed, she was the one kissing me, drooling on me, and slobbering over me. I didn't initiate anything. In fact, that's what disgusted me the most, the kissing part. That's why I brushed my teeth 5 times when I got home, it was disgusting. I was not attempting to fulfill any of my needs, SHE got the pleasure from kissing me, and SHE got the pleasure from giving me a blowjob. At the end of the night she was satisfied, and I was not, I'm still traumatized by the whole encounter.

Like I said, this was the first and last time I'm ever going to be sexual in any manner with a woman who I'm not attracted to, I've learned a valuable lesson, so I can promise you Jade that I won't be having sex with you anytime in the future.
 

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VinnyBuff said:
SHE got the pleasure from kissing me, and SHE got the pleasure from giving me a blowjob. At the end of the night she was satisfied, and I was not, I'm still traumatized by the whole encounter.

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thats funny. this is a great thread.

I am surprised you didn't call the cops after being raped like that.
 

Jade4u

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tboy said:
Hard man? You're perpetuating a stereotype.....maybe you're referring to the crackho's that you see on jarvis but I have yet to come across any woman that has been forced into this business due to some turbulent history. For the most part they are more stable, more intelligent, more interesting and more together than any civilian woman I ever met....

Anyways, I suggest you pick up iespell it is an online spell check program you've got more than a couple in your post: for the record, I don't think the OP opposed anything.....he might have posed a question, which do you mean?

I do not believe he used the word "forced" he said they are in it because of unfortunate circumstances of past or present.

I take it you only see sp's that do not do this for survival for themselves or for thier young ones or to go through college because they are no longer welcome at home once they hit age etc... you only see sp's that are in it to get rich and already own thier own business that are doing quite well or hold gov't positions etc...
 

Jade4u

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VinnyBuff said:
It's funny how you jump to conclusions and make assumptions, you're completely wrong.

I was not willing to kiss her, I didn't want to kiss her at all. Like I said many times in this thread, I was lying on the bed with my eyes closed, she was the one kissing me, drooling on me, and slobbering over me. I didn't initiate anything. In fact, that's what disgusted me the most, the kissing part. That's why I brushed my teeth 5 times when I got home, it was disgusting. I was not attempting to fulfill any of my needs, SHE got the pleasure from kissing me, and SHE got the pleasure from giving me a blowjob. At the end of the night she was satisfied, and I was not, I'm still traumatized by the whole encounter.

Like I said, this was the first and last time I'm ever going to be sexual in any manner with a woman who I'm not attracted to, I've learned a valuable lesson, so I can promise you Jade that I won't be having sex with you anytime in the future.

That is fine I only have sex with men that keep thier eyes open to reality.

Do you own a dog per chance? roflmao Don't blame me you painted the pretty picture. Maybe it was better to not use someone like that and stay home and play with the pooch.

oh yeah, I am not working now if I date I only date men older than I.
 
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