Vinny,
WTF are you doing laying in the bed in the first place if that is not where you wanted it go?????
You can't have it both ways. You layed on her bed. Eyes closed. That was your choice. That is basically the invite that she needed to go a head.
You got your dick sucked and left. Tons of guys have done it, and even some have woke up the next day asking themselves why they did it, but take some ownership here man. Grow some balls, admit your fault in it and learn from the experience instead of whining on a review board acting like you were so hard done by.