Are you always so serious? Or do you not see the irony and comedy of asking for dating advice on an escort site?Are you always so helpful? Or are you just a cynic? OP Is asked tor help/advice. Either be helpful or say something funny.
Do you think its better to plan it out, or think of something on the spot with her?1. Take her to dinner. Give her options on where. Avoid movies!!!!!
2. a little alcohol is good, but ask her first. If she says no, follow her lead.
3. Eye contact is good, but too much is creepy
4. Try to find what interests her, but avoid an interrogation
5. If you’re having fun (or even if the date seems stalled), suggest another place to go. Maybe a small live music dance club like the reservoir
lounge.
6. If she’s sending you positive signals, touch her hand. If she responds relax and enjoy what may come next.
7. Assume this date may go nowhere and try to enjoy the conversation and company of another human being.
(Maybe this should have been number 1)
Arranging a second date during the first date sounds like a pretty good idea. I wonder how I should text her after the date lolMy advice that seems to work well as a first date ice-breaker (for me) -
- Keep it casual.
- Ask her if she has any food preferences.
- Keep the conversation light but focus on her interests, favorite places to visit, etc.
- Find a common interest and milk it.
- I don't not talk much about myself unless asked and I stay away from conversations regarding former girlfriends or her boyfriends.
- If a former girlfriend topic surfaced, take the high road and 'we drifted apart' rather than a 20 minute rant on what a selfish, cheating bitch she was.
- If I would like a second date, I usually find out if she likes art, any movies she hasn't seen, parts of the city she would like to see, etc.
- We usually have the framework for the second date in place before the first date is finished.
What's DSOF?Avoid controversial topics such as slapping/spitting/choking/hair pulling and DSOF
Dick slap on faceWhat's DSOF?
From at a hot dog stand? Come to think of it, hot dogs at Costco would be a cheap date idea and infinite free samplesDick slap on face
All kidding aside, I think you need to learn to "be in the moment." That means not thinking so much on what happens next, what to say, what to do, where to go, etc. This also means you need to pay close attention to her verbal and non-verbal cues because they will help to guide you It's very tough to pay attention when you're thinking about the next steps when you don't know if there will be any.Do you think its better to plan it out, or think of something on the spot with her?
Arranging a second date during the first date sounds like a pretty good idea. I wonder how I should text her after the date lol
This only works if you're Patrick Swayze with a mulletTake her to pottery classes. If everything goes well, you bond and eventually get intimate, both of you will have experience with clay should Greek ever come up.
Think back. There had to be some part of her conversation that could provide you with some insight to something that interests her. It would show that you actually were interested in her thoughts.Arranging a second date during the first date sounds like a pretty good idea. I wonder how I should text her after the date lol
Plan out different restaurants , give her your options, then reserve a table.Do you think its better to plan it out, or think of something on the spot with her?
Catch22Plan out different restaurants , give her your options, then reserve a table.
she will appreciate your planning and will like your effort to include her in decision making.
Nothing screams incompetence most when you arrive at a restaurant and can’t get a table.
Just be careful who you think is a successful dating coach because anyone can be one these days.This is not the place to go to for dating advice lol.
Look up tips on YouTube by actual successful dating coaches.
Glad you got the date and are looking for something real, hope it works out.
According to the psychologist on this video (who has an extremely irritating voice), on first dates 79% of women just want to find comfortable.advice from a married woman