Are you always so serious? Or do you not see the irony and comedy of asking for dating advice on an escort site?
If only there was a place online where people could search for answers to their questions. Hmm.
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If only there was a place online where people could search for answers to their questions. Hmm.
Do you think its better to plan it out, or think of something on the spot with her?
Arranging a second date during the first date sounds like a pretty good idea. I wonder how I should text her after the date lol
Do something different…..
iFly with a walk after and night cap somewhere.
Mini-golf and ice cream after
Escape room and then coffee at a lounge style coffee bar.
CN Tower tour, Rilpleys Aquarium, etc.
I would appreciate a man who came with a plan, did something different and fun and something I wouldn’t normally just do myself.
But that is just me.
You can ask her some things about what she likes to plan accordingly but I would plan it out and just surprise her.
iFly with a walk after and night cap somewhere.
Mini-golf and ice cream after
Escape room and then coffee at a lounge style coffee bar.
CN Tower tour, Rilpleys Aquarium, etc.
I would appreciate a man who came with a plan, did something different and fun and something I wouldn’t normally just do myself.
But that is just me.
You can ask her some things about what she likes to plan accordingly but I would plan it out and just surprise her.
Avoid controversial topics such as slapping/spitting/choking/hair pulling and DSOF 
What's DSOF?Avoid controversial topics such as slapping/spitting/choking/hair pulling and DSOF
Dick slap on face
From at a hot dog stand?Dick slap on face
Come to think of it, hot dogs at Costco would be a cheap date idea and infinite free samples 
All kidding aside, I think you need to learn to "be in the moment." That means not thinking so much on what happens next, what to say, what to do, where to go, etc. This also means you need to pay close attention to her verbal and non-verbal cues because they will help to guide you It's very tough to pay attention when you're thinking about the next steps when you don't know if there will be any.
This only works if you're Patrick Swayze with a mulletTake her to pottery classes. If everything goes well, you bond and eventually get intimate, both of you will have experience with clay should Greek ever come up.
Think back. There had to be some part of her conversation that could provide you with some insight to something that interests her. It would show that you actually were interested in her thoughts.
... unless her conversation was drowned out by your thoughts looking at the girl at the adjacent table.
Plan out different restaurants , give her your options, then reserve a table.
she will appreciate your planning and will like your effort to include her in decision making.
Nothing screams incompetence most when you arrive at a restaurant and can’t get a table.
Catch22
Nice advice but some people - read post #25 - this is a coin toss up. It appears you are to nice with multiple choice restaurants, but if you already plan the specific restaurant then you are a man of charge, and confidence. But if you succumb to her nagging or will manipulation you are a simp.
I guess it is all in the delivery of your words, tone and body language.
Just be careful who you think is a successful dating coach because anyone can be one these days.
Those than can, do. Those that can't, teach.
According to the psychologist on this video (who has an extremely irritating voice), on first dates 79% of women just want to find comfortable.
So no anal.
Maybe the Navy just got the top actresses, but as I watch the video, I can’t help but notice how much hotter this 20-35 year old lady is than most ladies today. But maybe women think the same thing when they see the officers in the video. Were people better looking back then? They were certainly slimmer.
Hilarious thread - all joking aside but
Come to think of it - its been years since that has happened - a date, let us know how it goes and let us know if any of the hobby terminology creeps up in your mind. Good luck mate.
Come to think of it - its been years since that has happened - a date, let us know how it goes and let us know if any of the hobby terminology creeps up in your mind. Good luck mate.
I like her channel. Hasn't helped in getting a date but has worked in me being less awkward during networking.
I hear the Dixie Holidy Inn has great vibes and excellent parking options. Take her there. Pretend it’s your first time
