Do you regret getting married?
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Marriage should be contractual maximum for a period of 5-yrs, which is renewable after its expiry period, in the meantime if any partner is not at all comfortable they can choose their own ways in their lives, without any hasseles of going to courts, & dividing their assets.
That is why i would any day prefer to have a common law partner without any strings attached what so ever.
That is why i would any day prefer to have a common law partner without any strings attached what so ever.
On marrital speedbumps...
I stumbled across Hobbyland because of my frustration with my sex life. I thought I was going to fly solo, spanking the monkey for the rest of my life before I found this 'hobby'.
But after a year of intense hobbying, with numerous encounters with some of Montreal's hottest SPs and MPs, I am wondering if I wish I never hobbied.
I have one close friend of mine, much older and wiser than me, who I have admitted my extra-marrital excursions to. He does not hobby and does not judge me. In fact, he told me that as long as nobody gets hurt, I am just doing what all men are biologically programmed to do. Moreover, he told me that my wife is cheating me out of sex, so I shouldn't feel so bad about cheating on her. "It's a perfectly normal response."
However, he warned me that I will not find what I am looking for in Hobbyland: "In the end, you're only postponing long-term pain with short-term gain."
Like I said, he is older and wiser than I am.
GG
I do not regret getting married but nothing really prepares you for the rough patches. In our day and age, it is easier to give up and consult a divorce lawyer. But you have to be honest with yourself and reflect on what really gives meaning to your life.Athena06 said:
I stumbled across Hobbyland because of my frustration with my sex life. I thought I was going to fly solo, spanking the monkey for the rest of my life before I found this 'hobby'.
But after a year of intense hobbying, with numerous encounters with some of Montreal's hottest SPs and MPs, I am wondering if I wish I never hobbied.
I have one close friend of mine, much older and wiser than me, who I have admitted my extra-marrital excursions to. He does not hobby and does not judge me. In fact, he told me that as long as nobody gets hurt, I am just doing what all men are biologically programmed to do. Moreover, he told me that my wife is cheating me out of sex, so I shouldn't feel so bad about cheating on her. "It's a perfectly normal response."
However, he warned me that I will not find what I am looking for in Hobbyland: "In the end, you're only postponing long-term pain with short-term gain."
Like I said, he is older and wiser than I am.
GG
Wise indeed.General Gonad said:However, he warned me that I will not find what I am looking for in Hobbyland: "In the end, you're only postponing long-term pain with short-term gain."
Like I said, he is older and wiser than I am.
GG
You simply can't buy love or friendship
It didn't take me long to figure out that I wasn't going to find what I am looking for in Hobbyland. Yeah, sure it is always exciting to meet someone new and escape in Fantasyland for an hour or two to enjoy the sex and conversations.
But I am paying to be with a lady. I think we can all agree that our deep relationships are not based on money. Money corrupts us and I have even witnessed some hobbyists here in Montreal who delude themselves into thinking that they're special to some SP.
All clients are 'special' as long as they're paying. Once someone stops paying, they become a persona non grata.
GG
peeler_feeler,peeler_feeler said:
It didn't take me long to figure out that I wasn't going to find what I am looking for in Hobbyland. Yeah, sure it is always exciting to meet someone new and escape in Fantasyland for an hour or two to enjoy the sex and conversations.
But I am paying to be with a lady. I think we can all agree that our deep relationships are not based on money. Money corrupts us and I have even witnessed some hobbyists here in Montreal who delude themselves into thinking that they're special to some SP.
All clients are 'special' as long as they're paying. Once someone stops paying, they become a persona non grata.
GG
I dont think anyone knows what marriage will be like until they are--just living together isnt the same--ultimately it comes down to this unless you hate each other and it cant be resolved then you need to see whats important in your life. Someone that is always there for you-curls up with you at nite-cares whether you feel sick--knows the joke youve told 1000 times but still laughes at it--I dont believe in the "Great Love Story" romance novels should be banned books and boys and girls shouldnt be fed a line of bull about marriage. It would save alot of people alot of disappointment.
No I don't regret it. I wish I didn't feel the need to Hobby. I have tried to stop..and some days are easier than others.
Sex is important...but friendship, and shared parenting are more-so.
Would it be the same if my wife was some "sex-kitten"?
I doubt it. Seems to me the most passion filled couples wind up going down in flames the soonest.
Sex is important...but friendship, and shared parenting are more-so.
Would it be the same if my wife was some "sex-kitten"?
I doubt it. Seems to me the most passion filled couples wind up going down in flames the soonest.
Goddess Athena06, the good doc's only regret is not marrying Goddess Aphrodite. Sad, sad, sad!!!
Sad, sad, sad!!!Regret it No. We have been married 20 years no kids and done a lot together that has been great. Sure we have had some tough patches and her lack of interest in sex is what got me here in the hobby.
So long as I don't rub her nose in it she has no problem, of course she also is blissfully unaware, to the best of my knowledge.
This has given me the opportunity to meet some wonderful women and as much as the sex is great it is also time spent with companions that I enjoy. FOr the person who said that once the money is gone you are persona non gratius. That is not necessarily true. I have a couple ladies that I see for non-sexual times and we get along great. In both cases they have very few people who are aware of their double life and it gives them a chance to talk without there being something to hide.
So long as I don't rub her nose in it she has no problem, of course she also is blissfully unaware, to the best of my knowledge.
This has given me the opportunity to meet some wonderful women and as much as the sex is great it is also time spent with companions that I enjoy. FOr the person who said that once the money is gone you are persona non gratius. That is not necessarily true. I have a couple ladies that I see for non-sexual times and we get along great. In both cases they have very few people who are aware of their double life and it gives them a chance to talk without there being something to hide.
How about the good doc shall take your girlfriend Angie Jolie for his next wife???Athena06 said:
LOL!!!Damn straight brother.STM said:
Especially when child support+alimony+daycare comes to 58% of my gross pay.
Marriage is Granda 1 player said:Damn straight brother.
Especially when child support+alimony+daycare comes to 58% of my gross pay.
divorce is 100 Grand.
Married happily but definitely not ecstatic after 7 years. This hobby provides outlet to my fantasies of getting to know and do some amazing and beautiful women who I would'nt have come in contact otherwise. I think marriage is overrated. Hey! I have created my own definition of fidelity.
