Do you find sex is better with a SP or a Civilian ?

[Perry Mason]

Yes... to me, a genuine connection and intimacy are extremely important so there's no comparison... civvie!

But, on some rare occasions in the past, I have experienced connection and intimacy with an Sp who overcame that "it's a job" mind set and, then, the SP's experience and understanding of the male anatomy has made a huge difference... but that has been very rare. :encouragement:

Perry

 

[nottyboi]

I have always enjoyed sex with myself. GB

Man I still do even with a GF that never says no who is less then 1/2 my age...

 

[birddogs]

Civilian.

I had complete duds when it comes to civilians, but there's a difference between dud and mechanical. A small percentage of civilians are duds. A large percentage of SPs are mechanical. How many thousands of posts on TERB looking for the elusive "girlfriend experience" from an SP? Kind of tells you how hard it is to find.

Bingo.

 

[Toxic1979]

Sp's for sure.

I don't have the time or the damn patience at this time in my life to invest into a relationship with a GF or a potential wife. Someday I will, but not yet.

Not to mention.... 3 comes are very difficult to arrange with civilians, when compared to the agencies! LOL

 

[jiiimmm]

definitely civilian...emotional connection is huge for me.

 

[hornyashell]

Sex with a civilian is the best! and Fetish play with a Sp is the best

 

[canman1]

Depends on Chemistry ! Could be with either an SP or a civilian. You can find just sex, good chemistry, great chemistry, or the rarest of all, absolute chemistry. Neither can be considered better, since it takes both people to achieve it. Absolute chemistry, (for those who require clarification), as the rarest form, transcends sex, into another, more intimate level. Most would say this, would only be found with a civilian. But depending on factors, also with SP's.
So which is better ? Depends on the two people, and how they react to each other. :wink:

 

[Vermeer27]

It's apples and oranges. Insofar as you can compare the two, definitely civilians. The chase is often better than the catch, "getting" the woman into bed is the most compelling part. After sex with an sp, I almost always get bored and lose interest, it's fun but too easy. I never feel that way with a civilian girl.
The exception might be those times that you actually feel you met the "real" girl and not her sp persona. Those occasions are exceedingly rare in my experience, but they do happen.

 

[ogibowt]

Do tell :applouse:

sex is always better with some one you love and loves you back

 

[harryass]

for the total package, its civies. It's the feel of a real connection vs a make believe connection.

 

[SashaRose]

I see a lot of interesting responses. At the end of the day whether SP or civilian they are both women right? It may just depend on the individual. Besides half the time a civilian could be an SP and you not even know it. When I'm not working I'm having sex with a civilian friend and he has no idea what I do.

 

[harryass]

I see a lot of interesting responses. At the end of the day whether SP or civilian they are both women right? It may just depend on the individual. Besides half the time a civilian could be an SP and you not even know it. When I'm not working I'm having sex with a civilian friend and he has no idea what I do.

but I would say ur really a civilian (a sexy one) cuz ur not on the job.

 

[explorerzip]

The good thing with civilians , you can have bareback sex without condom. The sensation is much better without a condom

Are you kidding me? Civilians can still have STI's and there is that 'small' problem of pregnancy.

 

[Born2Star]

The good thing with civilians , you can have bareback sex without condom. The sensation is much better without a condom

This is exactly how sti spread and why its many times more likely to catch it in civilian sex!

Please always use condom, seriously.

 

[Born2Star]

To me top and bottom 10% with civilian, that 80% in between SP.

 

[IM469]

My experience,

Before your marry her : civilian

~ 3 years after marriage : SP

 

[Butler1000]

It's pretty much like pizza. Even when it's bad it's still pretty good.

 

[anon1]

A civilian wants me, an SP lets me.

 

[thesun]

civilian

 

[thesun]

It's pretty much like pizza. Even when it's bad it's still pretty good.

Pizza pizza is always bad and it is never good.