So I pondered this question a bit further....
The best sex usually happens when you least expect it, when it is the most surprise and you form a unique connection.
Many married guys are happily married, however do not get the sex aspect. Big fucking deal, not every marriage is majorly based on sex LOL. as if....we figure out other ways to release the pent up energy. Seriously when you get old and your body starts failing you need more to keep content in your marriage, not that I am nowhere near that point in age or marriage maturity.
Having said this I am not interested in starting a relationship with a civie. Too risky, feels like I am taking advantage plus lots of potential drama I could not even be prepared for and my consciousness would not let me sleeep peaceful at night.
Thus I turn to MPA. They give a nice massgae and a nice release. I never ask for extras and never pressure them to do more. If it happens happens, whatever I am just happy about hot girlie touching my body and to get a release. If I wanted exteas I'd just go to SP and there are many mnay great ladies on here for this purpose. However with MPA you lay down get the session, pay and thats it. You close the door and everything behind it, and no worries about hurting the girl or taking advantage.
Now sometimes on rare occasions things happen with you and MPA, you connect and more happens and you guys go all the way. It was never asked suggested or coerced it just happens, and yes this does happen more then you guys think. People beleive it MPA are just human like the rest of us despite many of us lole putting them on a pedostol or reffering them to goddesses or they are professional. This is just fucking bullshit saying this in your head. Just look at how many professionals act quite the contrary . Bill Clinton. So why would we expect MPA or us as hobbyists to be any different.
So I say to myself this girl has chosen me out of many many men who all are wishing of doing more bit never get a chance. Like a forbidden fruit. I am just an average guy certainly not as studly as terbs own JTK or a serious playa as LV
. After it happens she has not asked me to pay extra even when I ask how much I owe her she says the menu prices, but has chosen to do more. Not only has she chosen to put me on her exclusive list of clients, it fucking felt great becuase it was unexpected and she was amazing. Some of these women see many many men, and they know what to do with men, especially in a sexual setting and especially when you do not ask for it they now how to deal with the guys in a way a civie could never understand.
Honestly seeing MPA becuase you want more is the worng reason and will quickly get you hated in the community by many members including myself unless she offers this openly or pulls out her secret menu before the session starts. In principle this is not why I see them, honestly it is just to be touched by a hot chick and release, and I honestly hate brothers who are after this when they do not openly offer this.
However we are all adults. No one should make an MPA feel guilty for doing more if things just happen, no one has the right to tell her when she can or cant not do with a client or stigmatize her for it, but yet it happens and sometimes by fellow MPA who do the same. FUCKING LOL again.
So taking all these aspects into consideration it fucking feels great if sometimes it happens unexpectedly with an MPA especially when not something I was NOT looking for.
This I see the fundamental difference between MPA and SP. On the rare occasions you find the ones that do more, or that remember the micro details of your conversation after a year in between visits and ask you direct follow up questions, or described to you how you remind them of their boyfriend in detial or tell you dont worry about the clock just stay and cuddle and you guys end up kissing 40 mins past your session even though she is extremely busy and there are others waiting, or she invites you to her place and makes dinner even though she knows you are married and would not leave your wife or says the session is on me dont worry but you still pay or slides you in and tells you I trust you dont come inside. Above is based on just 3 MPA. I have not seen lots maybe 60 in the past 5 years, I have never expected or asked more, but yet I had such memorable experiences. I dont care if the rest dont beleive me, it is not the point. I know in real life I am just an average guy and would not stand a chance with many of these hot girls. I am not looking for anyone to relapce my wife with, just an average guy looking for a massgae and release, when every now and again my mind body and spirit get blown to a billion pieces and I find myself sitting in my car afterwars straying into blank space asking myself WTF just happened in that small fucking dark room. Then you relaize she gave you her red light special...and you are like BOOM funcking ya!
Therefore becuase of the reasons stated above plus many many more too long to write about I pick MPA based on my personal experience. Yes I do see a huge difference between te SP and MPA. And no there is nothing wrong with choosing one or the other, just dont mix up the two. My 3cs
The red light dirty special!
