Do all Sp's feel this way?

[fuji]

No doubt some guys give a shit how they feel, but do the girls give a shit about the guys? If you have the ability to pay them - yes. If not, they drop you faster than a bad habit. There are always exceptions to the rule but hey run few and far between.

If an SP really likes you she'll start splitting the bills with you. If you're paying for everything then she sees you as an ATM with legs.

An SP will often go out for dinner "off the clock" with a good customer essentially as a customer appreciation move: You're good business and she wants to keep your business.

An SP who is genuinely interested in you will stop the business relationship, refuse money/bookings, and pay her share of anything you do together. At that point you have a girlfriend/date who happens to also be an SP.

 

[petitelover]

If an SP really likes you she'll start splitting the bills with you. If you're paying for everything then she sees you as an ATM with legs.

An SP will often go out for dinner "off the clock" with a good customer essentially as a customer appreciation move: You're good business and she wants to keep your business.

An SP who is genuinely interested in you will stop the business relationship, refuse money/bookings, and pay her share of anything you do together. At that point you have a girlfriend/date who happens to also be an SP.

ding ding ding, fuji gets the prize.

 

[Rockslinger]

LOL...........this doesn't suprise me one bit. If you have ever hung out with dancers and SP's, you'd be suprised at what they have to say about their customers.

I admit that I have hung out with dancers and you should hear what they say about other dancers (the "b" word gets toss around liberally).

 

[Rockslinger]

An SP will often go out for dinner "off the clock" with a good customer essentially as a customer appreciation move: You're good business and she wants to keep your business.

Yes, but does she have Maple Leaf season tickets like my lawyer does?

 

[tired old perv]

I admit that I have hung out with dancers and you should hear what they say about other dancers (the "b" word gets toss around liberally).

Oh yes, the dislike for each other is amazing, yet you'll see them saying things like "I like your outfit" to one they just told you they hate.

 

[Rockslinger]

Oh yes, the dislike for each other is amazing, yet you'll see them saying things like "I like your outfit" to one they just told you they hate.

The competition out there is brutal. It is "dog eat dog". One time I was waiting for my fav when another dancer told me: "She is not here to-day." An outright lie.

 

[sophia kiss]

Sophia

I don't know if I am allowed to post here but all I have to say about that is in the time I have been a sp I have never had a man be that disrespectful

 

[Rockslinger]

I don't know if I am allowed to post here but all I have to say about that is in the time I have been a sp I have never had a man be that disrespectful

Yes, you are allowed to post here. Sophia: Do you have Maple Leaf season tickets that you hand out to clients?

 

[K Douglas]

Thanks K

Y2k - knowing she is faking it (as long as she was good) would be ok for you?

This girl is clearly sour grapes. She probably had a few bad experiences on her end. So to her this is a dirty hobby. Well what does that make her?

Lets face facts most girls are faking it for the most part. Its a job to them, nothing more than money in their pocket. The really good ones are better at masking it.

 

[tired old perv]

The competition out there is brutal. It is "dog eat dog". One time I was waiting for my fav when another dancer told me: "She is not here to-day." An outright lie.

Why do you think "The Menu" has become so prevelant with so many dancers? It's the only way they can survive.

 

[Mao Tse Tongue]

The thing that is forgotten in this discussion is that most of our lives have become transactional in one way or another. The sex trade is perhaps the most honest.

As mentioned, lots of women will slut themselves out to rich men, and then get disappointed when they're not in love with them. Similarly, men drive fancy cars and put their lives on credit cards to get those very women, and get bitter that they have to do that. And so it goes. Those who are authentic will find the authentic. The parade and the charade go together.

In the end, your experiences, paid or not, can be as rich or dull as you want to make them. If you accept the terms of the lives we are all living, you can get past people's fronts and find what is interesting or authentic about them in any situation.

 

[petitelover]

Lets face facts most girls are faking it for the most part. Its a job to them, nothing more than money in their pocket. The really good ones are better at masking it.

K is a realist!

 

[petitelover]

The thing that is forgotten in this discussion is that most of our lives have become transactional in one way or another. The sex trade is perhaps the most honest.

As mentioned, lots of women will slut themselves out to rich men, and then get disappointed when they're not in love with them. Similarly, men drive fancy cars and put their lives on credit cards to get those very women, and get bitter that they have to do that. And so it goes. Those who are authentic will find the authentic. The parade and the charade go together.

In the end, your experiences, paid or not, can be as rich or dull as you want to make them. If you accept the terms of the lives we are all living, you can get past people's fronts and find what is interesting or authentic about them in any situation.

I vote Mao is Terb's official Nietzsche

 

[Serpent]

It's the only way they can survive.

Or pay for the Escalades, partying with bottle service at clubs, buying up investment RE... their definition of "survival" is different than your and mine....

 

[alexmst]

If an SP really likes you she'll start splitting the bills with you. If you're paying for everything then she sees you as an ATM with legs.

An SP will often go out for dinner "off the clock" with a good customer essentially as a customer appreciation move: You're good business and she wants to keep your business.

An SP who is genuinely interested in you will stop the business relationship, refuse money/bookings, and pay her share of anything you do together. At that point you have a girlfriend/date who happens to also be an SP.

Good post Fuji.

 

[petitelover]

The following is my 100% honest opinion, not designed for PR:
90% of girls in this buisness do it purely for the money/convenience, and then there is the other 10% that genuinely get turned on by random sex.
How to spot the difference: if an SP charges very little, is available 24/7, is inconsistent in many aspects, odds are that she is just in it for the fast cash.
If she is independent, selective/won't see just anyone, works few hours, charges high, she most likely does it because she enjoys it & isn't desperate & gets alot of job satisfaction.
It's just common sense: if a girl works for a massage parlour/brothel/agency/is on the street/is made to work shifts when she doesn't even feel like it/only keeps half or less of her money, must service any & all less than attractive men, she will surely hate it most of the time.

I think the percentage is higher - more like 98%/2% money/convenience versus turned on with random sex. It's hard to believe most men that SP's see are attractive to them, especially sexually. I don't mean to state that hobbyist are ugly or unattractive but I think for women, to genuinely get turned on, it takes more that what most can give in the short time they are together. Men on the other hand don't have that issue.

 

[D-Fens]

Wow talk about bitter. She not only has a bitter atitude towards sping but probably has a bitter atattude towards men in general. I feel sorry for the guy who dates her as a civilian. A former sp refering to this hobby as "dirty" if that's not the ultimate in hypocrisy I dunno what is.

 

[Carrie Moon]

dirty sex.. all good in my books..

but seriously.. you can still find civilian women who think it's their 'wifely duty' to have sex with their husbands and think it's a dirty task.

Do women get into prostitution even though they might hate sex/men? of course.. because of the money.

Do all hookers hate sex? hell no! Use your common sense guys. You can't paint everyone with the same brush. OH.. hey anyone gonna congratulate me on passing my 1000th post?

 

[Ashley Dupree]

This girl is clearly sour grapes. She probably had a few bad experiences on her end. So to her this is a dirty hobby. Well what does that make her?

Lets face facts most girls are faking it for the most part. Its a job to them, nothing more than money in their pocket. The really good ones are better at masking it.

it sound like she was a high volume escort and make so much money that she just realize what this job do to her mentally/emotionally. she may take it out in anger but this is the choice she make. i think you can compare it to post traumatic stress syndrome like guy who go to war. it affect you no matter how much you try to mask it.

the best thing i find to survive in this business is to have other thing in your life. dont make it all about the money like seeing 5-6 guy a day ( try a couple a week), live within your mean and realize that this isnt forever. try to get some other job skill that you can have as backup plan or some education. you can still make money in this business but you have to be doing something else at the same time to cover all base for future. if you dont you will feel lost and nowhere to turn. you can always start over but you soon realize that so much time have pass that you feel like you lose something along the way.

i also dont listen to people here who say escort are nothing, just about money and a coochie to f***. we are all human being and can do whatever we want. many escort only realize their self worth in their look nothing else and this is scary. it is never too late to do something else. take it from someone who been in this business for long time and i know I am smart and capable of doing other thing. i have management position right now and make good money. I still some client on the side but it is extra money to me. i know my self worth is more than tit and ass.

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[hinz]

The messages are still making sense after one year!!

To recap, not all SP feel this way but many do indiscriminately

Next question will be do all MPAs have the same anger as their SPs in this scenario?