Dating Apps
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On the positive side there is no need to get reservations and all that shit - just coffee and take-out at the most - but it is not easy to initiate anything now
I suspect that men and women are equally fed up with the lack of social interaction - I had an exGF contact me just to fuck for that reason (I declined bc I knew it would end in drama)
So you're looking to marry a rich woman since you don't have a job?
I don't know your definition of wealthy but personally I have seen really well to do guys marrying girls who were economically not at the same level. I am yet to see a rich / well to do women marrying someone who wasn't at the same economic level. It happens in movies where a rich girl falls for a poor guy. Doesn't happen in real life. There may be very few exceptions but as a whole you will find girls generally marry up.
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Ya, rich and attractive woman would be nice. It's all luck. Women fall for looks too so if you have that, some don't mind providing. I like working, unfortunately, I don't have a career. Otherwise, I'd work hard.
If you're looking to hookup yes women do that for looks. But you said you were looking to marry. I don't think women marry just for looks. Look up all the ugly rich dudes and see their wives.
I spent Sunday afternoon chatting with a woman I "matched" with on Tinder. I'm always cautious using that app, so I don't give out much personal information about myself in my profile, short of my photo and the initials of my name.
So anyway, we're chatting away and I'm thoroughly convinced this woman is on the level and she mentions that she's bored, has lots of time on her hands, and could we arrange for a Zoom video call and then, meet up later in the evening for a roll in the hay.
I agree, and she asks for my email, so I give her a Gmail account email that I never use and also gives out nothing as to my true identity.
All of a sudden all of our messages disappear and she's blocked me or deleted her account.
Something screams fishy about that, which is exactly the reason I give out little personal information about myself to someone I've never met.
Tinder sucks.
So anyway, we're chatting away and I'm thoroughly convinced this woman is on the level and she mentions that she's bored, has lots of time on her hands, and could we arrange for a Zoom video call and then, meet up later in the evening for a roll in the hay.
I agree, and she asks for my email, so I give her a Gmail account email that I never use and also gives out nothing as to my true identity.
All of a sudden all of our messages disappear and she's blocked me or deleted her account.
Something screams fishy about that, which is exactly the reason I give out little personal information about myself to someone I've never met.
Tinder sucks.
Yup meeting any kind of female is pretty hard these days, let alone one you'd want to start Romance with.
This isn't going away. It'll be years before we can even take the mask off and talk face to face again. This is the "new normal".
Not an app but I had an Ashley Madison account...I met seven women and got naked with four of them, a couple of them I really liked and one I still see...there was a couple that I didn’t get along with at all so it it’s like any blind date thing, it can be risky.
What would be if a office lady, for example, purchaser, inside sales, HR, marries a shop floor guy, Trades person, shipper/receiver, floor cleaner. Would that be across?
I'm not really interested in Dating apps... Tinder has apparently died and Bumble is for the young. If anything, I'd like to try Ashley Madison to meet women, who are in sexless relationships and looking for fun... I used to meet those women IRL. Nothing beats meeting people in person. It is like a drug when a lady brushes her hair back and smiles while you talk to her. When she laughs, I think I have a mini-orgasm.
I use both Tinder and Pof. NEVER PAY FOR EITHER!
I found im luckier with Pof than tinder. Its really hard to say currently considering Covid, but as someone mentioned earlier the 80/20 rule does sometimes apply depending on the situation or what the girls intentions are. My job has me traveling a lot and I tend to find that a lot (not all... but a lot) have a interesting mindset with dating. From my experiences there are 3 general categories. Women who are there for the fame/attention/games, women who are there for actually finding a partner with romantic interest and women who are strictly around for hooking up. They all act the same way.
I seen some who I personally don't believe they have issues finding a partner, but are always on. Either they are paid to or are simply sticking around to get hyped by guys who they just love the attention they get. I also run into women who you can sometimes not fully tell but want romantic interest and you will notice based on how they talk to you and interact some. The most interesting ones are the ones who simply want FWB but are quiet about it. The problem is and at least for me, its hard to tell the difference between the ones who want FWB vs romantic interest. To be less of a dick I try to avoid anyone who I know 100% they are looking for relationship. Otherwise its fair game.
I found im luckier with Pof than tinder. Its really hard to say currently considering Covid, but as someone mentioned earlier the 80/20 rule does sometimes apply depending on the situation or what the girls intentions are. My job has me traveling a lot and I tend to find that a lot (not all... but a lot) have a interesting mindset with dating. From my experiences there are 3 general categories. Women who are there for the fame/attention/games, women who are there for actually finding a partner with romantic interest and women who are strictly around for hooking up. They all act the same way.
I seen some who I personally don't believe they have issues finding a partner, but are always on. Either they are paid to or are simply sticking around to get hyped by guys who they just love the attention they get. I also run into women who you can sometimes not fully tell but want romantic interest and you will notice based on how they talk to you and interact some. The most interesting ones are the ones who simply want FWB but are quiet about it. The problem is and at least for me, its hard to tell the difference between the ones who want FWB vs romantic interest. To be less of a dick I try to avoid anyone who I know 100% they are looking for relationship. Otherwise its fair game.
Today for some weird reason, I got 14 matches on Bumble, which is crazy. It's so random. The highest I got before was 4. Didn't change my picture or profile but added my (former) job title.
Been trying this new dating app / site called Elamints (www.souldate.link). It seems pretty small and grass roots right now. But seems to have a small local following in Toronto. Which is what is needed now instead of getting lost in the numbers and swipe shuffle. As it reminds of dating sites back in the day like POF, which allowed you to have open searches anywhere rather than swiping. Online dating wasn't too bad then (for men) say 6-7 years ago.
And now most of the dating apps like POF and Tinder are all owned by the same company and bought out (By the Match group)
And now most of the dating apps like POF and Tinder are all owned by the same company and bought out (By the Match group)
