I think some of the guys said it was quite a ride before it all crashed and burned. To feel joy, you have to also feel pain sometimes.
Dating an sp
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Is that a pile of gold or fools gold?Ask a guy named LordLoki.
Here is a picture of his Wedding Cake.
Certain truths are self-evident. BTW, notice the Wedding Invitations around the table?
So far it has been pretty good, the sex is decent. Conversations very entertaining, trouble is the distance and I feel like its missing something. Maybe choosing a non monogamous lifestyle would be more efficient and pleasurable.
Sadly, shes not even that hot. I've been with hotter. Though she does have an interesting personality and strikes up one hell of a conversation with me, very good motherly qualities and a sexy smile. We can talk for hours on the phone. I feel the connection we have is pretty strong, she brought up love first though. Sure you can love someone, but to be IN LOVE with them.. are 2 separate things.
How do you accidentally become a sugar daddy?
In general it is pretty simple. We need to make money. We get paid for being fun and charming to men. If someone wants us to stop being fun and charming to men for money we need an alternative source of income. I do not think anyone who has not gone through the challenges of creating a stable healthy long-term relationship between a client and an SP can fully understand how hard it is.
The issues on both side are very complex and problematic. The fact that people try to do it at warp speed just makes it worse.
Accidentally becoming sugar daddy along the lines of, you wanted a relationship at one point but then decided to fuck it. She obviously wanted money to pay for her tuition, bills, w/e. Not that this applies to me but am wondering if it has occurred with anyone else.
LOL... that's like Petro Canada saying they won't sell gasoline to Mexicans.
What does personal opinion have to do with commerce?
Well said: It is very complex. Women that Ive met in this business and in life seem to be able to differentiate between their work and their personal lives better that any man can. Alot of men grow attached quite easily because they want to save the lady or because of ego. Most men only look at what this is doing to them and rarely look at the pain the lady is going threw because she knows its hurting you. In my case there were times when she would literally be in tears before a client would show up because she knew how much it hurt me. The only thing I disagree with you on is it doesnt matter how fast or slow you take it the results will be the same. Men will never be able to handle their woman sleeping with another man for fun or for profit.
Actually, I am a former SP and think he is respectful and fairly accurate of how most scenarios play out. Ever think that you may just be in denial & can't handle the reality of what he is saying?
Well, our solution for us was that I refrain from having sex with any other man and he refrain from having sex with other women. We still faced major issues. He was at a stage where he wanted to travel and play 365 days a year, and I needed to spend a lot of time on my legit career. Major issues. He wanted me to quit my legit career and just go play with him.
He was afraid that:
1) I was just after his money
2) I would dump him when I had what I wanted
3) I did not love him
4) I was playing him
I was afraid that:
1) He just wanted to own me and show me off
2) He would get bored and dump me and I would have given up my legit career for nothing
3) He did not love me
4) He wanted to control me and would use money to do it
It took a lot of time to work those things out.
As for time in general... If you do not know the person you are moving in with / getting involved with / marrying, how can you even hope it will work out?
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Most of the issues you bring up are normal things that most couples go threw, money,trust, control, etc. The issue here is weather or not its a good idea to have a relationship with an sp. From my point of view its no. If there's a man out there who can handle it then, god bless them both I wish them only good things.
Most of the issues you bring up are normal things that most couples go threw, money,trust, control, etc. The issue here is weather or not its a good idea to have a relationship with an sp. From my point of view its no. If there's a man out there who can handle it then, god bless them both I wish them only good things.
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Why can't two people fall in love and be happy no matter where they met? Alot of stories of broken relationships and jealousy can happen and do in any kind of relationship. I'm not an expert but i do know lots of people and I listen to stories of bankers,teachers, lawyers, doctors,electricians etc! They have to deal with issues also! Love is love! I say good luck to you, sounds like you guys have a great connection and that's not always easy and we never know when or where it's going to happen!
I WAS WATCHING "2 AND A HALF MEN" to-night. Ashton's friends tried to set him up with several women (civilian) and every one had issues. Then he met "Rose" in the local bar and his friends warned him about her but he refused to listen to their warnings. Guys, every woman you meet from now until you die will have issues (some major, some minor).
I noticed my thread got shown in here, I followed through seeing this escort I liked again in march. You dont even want to know.....lets just say thats the last time I pay for sex.
Great advice. If it were only that simple. I've found many girls I've been involved with got into sex work as a way to reclaim themselves after a traumatic experience, sadly and more often than not rape. As the lines blur for her between work and a developing loving relationship, expect issues to bubble to the surface. It is a minefield, and one I have yet to navigate successfully. But I have also found woman in this industry to be the most loving and appreciative of unconditional love. My advice is to avoid a relationship at all costs but if you find yourself in one give it 100% and be willing to forgive each other and yourself.
