I would say (based on extensive personal experience) that relationships are complicated enough without sex work being a factor in them. If you find your soulmate, as some here have claimed, then it is probably worth it. But, more often than not, I find that people are just perversely drawn to intrigue, drama and challenge, like women who have an uncanny knack for falling in love with married men, or men who fall in love with SP's. It's easier in some ways to pine for someone who isn't (or cannot be) completely available. Oscar Wilde expressed this paradox perfectly when he said that there are only two tragedies in life, the first is not getting what you want and the second is getting it.
