Clients looking for SP to become an SO

[GPIDEAL]

I'm not sure if men come out here sub-consciously or deliberately looking for an SO, but they can get to like an SP very much either as a friend or lover, become infatuated, and even fall in love.

You just proved that you fell in love with the package (that he is successful & cares about you, not solely because he is a 59 year old gent).

There's nothing wrong with adoring to be treated like a princess and just being able to feel safe, provided you are or can be independent in case he leaves you (what I would tell my daughter if I had one). Similarly, such a woman can make her caring man feel like a king.

There are also many men who go gaga to care or fall in love with a younger woman (who can also bear his children if he wants) that he finds charming (the corollary).

Edit: And what Narg said!

 

[shack]

Do many men come here sub-consciously or deliberately looking for a SO?

Not since we found out how much SPs despise their clients.

 

[Ms.FemmeFatale]

Not since we found out how much SPs despise their clients.

No Kidding, this chick is out to lunch.

Sorry but I have to say it.

I don't think this relationship will last. Not at all.

 

[bazokajoe]

No Kidding, this chick is out to lunch.

Sorry but I have to say it.

I don't think this relationship will last. Not at all.

+1.....

 

[Blac]

Times are changing. As is gender roles.

I'm not gonna like coming home after a 9-5 and realize my girl hasn't done shit except log on to escort review forums to talk about our relationship.

I value a working woman. Just not in this field, lol.

 

[mrsCALoki]

I've often heard acquaintances jokingly say that SPs make the best wives.

I hope it is true. I insisted we sign a pre-nup before I would marry him so he never had to worry if I loved him or his money.

I might add that most SPs may not be interested in a significant other as his first order of business would often be for her to stop what she is doing.

I quit before he asked or even hinted at it. And I think he would never have been able to handle it. He is an Alpha, but he is possessive. Is that redundant?

 

[simon482]

I've often heard acquaintances jokingly say that SPs make the best wives.

Never actually knew what to make of the statement really.

Sure there is the element that she would be experienced at sex and willing to perform things like fellatio that the bible thumping ordinary civvie won't for fear of the dreaded "slut" nametag.

I never knew of call girls, SPs etc as we know today but only streetwalkers.

All I could think of was the hard life she lived on the street and her loyalty and gratitude in return for someone now loving and taking care of her.

It's like from her experience, she knows to appreciate and hold on to what she has now considering where she came from and her husband would have no problem with trust,jealousy issues or the prospect of her cheating etc

I have never considered an SP as a SO because as the poster above said you really don't know if the are in it for you or the money.

This however holds true for any woman though as Financial security is high on most womens' priority list.

Plus I have no money. Lol So me hoping is quite futile.

Many SPs are either very hot or very sexual or both and therefore they could pretty much have any guy they choose which lessens my chances in having less of what they are looking for.

Therefore many would go for the Adonis or more confident alpha males for NSA sex.

Those looking for financial security would go for the money knowing after they've secured it they could then go after the alphas, bad boys and boy toys.

Trust would be a huge issue therefore for most men or it would take a very confident don't care man or just one who is willing to compromise.

By willing to compromise, he realizes that he can't be sure she loves him for him, but he loves her and that's all that matters to him and having her is sufficient for him.

As all the resources he has that she is possiibly after him for, couldn't actually replace her or the way she makes him feel by way of happiness.

I might add that most SPs may not be interested in a significant other as his first order of business would often be for her to stop what she is doing.

every line doesn't need to be it's own paragraph. seriously it really doesn't.

 

[GPIDEAL]

Recently in the members lounge of a hotel a guy my age came up to us at breakfast and offered to show "You and your daughter the city". I think he was trying to pick me up. I had no idea how to respond. I wanted to turn to Loki and give him the deepest FK imaginable and say "can't we just play in bed today?" But I just did not know what was appropriate.

Just tell him you're not his daughter and that he takes you out on the town already, but thank you for the gesture.

 

[mrsCALoki]

Times are changing. As is gender roles.

I'm not gonna like coming home after a 9-5 and realize my girl hasn't done shit except log on to escort review forums to talk about our relationship.

I value a working woman. Just not in this field, lol.

Guess they are changing. Mostly he just puts in a few hrs in his office in the morning, and a few more doing things around the place after lunch. So he does not leave and come back. He actually insisted I give up my civie career so we could spend more time together.

I had to change my way of seeing life to join him in his life style. But times are changing and so am I.

 

[oil&gas]

Do many men come here sub-consciously or deliberately looking for a SO?

There are clients scouting for a mistress, kept woman or sugar baby
among the MPAs or SPs they see. A SO very unlikely. Perverts they may
be most men who indulge in this hobby do have a social life.
Somehow I have personally got to know more than a few cases of
Asian MPAs ended up as wives or SOs of their clients who are
invariably white Caucasians. With this in mind I would say
a man who deliberately look for a SO among SPs likely have
emotional issue unless it is an Asian wife he is looking for.

 

[Partyman1970]

I think it hard for any one of us to answer the question because we do not know all of the other guys. This may be best answered by other escorts who have experience over time to say what % of their clients they feel are trying to get a more personal relationship going. My impression is many escorts will try to make it seem they really like or are attracted to a client to have him keep coming back. Thus only if client is strongly not interested in such a situation.... ACTUALLY may be lured into such. But the escort uses it as a lure to create a reqular client. If her intensions are not legit this can blow up on her in a few ways. So, considering this ploy often used I myself do not trust such situation because one is only being played. BUT a guy could always stop the money situation as soon as she shows personal interest & see if she follows through. For every incident were the escort was genuine there is 99% were the client should be very cautious & 99% of the time getting hustled.

 

[GPIDEAL]

I quit before he asked or even hinted at it. And I think he would never have been able to handle it. He is an Alpha, but he is possessive. Is that redundant?

It's refreshing to see that a guy can confuse a woman or make her think and try to figure him out.

 

[mrsCALoki]

Not since we found out how much SPs despise their clients.

Yes some of us find clients, mostly the ones we refuse to see or see only once despicable.

I found Loki creepy at best at first. Why was this man old enough to be my grand-father treating me like a lover/princess?

He eventually won me over, but at first I found him creepy. And he knows I did.

 

[mrsCALoki]

I think it hard for any one of us to answer the question because we do not know all of the other guys. This may be best answered by other escorts who have experience over time to say what % of their clients they feel are trying to get a more personal relationship going. My impression is many escorts will try to make it seem they really like or are attracted to a client to have him keep coming back. Thus only if client is strongly not interested in such a situation.... ACTUALLY may be lured into such. But the escort uses it as a lure to create a reqular client. If her intensions are not legit this can blow up on her in a few ways. So, considering this ploy often used I myself do not trust such situation because one is only being played. BUT a guy could always stop the money situation as soon as she shows personal interest & see if she follows through. For every incident were the escort was genuine there is 99% were the client should be very cautious & 99% of the time getting hustled.

I think you are right

 

[GPIDEAL]

Oh thank you. That will be perfect if it happens again.

He might look at you and ask later "We really can have that too" he he.

 

[mrsCALoki]

No Kidding, this chick is out to lunch.

Sorry but I have to say it. I don't think this relationship will last. Not at all.

I know he has taken other SPs for trips before me. Often extended ones. I read about some of them on Terb. I did not mind the idea of a client taking me all over the world. I assumed he would dump me and move on. He did the opposite, he started bringing me into his personal and social life. He married me. His grandson calls me Nana.

I chose to put my carer and life on the back burner to spend time loving him and making him happy, and being a spoilt loved princess.

Why would any woman not try to be happy?

Worst that can happen is our marriage fails. Part of my quitting my civie stuff was having a trust fund set up to fix that. And I found out after we were married that the pre-nup only applies to assets before we get married. So it seems I will leave with half of everything he makes since then.

I am happy. I love and feel loved. Why would I not enjoy it? I just need to handle some of the baggage.

 

[mrsCALoki]

He might look at you and ask later "We really can have that too" he he.

Stopped using birth control on Christmas day.

 

[Ms.FemmeFatale]

I know he has taken other SPs for trips before me. Often extended ones. I read about some of them on Terb. I did not mind the idea of a client taking me all over the world. I assumed he would dump me and move on. He did the opposite, he started bringing me into his personal and social life. He married me. His grandson calls me Nana.

I chose to put my carer and life on the back burner to spend time loving him and making him happy, and being a spoilt loved princess.

Why would any woman not try to be happy?

Worst that can happen is our marriage fails. Part of my quitting my civie stuff was having a trust fund set up to fix that. And I found out after we were married that the pre-nup only applies to assets before we get married. So it seems I will leave with half of everything he makes since then.

I am happy. I love and feel loved. Why would I not enjoy it? I just need to handle some of the baggage.

I am sorry lady but you are out to lunch. That opinion of mine is not going to change.

Baggage that can only dealt with on TERB? Really? The more you post, the more I laugh. You are a joke.

I have no problem with trying to be happy, but for fuck sakes, no one will never be happy until they are honest with themselves.

You are all about the money clearly. You have more then said so in the majority your posts. He will see it and dump you and you will take him for a ride just like everyone here. Difference is most of the people on this board are smart enough to see through your bullshit. Me included.

Post on Mrs. Jaded. Post on. We all need a good laugh in our lives. It makes us happy. Why not get it for free from you? Thanks for that BTW. At least you are doing something that is not costing the world money.

 

[Serpent]

I chose to put my carer and life on the back burner to spend time loving him and making him happy, and being a spoilt loved princess.

Why would any woman not try to be happy?

Worst that can happen is our marriage fails. Part of my quitting my civie stuff was having a trust fund set up to fix that. And I found out after we were married that the pre-nup only applies to assets before we get married. So it seems I will leave with half of everything he makes since then.

I am happy. I love and feel loved. Why would I not enjoy it? I just need to handle some of the baggage.

I don't want to seem to personally attack you so I'll keep it general: a woman like this who "loves being a spoiled princess" is a kept woman. What does a woman like this bring to a relationship but her body and her looks? In our times, body and looks are available for $$.

To me, as a 34yr old who has come up by sheer hard work, strength of character and a good heart is the most important thing in a woman. For myself, I don't want a "spoiled princess" or someone who isn't capable of working hard, making adjustments to adjust to the ups and downs in our life and to overall make ME a better person.

Women who need a guy's money to bring them happiness can find another 60yr old guy on TERB who's looking for a sugar baby. I want someone I can respect and someone who can respect me back for me, not just the money and things I have because that can change on a dime.

 

[AllishaMyst]

So what do his children think of you?