I'd rather we just pretend we don't know what her intentions are. This is all just cheap train wreck entertainment. I wouldn't mind dating an sp but just like any girl on the street I would see laziness as an unattractive. I don't care what she did before I met her. Its the consistent work ethic that I admire.
Clients looking for SP to become an SO
- Thread starter mrsCALoki
- Start date
I think you're being hard on her. I'd say she's a pretty 25 yr old who's caught up in this situation and her survival instinct tied her to this guy. He should know better, being old enough to be her dad.
Will she make $$ off this. Absolutely. I don't think she's set out to do that and while I wish them both the best, this wouldn't have happened even if he was reasonably well off, with a 3-series BMW and a little house in the 'burbs. Seems like he's a whale and that's what blew her mind. She's in love with the mega bucks and being 25, that's expected.
Will she make $$ off this. Absolutely. I don't think she's set out to do that and while I wish them both the best, this wouldn't have happened even if he was reasonably well off, with a 3-series BMW and a little house in the 'burbs. Seems like he's a whale and that's what blew her mind. She's in love with the mega bucks and being 25, that's expected.
BINGO!!!
And that ethic has to truly come from within.
The OP hasn't mentioned anything about wanting to better herself. If there were any hint of this, I'd have said the guy in question stumbled on a real gem.
Boy that femme fatale guy is a little harsh. The only difference between your relationship and the typical May-December relationship is how you met. Life is short. Enjoy your happiness. It won't last forever no matter what.
You seem very bitter and have a lot of anger inside you. I do have a plan. I will spoil him back. And when I am mid forties and sagging and looking like some house Frau he will be in his 80s and still think I am incredibly desirable. And when he is gone, I will go back to my career to stay busy.
I think I will not be responding to you any more. Have a nice life
Did you notice that paragraph started with: "Worst that can happen is our marriage fails. "
I know that given our age difference he will leave me. I believe he will probably die long before me. I had to accept that as part of being his wife. I walked into this with a pre-nup and my eyes wide open.
Grand son loves me.
First time I met his daughter she told me she would scratch my eyes out if I hurt him.
In July she was my maid of honour. I guess she decided we were making each other very happy.
Did you notice that paragraph started with: "Worst that can happen is our marriage fails. "
Ya no big deal. It is just a marriage. A commitment, a bond. No biggie. Worst that can happen is it will fail.
Nice attitude. LMAO
No anger at all actually. Just calling a spade a spade.You seem very bitter and have a lot of anger inside you. I do have a plan. I will spoil him back. And when I am mid forties and sagging and looking like some house Frau he will be in his 80s and still think I am incredibly desirable. And when he is gone, I will go back to my career to stay busy.
I think I will not be responding to you any more. Have a nice life
BTW - I know many mid 40's women who are not sagging and look quite hot. They put the time into themselves to ensure they are putting forth the best of themselves at all time. Something I understand you would not know about at the tender age of 25.
And don't worry. Many stop responding to me when they have no argument left. It is hard to debate with someone who can see right through you. I understand.
However, I do wish you a happy life. I hope that you stop to look deep inside and find why you are so bitter, angry, judgmental and jaded. Hopefully you will stop to smell the roses one day.
So far Loki and I have had major arguments.
1) Why can I not have a house keeper. Lasted almost 3 weeks.
2) Why can I not have a tiny little car. Lasted a week.
3) Why should I go to work for up to 60 or even 80 hours a week to finish my training?
4) In general why should I work and limit freedom by working.
Loki won each argument. We have a housekeeper, I got the big fat SUV (saved me in an accident though), I quit my rotations.
We are going to both be retired and play full time until health or other issues make that important.
My work ethic was argued out of me. I am not lazy, you should see our gardens
I hope you find what you want
M'am....she's 25. That she needs to grow up is obvious. That she doesn't understand the commitment of marriage is obvious. What 25yr old does? That she thinks that only physical looks (her comment about house frau and sagging 40 yr olds) matter is the thinking of a child.
But yes, she's in a commitment now and hopefully, this thread will benefit her and give her the advice she was seeking. I don't understand why she should be taken to the woodshed. If anyone, the 60yr old gramps should have thought more before putting himself in a position to be taken advantage of.
If she truly did a pre-nup, if she truly is making an attempt to be a good, loyal wife and in time she actually takes the sincere advice from men in this thread and instill a work ethic in herself to make herself more than just a trophy wife, she'll actually get everyone's respect as well.
She's still got 3-4yrs to go before people should be hard on her for being immature.
I hope for her sake and the sake of gramps, they don't fuck it up for each other.
But yes, she's in a commitment now and hopefully, this thread will benefit her and give her the advice she was seeking. I don't understand why she should be taken to the woodshed. If anyone, the 60yr old gramps should have thought more before putting himself in a position to be taken advantage of.
If she truly did a pre-nup, if she truly is making an attempt to be a good, loyal wife and in time she actually takes the sincere advice from men in this thread and instill a work ethic in herself to make herself more than just a trophy wife, she'll actually get everyone's respect as well.
She's still got 3-4yrs to go before people should be hard on her for being immature.
I hope for her sake and the sake of gramps, they don't fuck it up for each other.
Well, good luck to you. I know of rocky marriages with so-calld 'kept women' not involving former SPs, so yours may not end up being rocky. Do you enjoy talking to him, etc.? Is he fun to be around with? Do you have other interests or goals (I suppose motherhood could be one of them)? If so, then maybe there can be a relationship beyond financial security.
I am only a few rotations from my old goal in life. It was pointed out to me OFTEN in the last year that my finishing and etc etc would result in my putting in 40 or more hrs a week and probably not even bring in $200,000. It was also pointed out to me I was depriving Loki of fun and pleasure by being so selfish.
So I have decided to put my life on hold for as long as we can have fun together. If is body fails, I will settle down, and go back to my career and take care of him.
For now I will better myself using travel and long talks with him. I am sorry if that offends you. I just find I agree with him.
Lol. Serpent, long time! Hope you're well.And I noticed that women are going hard after this OP chick harder than guys. We usually reserve such anger for guys who do auto insurance fraud or cheat on their taxes LOL
Bullshit! She is over 18. That is good enough.
Maybe if she was 20-21, but 25. No. She should have grown up by now.
She is nothing more then a trophy wife, you are right and she hates it. She doesn't know or understand why, but she does. So instead of looking on the inside, she sets out here to bash everyone else with her anger and jadedness. Being the good men you are all, you give her the benefit of the doubt. Pat her little head and say, "all will be fine. Don't worry that you have put us all down. Don't worry that you insult the women in this job you use to have. It is ok."
Whatever - she needs a swift kick in the ass in the right direction or to just shut up and live in the oh-so-horribly rich lifestyle she put herself in. Harsh? Maybe but truthful and clearly needed.
Some of the women here are true single mothers, working hard. Some of the women here did have real shit lives, out at the young of 14-16. Fought for everything they have and continue to fight to keep it. That is what harsh truly is. Not a prissy 25 year with a diva complex.
yes. I did not know about the 1/2 rule till long after we were married. I just discovered more money in our joint account than I expected and found out why it was there. I had to work for everything in my life. I was scared to just go play. THe trust fund was put in place long after we were married, and it was his idea so I could go play boat bum and not be worried.
I'm happy for you and hope it all works well.
It sounds like you're suited for each other, he was looking for a gorgeous young woman who was sexually compatible and you wanted security and a wealthy lifestyle.
As far as your questions, you're obviously intelligent enough to know the answers. You know guys see escorts for various reasons and you found one who is very unique in why he came on here.
You want to share this good news with someone and we're the only ones who you can confide in. We can understand your perspective better than anyone you meet in your new life.
I don't mind hearing your thoughts, but you know it's a good idea to move forward at some point.
I only skimmed this thread, but seriously, if you're happy together then who cares why. If you love him for his money, and he's a-okay with that, then all the power to you. Better to be upfront about it then have him standing there dumbfounded if somewhere down the line he loses a lot of money and in the process, you. People dissect their relationships unnecessarily.
Ok kick her in the ass and yes, you're right....a 18 yr old can be excused but when 20-21yr old men are dying in Afghanistan, a 25yr old ought to know better.
I'm with you.
But even in the "real world", 35yr old women are clueless. They might have good jobs and they might have good education and everything else, but they feel entitled and feel that they need Doctor Brad Pitt and nobody else is good enough.
So in that context, this 25yr old isn't the worst of the lot IF and only IF she takes this thread as sincere input and doesn't screw over this guy and does the right thing by him and their relationship.
I'm with you.
But even in the "real world", 35yr old women are clueless. They might have good jobs and they might have good education and everything else, but they feel entitled and feel that they need Doctor Brad Pitt and nobody else is good enough.
So in that context, this 25yr old isn't the worst of the lot IF and only IF she takes this thread as sincere input and doesn't screw over this guy and does the right thing by him and their relationship.
