can't stand this kind of hobbyist...

[Rylan]

1) If this happened it was just wrong. Not surprising, but wrong...

2) I didn't check fabulous's posts, but I checked the OPs-- and she has 14 (as of now) posts, all negative, and one where she necroed a dead thread to share her 'girl power' with an SP who posted a client's mail. (Who later apologized and redacted her posts.)

I'm all for industry gals coming here and sharing their POV. It's interesting and insightful, and in many cases is plain just good marketing... But if you're retired, and have nothing positive to say (Except for maybe one post to Sheik), nothing to do but bag on clients / johns, and with nothing to do besides rally the girls with your 'girl power', umm, you might not want TERB and you might want therapy.

IMHO.

And how many guys are here that don't even use the services of a sex worker, yet bag on woman all the time.

What is good for one is good for the other.

Anyway, I am outta here. This thread is dry and the opinions of some are just ridiculous, and those are the ones that are going to back over and over and over to justify it to themselves. I am already bored with their first attempt.

 

[Angela@Mirage]

1) If this happened it was just wrong. Not surprising, but wrong...

2) I didn't check fabulous's posts, but I checked the OPs-- and she has 14 (as of now) posts, all negative, and one where she necroed a dead thread to share her 'girl power' with an SP who posted a client's mail. (Who later apologized and redacted her posts.)

I'm all for industry gals coming here and sharing their POV. It's interesting and insightful, and in many cases is plain just good marketing... But if you're retired, and have nothing positive to say (Except for maybe one post to Sheik), nothing to do but bag on clients / johns, and with nothing to do besides rally the girls with your 'girl power', umm, you might not want TERB and you might want therapy.

IMHO.

This site becomes more amusing by the second. It would make for an awesome psyche paper that's for sure!

 

[The Options Menu]

And how many guys are here that don't even use the services of a sex worker, yet bag on woman all the time.

What is good for one is good for the other..

Well, yeah... and I'm fully anticipating getting my head ripped off, but it is an escort review board and all... and by all means the ladies should be able to vent... but for Christ's sake, her first post was about how she a a job interview with a guy who turned out to be a former client and she should have cried rape for shits and giggles.

Check her posts yourself and go from there before you assume I'm bagging on the women here.

 

[ogibowt]

I dunno, it could go either way.

I guess since you never felt any sort of rapour with him (he didn't know your real name, etc.) he was being naive to think that there was every anything between the two of you.

I have only seen 1 SP in the last several years. I know her real name, I know her story, she knows mine. I like her very much. If I was walking down the street with a group of friends and saw her, I would have no problem stopping to say hi to her. If I was in a line in a restaurant and saw her, I would ask her to join us. I would have no problem with that either.

If however, she had a problem, then I would respect that.

But in either case, I would not be bringing up the hobby with her in public, or any other sort of details.

i have a story and it involves you James...back in 03 when i was seeing SPs.i was out on a date[off the clock] with a high profile SP..she posted on this board...anyway we were walking down Yonge St and she said to me that we had just passed James T Kirk..i guess you guys made eye contact perhaps..but she only said this apparently when you became out of sight.. she showed some class that day.and so did you ...

 

[Captain Fantastic]

i have a story and it involves you James...back in 03 when i was seeing SPs.i was out on a date[off the clock] with a high profile SP..she posted on this board...anyway we were walking down Yonge St and she said to me that we had just passed James T Kirk..i guess you guys made eye contact perhaps..but she only said this apparently when you became out of sight.. she showed some class that day.and so did you ...

Well, except for the fact that she outed Mr. Kirk to you... There are many aspects to discretion in this hobby and she trampled all over a big one.

 

[ogibowt]

Mr Captain..you need a remedial reading course...only when he was out of sight did she tell me..re read my post..sheesh..........

 

[Captain Fantastic]

Mr Captain..you need a remedial reading course...only when he was out of sight did she tell me..re read my post..sheesh..........

Mr. ogibowt/twobigo: I did read and understand your post. You apparently missed my point which was that she should have never told you who JTK was at any point. She had no idea if you caught a glance of him or not.

And I'll even refrain from taking a shot at your comprehension skills... particularly when it comes to the meaning of the word "discretion."

BTW, if she was looking at you the entire time and knew that you didn't catch even a glimpse of JTK (which would mean that she wasn't looking at him at any point), then I apologize...

 

[ogibowt]

Dont be so anal about a little story from 6 years ago..move on...

 

[ogibowt]

Mr. ogibowt/twobigo: I did read and understand your post. You apparently missed my point which was that she should have never told you who JTK was at any point. She had no idea if you caught a glance of him or not.

And I'll even refrain from taking a shot at your comprehension skills... particularly when it comes to the meaning of the word "discretion."

BTW, if she was looking at you the entire time and knew that you didn't catch a glimpse of JTK (which would mean that she wasn't looking at him), then I apologize...

apology accepted ..ignore my above post..

 

[tboy]

Rylan: did you miss the part where I said the dude was wrong? Guess so. Want to borrow my contact lens'????

As for verbal diarrhea, I guess you'd know eh? You're right up there with me! lol

As for fault, yeah, if an sp is dumb enough to use her personal phone for her sp business, yeah, it's her fault and to compare that to a woman getting raped, well, that's just dumb. Kind of like someone using their real name as a handle here on terb then complaining because people know his real name....(both are stupid moves).

Oh, since you have a reading comp problem, I didn't say the OP IS fabulous, I said (and you even quoted me) her posts have the undertones of Fabulous' posts. Since you don't understand, let me explain it to you: both have this underlying "tone" of hatred towards men in general and one of anger.

As for saying it is ok, don't put words in my post please. I never said it was OK, I said it shouldn't be unexpected because in case you don't realize it, GUYS DO THAT!!! DOH

 

[Captain Fantastic]

Dont be so anal about a little story from 6 years ago..move on...

apology accepted ..ignore my above post..

Sir! Yes, sir!

 

[tboy]

It's called empathy with maybe a sprinkling of perspective and common sense. Some people have it, others don't.

That's tboy logic at its finest once more. I pray for the day he's with a girl on a serious date and an escort comes up to him and says "Hey tboy, how you doin'? It's been a long time - I'd love to see you again!" while slipping him her phone number. Somehow, I don't think it would be all cool then.

Actually, if she wasn't cool with it, then she wouldn't be the woman for me. See, the big difference here folks is I HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE. I don't shout from the rooftops that I see sp's, but if anyone asked I'd tell them the truth.

The problem with you people is you're somehow somewhat ashamed of the fallout of someone daring to find out what you do/did/were. I for one (just recently) had a convo with an sp that I would have no problem dating a woman who worked as an sp because WHO AM I TO JUDGE?

 

[Angela@Mirage]

Actually, if she wasn't cool with it, then she wouldn't be the woman for me. See, the big difference here folks is I HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE. I don't shout from the rooftops that I see sp's, but if anyone asked I'd tell them the truth.

The problem with you people is you're somehow somewhat ashamed of the fallout of someone daring to find out what you do/did/were. I for one (just recently) had a convo with an sp that I would have no problem dating a woman who worked as an sp because WHO AM I TO JUDGE?

YOU ARE NOT THE SERVICE PROVIDER SWEETHEART. I think it is great that you do not judge service providers, but with all due respect, we love our privacy and like to maintain a balance between fantasy and REALITY.

 

[timy]

hey I say of you work in this business expect this shit happening to you is not like sp are working for the space center with high end jobs sending rovers to mars.??

 

[Angela@Mirage]

hey I say of you work in this business expect this shit happening to you is not like sp are working for the space center with high end jobs sending rovers to mars.??

THANKS FOR THE INPUT.

 

[tboy]

YOU ARE NOT THE SERVICE PROVIDER SWEETHEART. I think it is great that you do not judge service providers, but with all due respect, we love our privacy and like to maintain a balance between fantasy and REALITY.

Never said I was dear....and I can understand why some like to keep parts of their lives separate and that is their choice. But please, don't bitch at us when (in the words of George Castanza) those two separate worlds collide lol....

 

[The Houdini]

As I sympathize with EXGFE's plight. Sp's need to understand that since they provide a fantasy to many homely and lonely men, they do set themselves up for this kind of encounter.

You said this client had seen you 3 times, which means you made him feel special and desireable (just doing your job). You may have paid him compliments to boost his ego in return for future business. And now this fool feels like you may actually really like him. So he approaches you in public thinking it's OK, and that you'd be sooo delighted to see him.

Hobbyists need to understand that regardless of how an SP makes you feel, it's all superficial and fantasy based pleasure for money.

If you want the real thing get a girlfriend.

 

[slowandeasy]

It's called empathy with maybe a sprinkling of perspective and common sense. Some people have it, others don't.

That's tboy logic at its finest once more. I pray for the day he's with a girl on a serious date and an escort comes up to him and says "Hey tboy, how you doin'? It's been a long time - I'd love to see you again!" while slipping him her phone number. Somehow, I don't think it would be all cool then.

Captain, your scenario would make me look like a hero, and should have no impact on my current date.

If I was with my wife (who I had been married to for 5 years). exGFE comes by and says "hey slowandeasy, how you doing? It's been a long time. Last year you used visit me every month, what happened? " while slipping me her phone number...

Now that is alot more difficult.

 

[slowandeasy]

BTW, if she was looking at you the entire time and knew that you didn't catch even a glimpse of JTK (which would mean that she wasn't looking at him at any point), then I apologize...

Don't apologize... no matter what the circumstances, she should not have told him anything..

To give her the benefit of the doubt... perhaps she had just seen William Shatner, and not James T. Kirk.

I know first hand that there are many many fools on TERB who have no clue about how to act properly.

I had befriended one member because we seemed to like the same kind of women. He seemed intelligent and discrete, so we shared some information back and forth thru PMs. We had one SP in particular that we both saw regularly. This SP was always asking me about TERB etc, but I told her I had no interest in any kind of review board etc...

I was quite floored when she "outed" me in one of our meetings. I soon became enraged when I found out that my "friend" had copied and pasted my PMs about her to her, including a very important topic that she should not have been given info about.

My point is that if you are going to participate in this industry, you have to be prepared to deal with some (perhaps many) fools.

 

[slowandeasy]

Holy Shit Batman This Treads Going To Blow !

LOL Robin... but that was not rain that was falling just now... it was verbal diarrhea...