can't stand this kind of hobbyist...
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This thread is just killing me.
You didn't say hi, so I'm not good enough for you.
Don't say hi because no one knows what I do for a living.
Say hi because I really like you and would like to get to know you outside the hobby.
God don't say hi, I could be with my SO.
Anyone having trouble reading the signals???...
You didn't say hi, so I'm not good enough for you.
Don't say hi because no one knows what I do for a living.
Say hi because I really like you and would like to get to know you outside the hobby.
God don't say hi, I could be with my SO.
Anyone having trouble reading the signals???...
Your decision to work in this industry is your business, not mine, not the members of this board, or anyone else for that matter. Just make your money and hold your head high.ExGFE said:Boys will be boys...
I was venting. Geez talk about being sensitive considering this is a board where you guys come and say some pretty nasty stuff at times. So just as quickly as you want to call me a ho please remember it takes two to complete the transaction.
Resentment? Please you guys resent girls for being sgfe's some time so please be respectful. I wanna see you hit a rough patch in life finding yourself flat broke and coming to the decision to start escorting, then have to deal with old men, young men, even fine gentleman like some in this thread. I wasn't even really saying anything about my past work. I was talking about some hobbyists that approach and those are the ones to ruin it for the others. And honestly for every bitter 'ho' there is a pig of a man. And actually I don't hate all hobbyists, again one of them is still a very good friend. I totally gained from the hobby. And sorry ifi was unclear but I meant guys that are idiots turn me off and I remember why cock was hated at one point. And trust me as much as I would like to say all the women just love cock and live and die for making that $$$ for sex, it is hardly the case. Why do you think so many girls turn to drugs? It is all about the couping. Luckily I had that good client turned friend that help ground me, deal with a lot of traumitizing events, balance my life with work and reality. I'll tell ya this though I never met another client like him. Anyways, I didn't mean to step on any sensitive toes. Then again I am not worried about lost business or anything so I think I will continue to speak my mind and offer a maybe new angle. Calling me names is not treating me with respect though which is what this board was about. Talk about a boys club...
Where my ladies at? Holla!!!
Knowing many SP's, some active, some retired I hear many stories. For all you guy who think that what he did was not that big of deal, you are not taking into account her feelings at the time that it happened. Sure many things can be said to the nearby friend to make it look like it was nothing, but that is not the point. The only point is that you pay for her time and when you see an escort off hours, you do not engage her in anyway. Those who have said this is a business of discretion are 100% right.
I know many retired SP's who have continued to get emails, phone calls, PM's etc from guys still trying to get some. Worst of all, they think that because the SP is retired and they had such a great time together when she was working, that they can get it for free or for the price of a dinner. Now don't get me wrong, getting laid for free is much better then pay for play, but give your head a shake. She is retired.
So I understand what exGFE s saying. She hates the cock because this guy was thinking with his cock, not with brain. You want to talk about drama, some of you have to stop being so senstive. Want to talk about self loathing. I see more of that with some of the guys in this thread taking offense to what this woman is saying. Reflective of your life maybe. Being an oldie trying to date a youngen.
This is a board many many vent, and that is what she was doing. She is done now, so let it go.
I know many retired SP's who have continued to get emails, phone calls, PM's etc from guys still trying to get some. Worst of all, they think that because the SP is retired and they had such a great time together when she was working, that they can get it for free or for the price of a dinner. Now don't get me wrong, getting laid for free is much better then pay for play, but give your head a shake. She is retired.
So I understand what exGFE s saying. She hates the cock because this guy was thinking with his cock, not with brain. You want to talk about drama, some of you have to stop being so senstive. Want to talk about self loathing. I see more of that with some of the guys in this thread taking offense to what this woman is saying. Reflective of your life maybe. Being an oldie trying to date a youngen.
This is a board many many vent, and that is what she was doing. She is done now, so let it go.
Am I the only one who is getting the impression that ExGFE has the undertones of the ever popular member known as "fabulous" here?
As I said from the start: Yeah, what he did was wrong. Get over it.
Calling yourself a Hooch, Hoochie or why not just call em Hos? Bitches? Sluts? I would never EVER consider any of my friends Assholes, Fucktards, etc. I would never say "Hey, I'm going out with my assholes tonight".
As for the OP, why would ANYONE be surprised that a guy tried to get laid? Is that some newfangled idea or concept? lol. I mean to also realize some guy was thinking with his dick? That is not a new concept either lol.
As for the bonehead things guys do, get used to it. We will always do bonehead things just as women do (only in a different way lol).
As for guys contacting sp's that have retired. If she didn't cancel her SP phone or never had a phone specific to the biz, then she's not that bright. If she retires there should be no way for an ex client to contact her.
I think we are giving our friends and family too much credit, how the hell would THEY have ANY idea who the person was that approached us? 99.9% of the time (unless you cheated on your wife with an sp which is a whole 'nother topic), if a woman approaches a man when he's with a woman and says "hi how are you? Good to see you again, glad you're doing ok" or whatever, an excuse when asked "who was that"? of "an old friend, a temp that worked at my office, an old co-worker" should suffice unless of course you have given your S.O. a reason to be suspicious.
As for the other examples of running into a former client, I think they are way WAY more embarrassing than the one in the OP. Either way, as I've said, yes, the guy shouldn't have approached Exgfe/Hooch but don't turn this into a life changing event. I mean, it's not like he walked up and shoved his hand down her pants or anything. He fucked up, get over it.
As I said from the start: Yeah, what he did was wrong. Get over it.
Calling yourself a Hooch, Hoochie or why not just call em Hos? Bitches? Sluts? I would never EVER consider any of my friends Assholes, Fucktards, etc. I would never say "Hey, I'm going out with my assholes tonight".
As for the OP, why would ANYONE be surprised that a guy tried to get laid? Is that some newfangled idea or concept? lol. I mean to also realize some guy was thinking with his dick? That is not a new concept either lol.
As for the bonehead things guys do, get used to it. We will always do bonehead things just as women do (only in a different way lol).
As for guys contacting sp's that have retired. If she didn't cancel her SP phone or never had a phone specific to the biz, then she's not that bright. If she retires there should be no way for an ex client to contact her.
I think we are giving our friends and family too much credit, how the hell would THEY have ANY idea who the person was that approached us? 99.9% of the time (unless you cheated on your wife with an sp which is a whole 'nother topic), if a woman approaches a man when he's with a woman and says "hi how are you? Good to see you again, glad you're doing ok" or whatever, an excuse when asked "who was that"? of "an old friend, a temp that worked at my office, an old co-worker" should suffice unless of course you have given your S.O. a reason to be suspicious.
As for the other examples of running into a former client, I think they are way WAY more embarrassing than the one in the OP. Either way, as I've said, yes, the guy shouldn't have approached Exgfe/Hooch but don't turn this into a life changing event. I mean, it's not like he walked up and shoved his hand down her pants or anything. He fucked up, get over it.
I know only 1/200 of the context. It's been a very hard time - those are moccasins that I doubt any of us would want to walk in.Inferno said:
She hates the cock! Get over it.tboy said:
I swear you spew shit like verbal diarrhea but never follow your own advice.
She is not to bright to use a business phone so it is her fault, but he is not so bright for walking up to her in public and it is because maybe he doesn't know the rules. Fuck that.
Just because you can justify why some random dude is walking up to you, doesn't mean it is not heart-stopping at the time, but that doesn't matter to you.
Because a guy is going to try everything to get laid, that makes it okay because it is a guy thing. Sorry some men just have more class then that.
I swear, you are one of those types who say it is the woman's fault that she got raped because she was wearing a short mini skirt.
BTW - I think you are the only who thinks that exGFE is FF. She posts alot different and alot longer. You of all people should know this. She uses much bigger words too.
It's called empathy with maybe a sprinkling of perspective and common sense. Some people have it, others don't.
That's tboy logic at its finest once more. I pray for the day he's with a girl on a serious date and an escort comes up to him and says "Hey tboy, how you doin'? It's been a long time - I'd love to see you again!" while slipping him her phone number. Somehow, I don't think it would be all cool then.
That's tboy logic at its finest once more. I pray for the day he's with a girl on a serious date and an escort comes up to him and says "Hey tboy, how you doin'? It's been a long time - I'd love to see you again!" while slipping him her phone number. Somehow, I don't think it would be all cool then.
1) If this happened it was just wrong. Not surprising, but wrong...tboy said:
2) I didn't check fabulous's posts, but I checked the OPs-- and she has 14 (as of now) posts, all negative, and one where she necroed a dead thread to share her 'girl power' with an SP who posted a client's mail. (Who later apologized and redacted her posts.)
I'm all for industry gals coming here and sharing their POV. It's interesting and insightful, and in many cases is plain just good marketing... But if you're retired, and have nothing positive to say (Except for maybe one post to Sheik), nothing to do but bag on clients / johns, and with nothing to do besides rally the girls with your 'girl power', umm, you might not want TERB and you might want therapy.
IMHO.
edit: 'good marketing' as in they seem smart and often have a sharp wit, and brains are sexy...
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