I am the same in those regards too, just so we are clear.
I think that parents are male and female and kids should not always go to mom and dad should always pay support.
I think if you have women only gyms, then you should allow for male only ones too.
I think that disabled and children are a different discussion, but would not support exclusion in this regarded if applied to them.
My point is very simple. Everything has its good and bad. Inclusion is great, but it has its draw backs, and this is one of them. Don't scream, fighting, claw, etc to get inclusion, just to then decide you want some exclusiveness. When it comes to white and male, there is no room ever for exclusion. So when it comes to different races, religion or sex, don't be exclusive.
I am not saying play tit for tat, I am saying you take the good with the bad.