So many girls who have never been SBs or escorts in their life running around social media acting like it is absolutely common for SBs to make bank without putting out, and for you to get rich on onlyfans selling only feet pics lmaoI still don't get it. All girls should know what SB really means. Where do they this idea 'nothing sexual' from? There might be some old and rich guys who is retired from sexual relation and allowing them to have luxury life
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Thissssss.
I swear to God it has ruined sites like fetlife. Fetlife used to be okay because there were two types of women on it. Pro's and non-pro's. Pro's offering all services and non-pro's were in it for the lifestyle and not looking for money at all. Now the site is absolutely saturated with women calling themselves "findoms" and only they offer two services: 1) pics of their feet 2) they will write to you calling you scum bag or whatever name it is you like to be called...lol. I get into arguments on the site all the time because I tell them they're not "doms" at all. This new term "findom" that has been made up is alternative for e-begging...lol.
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Unless it changed from when I was last on SA, women did not have to pay to message.
I pay 1000 for an overnight once a month, hotel an extra 60 - 150, uber 50 there and back, occasionally we'd go on dates(pre covid) so that had a cost too. I also bought her a couple expensive gifts a few times. I get to do it raw though, and she isn't involved with anyone else, and it's nice being in a pseudo relationship.
I'm thinking of getting rid of her though, we haven't seen each other in months because of covid, but I promised her the money each month and we'll meet up eventually and just have a few overnights. She barely responds to messages, usually days, but sometimes weeks. It's kind of hard to dedicate that money each month to someone who doesn't reciprocate anything back, like sending pics ever so often. I'm not needy and want to talk every day or anything, just once every few weeks let me know how she's doing.
I decided to start looking for a new sb or two to replace her, at least see what my options are. It's a pretty tough time on SA though, a lot of them aren't interested in hooking up, some want you to impress them with conversation before even talking about sex. Some are expecting way too much, like 2000 a meeting. I've only been messaging the most attractive girls on there though. Ideally I'd be happy with a 7/10, meet up for 3-4 hours once a month for 500.
I'm thinking of getting rid of her though, we haven't seen each other in months because of covid, but I promised her the money each month and we'll meet up eventually and just have a few overnights. She barely responds to messages, usually days, but sometimes weeks. It's kind of hard to dedicate that money each month to someone who doesn't reciprocate anything back, like sending pics ever so often. I'm not needy and want to talk every day or anything, just once every few weeks let me know how she's doing.
I decided to start looking for a new sb or two to replace her, at least see what my options are. It's a pretty tough time on SA though, a lot of them aren't interested in hooking up, some want you to impress them with conversation before even talking about sex. Some are expecting way too much, like 2000 a meeting. I've only been messaging the most attractive girls on there though. Ideally I'd be happy with a 7/10, meet up for 3-4 hours once a month for 500.
I block any women with "platonic" or "online only" in their profile. No interest in that type of relationship and I don't want to waste my time seeing their profile more than once. I wish there was a search setting that excluded profiles with keywords I could enter.I still don't get it. All girls should know what SB really means. Where do they this idea 'nothing sexual' from? There might be some old and rich guys who is retired from sexual relation and allowing them to have luxury life
Money has value and I do not hand it out without receiving reasonable value in return. You want to be platonic? Cool. I'll buy dinner. That's it.
Astonishing that some think we are paying ~$500 a meet to only look and talk, while also paying for dinner/activity? Some of these girls need to give their head a shake. I hope they invest well, as eventually the looks and the body will no longer carry them through life and they will need something else to survive.
If she isn't attending to your needs, I suggest stop with 1k allowance. It's already steep for a once a month rendezvou.
And I honestly think that exclusivity is hogwash just to sweeten the pot.
Yeah it's hard at this point though, I've known her for 2 years now, and I promised her I'd take care of her at least until she graduated, which is pretty soon. So that she didn't have to take on any part time work while she was in school, especially during the pandemic.
In a few months I wouldnt mind just cutting ties with her, if I could get someone to replace her. I keep reading guys saying they're getting offers for 300-500 for multiple hour meetups but I havent had that kind of success so far. I'm early 30s, have abs, make 6 figures. Still a lot of trash to filter through.
Go back to dating pool, you're a catch. Best of luck
Be honest and communicate. Be clear what you are looking for.for the right price you can fulfilñ your fantasies on this site. as always. You get what you pay for. I've had great experiences so far but I do in all.fairness only have a sample size of 4
So she's ignoring you for a grand a month, nice.
Thanks, I know. I am a ray of sunshine
. It's that evident even through the computer?Having a chick say "platonic" on her profile doesn't necessarily mean she's not down to hook up. My current sb/gf had on her profile "platonic first and if we can hit it off we can meetup". I sent a straightforward message to usually any chick I find cute which is "Are you down for a fwb arrangement" which sorta does and doesn't imply ppm. I'm 24 and state on my profile that I'm mainly looking for a fwb arrangement where we can smoke some weed and grab food and hook up. Even most "platonic only" profiles are down for like 200-300 with me
Personally, I don't waste my time with girls who put in their profiles things like platonic, online only, let's chat...And the ones that want your number right away, and then start offering videos, pic packages and shit like that...I can't block them fast enough.
Those ones linking their onlyfans, and the ones that start asking you to send them $ right away for food or some other random excuse
