Average pay per meet for SB
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This is concerns me about the site. They want 100 bucks a month in order to read your messages, but yet it seems rife with bull shit messages. I just signed up last week and have gotten a ton of messages, half are not even from Canada or Toronto.
Secondly, why not just message the women and say "hey, I can't read your messages on here because I don't have a premium account, but lets start talking through my email bbl@whatever.com to see if we have a fit".
Basically, they are saying that they want your money and don't want to have sex with you LOL. You can move on with other girls and stop talking with them. Hopefully, one day in their long future they will find a man who generously gives them money without having sex with them LOL.
Females can send at no cost. However you cannot read unless you pay.
Men cannot read received messages or send messages without the subscription. This is SA’s business model.
Leave your profile up and come back after a few months. You will have multiple messages waiting but again, you must pay to read them. It’s the hook SA has to get you to pay.
Below is an example of what I meant when I said that a lot of these girls have a different concept of what a SB/SD arrangement is. They are not necessarily trying to get away with an arrangement with no sex, they just honestly don't understand it.
I would prefer to have a traditional SB/SD arrangement so that we really get to know each other but I want no strings attached or to be friends with benefits.
Well, these two things are mutually exclusive. A traditional arrangement means that sex is involved. They honestly just do not understand as opposed to having some kind of plan. They seriously believe that they are princesses in a fairy land. Like Xandermate said: "things doesnt work that way in this world."
I would prefer to have a traditional SB/SD arrangement so that we really get to know each other but I want no strings attached or to be friends with benefits.
Well, these two things are mutually exclusive. A traditional arrangement means that sex is involved. They honestly just do not understand as opposed to having some kind of plan. They seriously believe that they are princesses in a fairy land. Like Xandermate said: "things doesnt work that way in this world."
"If you can not meet, do you guys still pay weekly/monthly allowance?" HELL NO !
As for these SB that wanted weekly allowance but committed to nothing - I'm sure they can find another SD that have a lot of money to threw around. However, if you are willing to provide such arrangement - she will definitely friend-zone you.
Honestly, if your SB doesn't meet you half-way, you just ignored them and cut them off. Cause you are definitely being friend-zone or taken for granted. You need to show who is the SD or financial provider. It's time to move on my friend.
I had an arrangement with a late 30's Mommy . Met originally 5 years ago . Lasted @ 4 months. $150 per session for @ 90 minutes. Often took her to at vacant suite in a building I used to work in ( I didn't have more time). Yah , I'm frugal . Pickup and drop off at GO. The 1st encounter was the most memorable. I Emailed her, at New Years, Canada Day etc. 2.5 years ago we started meeting again - off and on. Eventually meetings became longer, 4-5 hours encounters. I picked her up from GO station and we went to a No tell motel . Her ppm was raised to $200. I saw SPs and another lady on the side. She found out and dropped me for a couple of months.
Started up again . She wanted $300/session. Because of CoVid , I agreed. Sessions were highly variable. She was engaged and super horny , if we hadn't met in a few weeks. her request was for weekly visits . But, she was often tired out , from working late in the night . One and done. Recently , she hosted a few times at her place, because of CoVid restrictions. I gave her extras for every meeting: brought her my home baking, groceries, took her boots and purse to get repaired etc. Always finished with giving her a massage. In the fall , I paid for half of the cost of a purebred puppy and made arrangements with a local breeder. Two weeks ago , she requested $500 /4-5 hour meet ! She is moving to a new larger condo. ....
No , that's not going to work for me. Still a nice body , but she has put on weight. Kissing is an issue. Never really her thing . Often the dreaded head turn . I consider her greedy now and rarely think about her. Haven't contacted her since the " Dear John " email.
I still have 2 semis , but I'm looking again .... it's a crapshoot and time consuming ; worse than pre CoVid.
Started up again . She wanted $300/session. Because of CoVid , I agreed. Sessions were highly variable. She was engaged and super horny , if we hadn't met in a few weeks. her request was for weekly visits . But, she was often tired out , from working late in the night . One and done. Recently , she hosted a few times at her place, because of CoVid restrictions. I gave her extras for every meeting: brought her my home baking, groceries, took her boots and purse to get repaired etc. Always finished with giving her a massage. In the fall , I paid for half of the cost of a purebred puppy and made arrangements with a local breeder. Two weeks ago , she requested $500 /4-5 hour meet ! She is moving to a new larger condo. ....
No , that's not going to work for me. Still a nice body , but she has put on weight. Kissing is an issue. Never really her thing . Often the dreaded head turn . I consider her greedy now and rarely think about her. Haven't contacted her since the " Dear John " email.
I still have 2 semis , but I'm looking again .... it's a crapshoot and time consuming ; worse than pre CoVid.
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Historically, I've had two great experiences 1 for over a year, the other for over 6 months...only ended due to a move. $400 ppm ....and we met roughly 4 times a month. So it was about $1600 a month. Each meet-up was never based on "time clock" it was ..let's hang for an evening. Sometimes we would chill, drink, eat, have great sex for a few hours...chill some more. sometimes it was would be more brief... just right into the bedroom after some wine. Sometimes she wanted to spend the night ( out of convenience and being able to just pass out in bed after a great evening rather than drive or uber home - safer). She enjoyed an evening away from her place and roommate, and she could come over just chill and we have a fun time.
So perhaps more expensive than an average SP rate, but cheaper than a premium SP given the experience was more genuine, good fun and laughs without any complications.
I enjoy having something like that....might be time to start a new one.
So perhaps more expensive than an average SP rate, but cheaper than a premium SP given the experience was more genuine, good fun and laughs without any complications.
I enjoy having something like that....might be time to start a new one.
I've had a few very promising potential SBs. New profiles. Several messages back and forth. Then their profile is deleted after 2 days. Perhaps they realize an arrangement isn't for them . Or, they are in a hurry to get some cash from the 1st suitable guy. Most SBs aren't in any hurry to meet in person currently.
anyone calculated and compare fee per hr with agency girls vs fee per hr with sb? Seems like agency girls require less hassle, time, money per hour than chasing sb pussies...am I right?
is SA still suspending accounts for ppm talk? do you have to disguise it as per month divided by number of dates or something like that? or do you just switch to texts or other messenger to discuss it?
Example: $400-600 ppm for 4 hours of time with a SB vs $800-$1,000 for a 4 hour date with most incall SP's and $1,400 for 4 hours with an outcall agency like Cupids.
Yes the SP comes expecting most/all of the time to be sex focused - but so can the SBs. Clients who entertain longer dates (reviews in the Outcall section if you like to see more in detail) will often have a 3-5 hour date with a SP include time relaxing, dinner, etc.
SBs that include intimacy with you are 'per hour' cheaper than multi hour SP visits.
Where the comparison is not typically feasible is comparing time spent together - SP's are available for 1 hour, many for 45 and even 30 minute sessions at known prices. Majority of SBs are not interested in seeing you for just 1 hour and a much lower ppm.
In the end, set your budget, decide what you want the most and enjoy SP's or SB's, whichever (or both, lol) suit you best.
I've told some of them: I'm not that lonely. I have fiends and relatives to talk to for free. Usually it's just "I have no interest in any online arrangements".
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