Average pay per meet for SB

[Akila Besos]

Designer outfits and the word "spoil" are the axe for me lol

Spoil is varying i think

Such as spoil with attention when its just the two of you

Or spoil with fancy trips and all that jazz


If its me i shall take the only time in the room or something

 

[rogerdodger]

Totally agree. My provider that I bought a house with in Montreal for her and her two young boys. Was the fun at first until her EX showed up and the nightmare was painful. I had another in Toronto who got beat up by her boyfriend. I let her stay in my place came back it was empty. She took off with the same guy that beat her. I don't get it!

Pay and play. It starts off good but over time it blows up in your face. It starts out small. A hundred here and there. Then a few thousand, then they need help for this or that. Next thing you know you are in so deep you think you might get it back. Only to be suckered in for over $100,000.

Man give what you feel comfortable but when they cry because they need money it is over. Some become very good. You do not know they are even doing it to you. They way I look at it is it is not their fault because I fall for it. Cut it off before it gets there. I am a sucker for a pretty face and emotion when it comes to providers. Funny in my real life I am an asshole.

Bro - you have way more money the me ! Buying houses ? WTF ? I'm in it for a couple of grand and that's it.

 

[ScrubsFan]

Bro - you have way more money the me ! Buying houses ? WTF ? I'm in it for a couple of grand and that's it.

With that sort of money, I'd just drive around a fancy lambo and have em come to me. All I can show off atm is my old Toyota Corolla so I may need a better job

 

[GGGDickson]

Bro - you have way more money the me ! Buying houses ? WTF ? I'm in it for a couple of grand and that's it.

What can I say I am an idiot. I have made some big mistakes over the years. It is only money. It comes and goes but I know I cannot take it with me.

 

[GGGDickson]

With that sort of money, I'd just drive around a fancy lambo and have em come to me. All I can show off atm is my old Toyota Corolla so I may need a better job

Or just enjoy the life you have. Happiness is a state of mind. It is not stuff.

 

[Akila Besos]

Now I'm curious whats the least amount you have given?

Cause id be happy if i got for a whole month like 600ish omg i must be a cheap girl but i don't view that site as a means of income like most SB do

 

[ScrubsFan]

Now I'm curious whats the least amount you have given?

Cause id be happy if i got for a whole month like 600ish omg i must be a cheap girl but i don't view that site as a means of income like most SB do

The least I've given is a shopping trip to Walmart for her groceries which was around $70 ish but during this point in the arrangement we sort of did catch feelings which is how it transitioned into an almost relationship.

But 600 is totally reasonable. Most of my arrangements usually averaged out to about 200 per meet and we would meet like 3-4 times a month.

 

[Mandalorian]

I used to have a SB and averaged about $1k/month, and we’d meet at her place 1/week. It’s pretty much what I would have spent with a lady from Mirage. The biggest advantage for me was the fact I was quite sure I was her only guy (she was a very busy student and pretty much lived in her lab or library) so I enjoyed the exclusivity and the concept that I was really making a difference in her life since I also mentored her professionally.

 

[EntertainmentMan2000]

Why do some SPs specifically mention no sugar babying?

 

[GGGDickson]

I used to have a SB and averaged about $1k/month, and we’d meet at her place 1/week. It’s pretty much what I would have spent with a lady from Mirage. The biggest advantage for me was the fact I was quite sure I was her only guy (she was a very busy student and pretty much lived in her lab or library) so I enjoyed the exclusivity and the concept that I was really making a difference in her life since I also mentored her professionally.

Sounds like a sweet heart of a deal. Well done Mandalorian. How long did you have her?

 

[Mandalorian]

Sounds like a sweet heart of a deal. Well done Mandalorian. How long did you have her?

We kept it up for 2 years until her professional pursuits took her to the states. We are still on great terms but shes engaged now. She was quite pretty, sweet, driven. Total win-win.

 

[MuffDiver]

After a couple of days it seems I've run into a situation where, at first everything was going well with my current SB until I find out she's financially strapped way more than I thought. After having bought her a few things for her house last week , she asked for an "emergency" donation up front to cover a mortgage payment as there was evidently not enough $ to cover what was coming due. I caved and fronted her well over $1000 . She gladly accepted . Well wouldn't you know, 2 days later her schedule suddenly filled up when I tried to book a get together the day before her scheduled weekend away visiting family. Not entirely her fault as I had other things going on as well. So not the best outcome but I understand that shit happens. So after the weekend she returns and we had agreed to a hotel meet ( we both have kids still living at home ) but then other "things" came up on her schedule. I waited a couple of days to get a final confirmation and at the last minute she bailed. It was a good thing I didn't book the hotel as I would have lost the deposit.. Frustrating as hell. It's looking like the trend of more money outside of PPM and less interest in sex. When I mentioned this pattern had a limited timeline she threw a fit ( via text ). I had the wrong attitude, made all the mistakes and accusing me of trying to control her. Probably the beginning of the end. And it was going so nicely.

Sorry for your loss. I have no patience for this sort of request from a woman. While not wealthy, I am not poor either and I plan my larger expenditures. An unplanned $1,000 bill is unacceptable.

 

[GGGDickson]

We kept it up for 2 years until her professional pursuits took her to the states. We are still on great terms but shes engaged now. She was quite pretty, sweet, driven. Total win-win.

Good for you! Remember those special moments. The fact that you are still on great terms is a tribute to you. It reminded me of a young street walker Dawn years ago. I even got invited to her wedding. Crazy. After the wedding I never saw her again. I often wonder about her.

Thanks for sharing. Oh one other thing. The good news is there is another out there that will be a joy to enjoy for another few more years. I had 8 that joined my $100,000 club.

 

[YourBookingAssistant]

Yea I am such an idiot! It was not as bad as the provider that I bought a house for so I could play house and pretend to have a family. It was fun while it lasted but like all rides they come to an end. My lawyer although not pleased, told me at least I never lost half my business. It was not 'common law' as I was paying her as we went. It was SB arrangement before SB were around. I guess if you are not careful a SB might be considered common law. All i know is my lawyer and my accountants keep me from going places I do not want to go.

I have done some pretty stupid things. All in chasing the thrill of "LOVE". You can learn more from my mistakes than my successes. I have had more good than bad. But I learned long ago I enjoy the first adventures but I hate the endings.

Oh well it is the moment that matters. Just enjoy the moment. If you read my adventures with Lauren Ross you will get the idea.

You have any fantasies you might enjoy living out?

You're not an idiot; I believe you trusted blindly.. it's different! I will definitely look for it out of curiosity!
Wait before giving your everything, you want something that is mutual.

 

[Akila Besos]

Why do some SPs specifically mention no sugar babying?

I think it comes down to the relationship being built when in an SB/SD relation

At the some token some prefer the purely physical aspect with both parties getting what they want

Lets say I wanna be a SB to a client or something that generally means i enjoy that person and am not realistically all about their money. I wanna know them as a person and work on the fantasy which interests us both

 

[shack]

I think that I accomplished the gold medal of "sugaring".

In conversation yesterday with a 21 year old SB that I've seen semi-regularly for about 3 years, she agreed that we can move on from SD/SB to being fuck buddies. I used to give her $300.

She always sleeps over and has to drive about 45 minutes. I told her that I'd compensate her for the gas and she was good with that.

 

[Leimonis]

Why do some SPs specifically mention no sugar babying?

AFAIK they don't want diluting the hourly rate. Mirroring the reason many hobbyists want sugar babying.

 

[IMBob]

Way to go Mr Shack !

 

[Gstep]

I think that I accomplished the gold medal of "sugaring".

In conversation yesterday with a 21 year old SB that I've seen semi-regularly for about 3 years, she agreed that we can move on from SD/SB to being fuck buddies. I used to give her $300.

She always sleeps over and has to drive about 45 minutes. I told her that I'd compensate her for the gas and she was good with that.

Careful now, it may turn into a relationship before you know it

How how many times did you see her and what is your age gap?

 

[Leimonis]

has anyone created a fake SB account to see what other SDs are offering? I am too lazy to do that but I have a feeling that some SDs are offering (and some SBs indeed are asking for) money per meet that could pay for duos from good agencies.