After a couple of days it seems I've run into a situation where, at first everything was going well with my current SB until I find out she's financially strapped way more than I thought. After having bought her a few things for her house last week , she asked for an "emergency" donation up front to cover a mortgage payment as there was evidently not enough $ to cover what was coming due. I caved and fronted her well over $1000 . She gladly accepted . Well wouldn't you know, 2 days later her schedule suddenly filled up when I tried to book a get together the day before her scheduled weekend away visiting family. Not entirely her fault as I had other things going on as well. So not the best outcome but I understand that shit happens. So after the weekend she returns and we had agreed to a hotel meet ( we both have kids still living at home ) but then other "things" came up on her schedule. I waited a couple of days to get a final confirmation and at the last minute she bailed. It was a good thing I didn't book the hotel as I would have lost the deposit.. Frustrating as hell. It's looking like the trend of more money outside of PPM and less interest in sex. When I mentioned this pattern had a limited timeline she threw a fit ( via text ). I had the wrong attitude, made all the mistakes and accusing me of trying to control her. Probably the beginning of the end. And it was going so nicely.