Are white clients less likely to be problem clients?

[VinnyBuff]

If an SP cares about size, and doesn't want it too small then I don't think she'd want to see Asian clients, if she doesn't want it too big I don't think she'd want to see Black clients.

If I were to ever see an SP I would probably only see a white or latina/hispanic woman. It's just my personal preference, I'm not really attracted to Asian or Black women. I have no problem with them otherwise, I just don't think they're attractive. If the client can choose to only see SP's of a certain race, I think the SP should be able to choose the clients they want, if they're independent of course.

 

[Back Burner]

my reason to only see white clients is from My personal experience,have nothing to do with anyone else or anything else.
I found the white clients are the best of everything!other colour maybe some good,but some are terrible(I have met some terrible asian before),so I Only want to see white guys!because they always treat me the best!and they are completely the perfect!I am not perfect,but they are perfect!I always have the excellent time with white clients!they are the most important people in my life!they are the people I have to see and have to spend all my time to be with!
again-it's just my personal choice!because you are talking about me,that's why I answer!I don't care what other people think I am right or wrong,it's my business,have nothing to do with other people.

You should be careful who you put on a pedestal. It may come crashing down on you one day.

 

[Mongrel4u]

Saying that Whites tend to come from wealth and Blacks come from poor does not determine ones decency. Decency can come from people who are poor or rich .I disrespect one who places class as one who has monetary wealth and not on there level of decency.

but habits that can have a great effect on decency usually spawn from certain social levels

 

[Mongrel4u]

Mongrel4u----> okay, okay, maybe black men are not ALL huge but i must say, i've never seen one who was "small" per se. And i'm guessing, or actually hoping that the guys in the change rooms are not hard, lol, so you're not actually getting the full idea, if you know what i mean!

xoxoArielxoxo

I should come see you to dispel that myth lol

Hmmmm..????? The only thing that comes to mind is "fresh meat", lol.....Tina honey, are you trying to say that you don't need friends or family because you have your "amazing" white "CUSTOMERS"?? I can't see that being healthy, but your join date is only Nov 2007, give it some more time!!!
xoxoArielxoxo

Shes just playing it up... lol what a HAM

Dont mind it Ariel

 

[timy]

I was spoiled by my white customers,after met them,I gave up other race customers,no need boyfriend and no need husband,no need family or friend and anything else,my white customers give me everything I want!

you are really white wash

 

[S.C. Joe]

If an SP cares about size, and doesn't want it too small then I don't think she'd want to see Asian clients, if she doesn't want it too big I don't think she'd want to see Black clients.
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Ha, I was wondering when that was going to come up. Ok I do believe f or the most part it can be true but isn't hight have more to do with it? Like I could understand a short SP saying she does not date guy's 6 feet tall or more.

I guess because I have know some great SP's who were black or mixed raced, I get a little upset when I hear how all any race of people are all the same. I also have seen "white trash" people. Yes, here by Detroit we have both. I say the Detroit area is most likely the most divided city by race. Detroit is 80% or more black, other areas are 80% or more white. 1 city near by-Livonia is like 96% white 3% other and like 1/2% black and its a 10 min. drive from Detroit. The Blacks are moving north and west but a few city's they just for some reason do not move too.

Our city has oh 25% blacks-and they cause no more problems than anybody else. Its a bit higher income than that 96% whitey city.

 

[Robio]

I think we are confusing social levels with income

but habits that can have a great effect on decency usually spawn from certain social levels

I think we are confusing social levels with income levels

Decency or classy behavior does not increase or decrease with income, actually I find some of the least classy things done by the Rich. Not saying all Rich people lack Class or decency just saying the wealth has little to do with actual decency. Some of the most Decent people I know came from poor or middle income backgrounds. I think it is a big misconception that money would determines one social status and if it did one could be the most decent classy scumbag simply because they are rich.

 

[Robio]

What do you say to an ad that says

Ha, I was wondering when that was going to come up. Ok I do believe f or the most part it can be true but isn't hight have more to do with it? Like I could understand a short SP saying she does not date guy's 6 feet tall or more.

I guess because I have know some great SP's who were black or mixed raced, I get a little upset when I hear how all any race of people are all the same. I also have seen "white trash" people. Yes, here by Detroit we have both. I say the Detroit area is most likely the most divided city by race. Detroit is 80% or more black, other areas are 80% or more white. 1 city near by-Livonia is like 96% white 3% other and like 1/2% black and its a 10 min. drive from Detroit. The Blacks are moving north and west but a few city's they just for some reason do not move too.

Our city has oh 25% blacks-and they cause no more problems than anybody else. Its a bit higher income than that 96% whitey city.

What do you say to an ad that says white clients preferred or only and the SP is Black, East Indian, Asian or any other non white race? I will try to find the links I have seen this on but I assure you I have seen it.



Also "25% blacks-and they cause no more problems than anybody else Its a bit higher income than that 96% whitey city"
It is the quality of your character that prevents you from doing the wrong thing not you level of income.

So are you saying that only 50% of the problems are caused by the 25% blacks?

 

[S.C. Joe]

Well if you lived around here you would see that its not race but income for the crime levels of each city. The poorer the city, the more crime it has. Maybe because the higher incomes have more police and private security which scares off the bad guy's. So thats why I think of income. Theres towns that are 80%+ white and have very high crime rates of all crimes from auto crimes to murder, so with my city being 25% black-and low crime-we have like 1 murder maybe every 3 years, I have to say its income not because of a race or lack of a race.

Detroit gets 400+ murders every year and its 15 mins away!! I don't think Toronto is anywhere like that. Even the towns right next to Detroit average like 10-20 murders each year--a big big drop but then Detroit is the poorest city. The USA is not like Canada were the poor still have health care, places to go and eat, no if you have no money then thats just too bad.


As for the black girls that see only white guys, thats wrong. She be out of business fast around here. I have not dated a black girl for over 10 years but its for other reasons than just race. If I had a chance to do the right black lady at the right time, I sure would not turn her down, its just I don't look for them anymore

 

[S.C. Joe]

Ha, the FBI does not list crime by each city, only by states. What a joke. Well you have to take the word of somebody who lived here for 40+ years that the towns right next door to Detroit have way few crimes than Detroit.

If anybody else has a guess why it is besides incomes I like to hear it. Only thing I can think of now that every city right next to Detroit is over 50% black expect for 2 I can think of.

 

[bbclown]

You don't qualify

I was spoiled by my white customers,after met them,I gave up other race customers,no need boyfriend and no need husband,no need family or friend and anything else,my white customers give me everything I want!

Tina my dear you don't qualify to be one of Jessimae's clients (english please...). Sorry.

"Personally I don't care what the colour you are. You can be purple for all I care. Just know how to speak proper English!"

 

[bver_hunter]

I was spoiled by my white customers,after met them,I gave up other race customers,no need boyfriend and no need husband,no need family or friend and anything else,my white customers give me everything I want!

Tina has the right to see who she likes as it is her body and her sexual preference. There are guys irrespective of race that will not want to see a girl from a certain race as they will not find her attractive enough. There are others who are put off because of certain cultural mannerisms, although the girl maybe well educated, with a preference of western food, fashion and behaviour. But all I can say to Tina is that she is totally misguided to think that these clientele will be at her side in her hour of real need. As a personal bit of advice Tina, please do try and maintain some sort of link with your immediate relatives such as parents, brothers or sisters, cousins or real close friends. Try going to see a guidance councillor as you seem like a person who has been really hurt in the past. There are many good reviews about how you are a great girl to know and visit. So I trust that you are it, and hope that everyting works out for you, and you also widen your horizon in the way that you think and feel.

 

[fuji]

To those of you who seem to think that an SP who cuts out clients of a certain background is going to hurt her business "fast" or whatever, my observation is that if the SP is hot she's busy enough. I get the impression for example that Tina is reasonably busy. If there were a hot black girl that only saw white clients I bet she'd be pretty busy too. They key word here is hot. Hot = busy, even if restrictive.

Also not every SP really wants to see 10 guys a day, so if the restriction meant seeing only 4-5 (or 2-3 or whatever her hotness brings in) that might make them happier. Another way to see fewer would be to raise the price a bit--but maybe they'd rather the lower price and no people of that background. It's not ALL about money, after a certain level of income other things start to matter more.

Who are you to say what does or doesn't make them happiest? Their body, their choice, etc.

I also note that with 165 votes on this poll so far about half think Tina is right, another 15% think she's right but that there's a better way. Only about a third think her approach is wrong.

 

[bbclown]

The result of the vote (51%+ saying some racial groups have a higher chance of being bad clients) does not mirror the views of the majority of SPs expressed in this forum, where most of them have said basically that assholes are in every racial group. The vote is biased by male clients' views.

 

[Bear669]

Indeed...

very good post Alexa.

..as usual, the Lady sums it up best, leaving the rest of us with nothing much to add.

 

[fuji]

The result of the vote (51%+ saying some racial groups have a higher chance of being bad clients) does not mirror the views of the majority of SPs expressed in this forum, where most of them have said basically that assholes are in every racial group. The vote is biased by male clients' views.

Maybe the difference is the poll was anonymous.

 

[Mongrel4u]

I think it is a big misconception that money would determines one social status.

No its not the sole determining factor but it sure is a BIG one though....admit it or not; sooner or later it boils down to money.

 

[fuji]

I think your grandparents money determines your social status. This is one reason why immigrants who have squat can raise kids who are pretty classy: while their parents had squat, their grandparents back in the old country were well enough off to be able to instill good values and good upbringing that last a generation or two. Third generation in poverty is the one that starts to be pretty fucked up.

I also wouldn't say this is a universal rule, just a rule of thumb.

 

[S.C. Joe]

Yeah but then what happen to Paris Hilton ?

Comparing rap guy's is not fair since they were born to poor family's. Some how I think their kids won't be just like them--for the better.

But sure money is not everything, many rich people are down right no good. Look at the rich people running company's like Enron, World Com. They "stole" so much money and they were already rich to begin with.

That pig farmer who killed 50+ SP's sold part of his farm for over a million bucks. He was "rich" in my book and that meant nothing I guess.

 

[Robio]

you are so wrong

No its not the sole determining factor but it sure is a BIG one though....admit it or not; sooner or later it boils down to money.

It is not the money ,I have meet some really decent people in the east cost that were poor for many generations .I do not see this quality of character in many. Nothing to do with money if you think it does you have been brutally brainwashed by materialism.
You may be thinking of artificial class like Fraser TV show type character