How would it be B&S? I meet everyone for coffee first to see if there's chemistry and mutual attraction. If the girl ends up not looking anything like her pictures, walk away, just like any date. Same thing happens in the SP world doesn't it?
Anyone have experience with Sugar Baby relationships?
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My premium on SA expires in 18 days, so I'll post an update when the time comes.
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At this point, I've got 2 SBs that I think I'll see regularly with a potential 3rd after we go on a date.
Now I just have to figure out if I want to continue meeting new girls for coffee or not.. Just as a back up plan.
Now I just have to figure out if I want to continue meeting new girls for coffee or not.. Just as a back up plan.
I guess I'll post an update.
Recently, I've started reaching out to older women.. been watching a lot of MILF porn recently and I guess I'm just in that mood right now. Their expectations are lower than girls in their 20s, I don't know if this is because of my age or their age but it seems to be the norm.
It's a different strategy though, with younger SBs, I'm aim for the whole spectrum: GND to DDG. With the older women, I'm strictly aiming for DDG/MILFs though.
I've met one so far, similar body to Francesca Le. I'll spare you guys the details but long story short; it was originally $400 for 6 hours (12pm-6pm), turned into $700 for 22 hours (12pm to 10am). The extra $300 was to pay for dinner, breakfast and snacks. Needless to say, I plan to see her regularly.
I have a few more lined up to meet for coffee to see if their age checks out and whether or not, they look like their pictures. I find older women lie A LOT about their age / pictures...
Recently, I've started reaching out to older women.. been watching a lot of MILF porn recently and I guess I'm just in that mood right now. Their expectations are lower than girls in their 20s, I don't know if this is because of my age or their age but it seems to be the norm.
It's a different strategy though, with younger SBs, I'm aim for the whole spectrum: GND to DDG. With the older women, I'm strictly aiming for DDG/MILFs though.
I've met one so far, similar body to Francesca Le. I'll spare you guys the details but long story short; it was originally $400 for 6 hours (12pm-6pm), turned into $700 for 22 hours (12pm to 10am). The extra $300 was to pay for dinner, breakfast and snacks. Needless to say, I plan to see her regularly.
I have a few more lined up to meet for coffee to see if their age checks out and whether or not, they look like their pictures. I find older women lie A LOT about their age / pictures...
This is incredibly well written and gives a pretty good summary between the subtle differences.
The cultivation is precisely how my 3 longest SD/SB relationships came about. People in standard relationships do not maintain their relationship as long as one of these (3+ years).
No they don't when approached correctly. Some maintain friendship for many years afterward.
It is different... You both have good days, and bad days. You see the ups and downs and in many ways as a sugar relationship progresses you embrace these... You know exactly whom you will spend your evening or afternoon with and you get excited to do so. It doesn't really matter how much of an allowance you get because at the end of the day you know your SD will ALWAYS ensure you are taken care of.
Former SB Extraordinaire,
Lily Divine
For those wondering I will share... I have run the gamut of scenarios:
Shopping Daddy - He was far more comfortable taking me shopping than he ever was handing over an allowance. It was fun, playful, and an amazing day. Always!
Average Day - $500-1000 shopping (I never once asked, but rather tried things on, and let him decide what I was getting) + lunch. I always provided the accommodations. We'd go out once every 3-8 weeks.
My Mentor - He was my sounding board, my confidant, my best friend. There through thick or thin in either of our lives and we still touch base once in a while even now.
Monthly - $300/week + shopping and incidentals. He knew what rent was, and covered it plus a little more. In addition to this we went to dinner, or lunch 1-5 times a week. I truly mean we were together often... If I wanted something expensive in a store it was not unheard of for that to happen also. I would say that between gifts and allowance I was getting an average of $2000-2500/month + incidentals such as food and entertainment which likely totaled well over $1500-2000/month. Sex was fantastic! Always!
My Traveling Eye Candy - What more can I say? Women like eye candy also and I got lucky. I saw him with regularity on his trips to my area. If he was in town... I had NO other plans!
Per-Visit/Trip - $500 for an evening, $1000 for a 24-36 hour visit on average + dinner, his hotel/accommodations, wine, flowers, toys... Dinner was room service always and eaten while entwined with one another naked. ALWAYS! Breakfast was always in bed and there wasn't a chance that I was doing anything the day after other than sleep and read romance novels in a bubble bath.
It's different when it develops to those stages... There is nothing wrong with P4P and to be honest a number of those I see now border on the fringes of this. It just has become more of a very friendly community of friends between them. They all bring something unique to the table, and we keep things in this context to limit the demands and expectations one might otherwise find post transition.
I am a SB. I like it, it's like a girlfriend on call lol. Great dinners, shopping and parties. I usually spend the weekend, and it does save my sd some cash. You do need to define the lines and have clear boundaries. I'm not needy or pushy and i make my own money to, so I haven't had issues. 
Monthly retainers!
Monthly retainers!
Does he know you SP?I am a SB. I like it, it's like a girlfriend on call lol. Great dinners, shopping and parties. I usually spend the weekend, and it does save my sd some cash. You do need to define the lines and have clear boundaries. I'm not needy or pushy and i make my own money to, so I haven't had issues.
Monthly retainers!
Yes lol he knows. Honesty is very important.
some people just need a little more love and attention than an 1 or 2 hour session with a sp. Im an affectionate, drama free person and a good listener. So it works out Anyone try looking for SBs in other cities?... like Montreal for example?..
The thought crossed my mind today, seeing as how we get a couple hotties visiting from Montreal from time to time.. Figured they have something special in their water, didn't do a thorough search but at a glance, WOW. Now I just have to figure out how to make this work...
The thought crossed my mind today, seeing as how we get a couple hotties visiting from Montreal from time to time.. Figured they have something special in their water, didn't do a thorough search but at a glance, WOW. Now I just have to figure out how to make this work...
I have heard tinder is becoming a hotspot for sugar relationships. If you pay for your account you can look at people from specific cities (rather then just those that are nearby.
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